Is he still interested, or is he done? It’s hard to tell when you’re in a relationship with a Scorpio man. He goes quiet, and your mind turns to the worst-case scenario. It’s a natural human response when a Scorpio man stops talking to you…
The Scorpio man is very deep and intellectual. This is often why he chooses a woman who is similar. He wants to talk about things that matter, in person or by text.
There are a multitude of things that you can talk about that will stimulate him, but sometimes he just shuts down on you. What can you do when a Scorpio man ignores your texts?
The truth can be very different, as texting a Scorpio man can be a very erratic experience. This unpredictable guy is complicated. It’s a good idea for you to learn why Scorpios ignore texts.
There are many possible reasons why your Scorpio man stops communicating, and, of course, it can feel like the worst thing ever. But let’s see what we can do about it! Because trust me, not all hope is lost, and there are ways to get him running back to you!
So, if you’re looking for a way to help yourself figure out what to do when a Scorpio stops talking to you, then look no further. I am sure this article will illuminate what you can do about it!
When A Scorpio Man Stops Talking To You, It Leaves You Wondering…
When a Scorpio man stops talking to you, it can be frustrating, but you love him too much to give up the relationship…
The Scorpio man can be a bit complicated at times. He’s one who can become withdrawn, icy, and unresponsive when he’s upset. However, if you ignore him, it will set him off, and it will make him angry.
Here’s more about why ignoring a Scorpio man is the worst mistake you could ever make.
This is part of who he is, and you may not understand it (or want to accept it), but he comes from the element of water. This makes him more emotionally equipped and causes his moods to change on a dime.
Your Scorpio man may be going through things you don’t even know about, and as a result, he closes himself off until he can get back on track. He requires your patience and love.
Despite the fact that his emotions tend to rule him, there are things that could happen when he’s overloaded. Here is a list of examples of what exactly goes on when a Scorpio man is overwhelmed.
When A Scorpio Man Is Angry With You
If you’ve said something that rubbed your Scorpio man the wrong way, he’ll get pissed off. He is very much the “silent treatment” type of guy.
He may not even tell you that he’s mad. A Scorpio will just stop responding to you or initiating contact. He needs time to cool down before he’ll be ready to talk again.
You may also want to read: Scorpio Man Silent Treatment — What To Do When A Scorpio Man Goes Silent
When A Scorpio Man Is Hurt
You may have been trying to joke around with him but alas, he took it to heart, and now his feelings have caused your Scorpio man to pull back from you.
He believes that you think less of him through whatever it was that you said. Of course, if you said this in person, you’ll see his hurt. If it was via text, then he’ll go quiet just like does when he is angry.
Again, give him some time to process his feelings and his thoughts about what you said. When he talks to you again, ask him what it was that upset him so you don’t do it again.
Learn more: Is Your Scorpio Man Pulling Away? Here’s What To Do
He’s Dealing With Something Difficult
This is a hard thing to face, but when he’s coping with something that has nothing to do with you, he may close himself off.
You feel like you did something wrong, but if everything was great before this, it may very well be something else that is eating away at him. He may not want to discuss it with you just yet.
This requires you not to take his silence personally. I know how difficult that is, but if you assume the worse then it may actually make things worse.
Read also: Surefire Signs A Scorpio Man Is Fighting His Feelings For You
More Reasons Why A Scorpio Man Ignores Your Texts
I know Scorpio seems to have lots of reasons why they might ignore texts, but until you find out why you’ve been left in the dark…
When A Scorpio Isn’t Sure That You Are The One
Scorpio men tend to decide what they feel. If they feel something is missing or that there may be someone else better out there, they back down until they figure it out.
They want love that will make them feel that soulmate connection. If that’s missing, then he tends to want to find a way out or take a step back. Either way, it leaves you in the dark.
The very best thing you can do when it gets like this is to pull yourself back for a while as well. Let him think, plan, and do what he has to do. If he figures out that you are right for him, he’ll be back.
Read also: When A Scorpio Man Is Done With You (Will He Ever Talk To Me Again?)
He’s Legitimately Busy
When the Scorpio man is busy with work or anything else, he tends to blow off text messages unless they are emergencies. He prioritizes whatever he’s doing as very important at the time.
Everyone goes through busy times, but not everyone ignores those closest to them. Scorpio does what he thinks is best at the time, but little does he realize how hurtful it is.
Don’t jump to conclusions right away with your Scorpio man, because he could very well just be slammed at work. When he’s home, he can be very tired and isn’t up for talking.
It is difficult to deal with Scorpio man problems. The thing is, when you do things right, he will love and appreciate you more than you ever thought was possible. He’s very romantic and loving, but until you’re able to get him out of this no contact phase he’s going through, you’re going to be hanging out to dry waiting on him.
He Is Moody
Scorpio men can be moody sometimes so when he does have a bad day at work or a bad week, a Scorpio man may not feel much like communicating. He won’t talk about his feelings with you until he has worked it out in his own head. When he does approach you, you need to be caring and understanding.
Whatever you do, don’t chew him out for not getting back to you or he will totally let you go. Just tell him you’ve missed him and were concerned with what was going on with him. He’ll probably apologize for his absence and suggest things to make it up to you.
When A Scorpio Man Ignores Your Texts — Is He Testing You?
Scorpio man tests are something you are going to have to go through if you want to be in a relationship with this guy. So if you’ve been wondering, ‘Why is the Scorpio man ignoring my texts? Is he testing me that way?” Yes, he probably is; it is known as the Scorpio silence test.
A Scorpio man may also be testing you to see how you handle his disappearance via text messages. Will you be there for him in a week or two? Will you spam the heck out of his inbox?
A Scorpio man needs to know these things so that he knows what he can expect if he gets into a deeper relationship with you. The truth is, if you aren’t sure why he suddenly went quiet, then it may be a good idea to text one time and ask him why he went quiet, and then stop texting him for a little while unless he responds.
He may not even really realize that it’s bothering you or that it matters to you when you don’t hear from him or when you don’t text a Scorpio man. Learn more about a Scorpio man testing you here.
Scorpio Man Not Responding To Texts, Should I Wait For Him To Text Me?
No, you should not wait for a Scorpio man to text you first. You would wait for a couple of days to see if he will get back to you eventually, but if he doesn’t, don’t start bombarding him with texts because he will feel the pressure and want to shut down even further with you. If you do that enough, he may even call it quits.
The first thing you need to do when a day or two goes by without contact is to keep your cool. It’s not that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. Not yet, anyway.
If it goes weeks at a time then there is something you can question. A Scorpio man won’t do that unless he’s not into you anymore. Just mere days or even just one week isn’t an end-all for you.
Don’t text him asking him what’s wrong. There may be nothing wrong at all and that question will annoy him. If he wanted to talk about it, he’d reach out to you.
It most likely is just fear or some legitimate reason for not contacting you. Don’t let your worries get the better of you. Blowing up his phone is a huge mistake.
Give him a little time before you reach out again. If he still doesn’t reach out you can do a test text with him saying, “Hi there, how are you?” He should answer but if not, maybe he’s decided this isn’t for him.
If you want to master your Scorpio man’s texting style and know what the best texts are to send your Scorpio, then there is only one thing you should do. Check out my Scorpio Text Magic Guide <<
What To Do When A Scorpio Man Suddenly Stops Contact
When a Scorpio man stops talking to you, it says a lot about him and is no way a reflection of you. His communication skills suck, seriously! You are obviously dealing with a really immature Scorpio man who needs to learn how to treat people better.
Scorpio man’s communication style can be quite challenging to understand, especially because of the fixed quality of this zodiac sign.
So, figuring out what to do next can be daunting, but first ask yourself, would you actually want to see him after he treated you like this in the first place? It is a different story if neither of you have texted at all, he may be thinking the same thing about you as well!
If you feel like it, you can always reach out to him first and tell him that you had a good time. If you hear from him again, then he’s obviously not a bad guy, but if you don’t hear from him I would seriously cut your losses and try to forget about him. He is clearly not someone you should keep around.
The most important thing is that you don’t blame yourself and you find a way in which you can walk away from this experience with your head held high.
Are you worried that a Scorpio man is messing you around? Perhaps you’re getting a sneaking suspicion that he is being deceitful, even though everything might seem fine on the surface? If so, here are telltale signs a Scorpio is playing you.
FAQs On Scorpio Man Not Texting Back
How to know if you can handle a Scorpio man’s unresponsiveness? Well, luckily for you I have compiled questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate your relationship when a Scorpio man stops talking to you.
Why A Scorpio Man Stopped Texting Me After We Slept Together?
When a Scorpio man stops communicating and texting after sex, it can feel really awful. Like you have been used and are no longer good enough. I know it hurts, trust me, I have been there too. It is one of the worst things he can possibly do.
It is very possible that all he wanted from you in the first place was sex… However, chances are much larger that he just feels really uncomfortable with intimacy and is afraid of what he is feeling now that he has slept with you.
You may also want to read: Is Your Scorpio Man Using You? Surefire Signs He Just Wants To Be Friends
My Scorpio Man Suddenly Stops Communicating, Will He Ever Talk To Me Again?
If you notice that your Scorpio guy has stopped communicating with you, most likely he will reach out to you when he feels comfortable again. When a Scorpio man leaves you on read, you may want to let him have that time and space. It should be alright short term. When or if he makes it more long-term then there is a problem that should be addressed.
Give him space to figure things out but it’s up to you how much time you will actually give him before you reach out and tell him that you need to know what is going on or that you’re there if he needs to talk.
Having that open communication will help ease the worried Scorpio man if he’s wondering whether he can rely on you or trust you. In the event that the Scorpio man is distant, you need to reflect on this situation.
Read also: My Scorpio Man Is Ignoring Me, How To Beat Him At His Own Game?
Will A Scorpio Man Miss You After No Contact?
A Scorpio man will miss you, however, it depends on how you behave in the time of his absence. If you just give him space and let him be, he is more likely to miss you and reach out to you than if you put pressure on him and sound needy or clingy. In that case, he won’t miss you nor will he be back.
You need to be unforgettable if you want to make a Scorpio man miss you like crazy. Give him lots of love, attention, and compliments, and treat him like a king. When he’s apart from you, he will miss this.
When a Scorpio Man Doesn’t Text Back, You Can Do This…
It can be so frustrating to send your Scorpio man a text message and see “seen”… But then have no reply for hours or maybe even days.
Why in the world would he do this?
You might start feeling anxious or wondering if he even cares at ALL!
Unfortunately, a lot of dating advice written for men in general just WON’T work with Scorpio. They are wired a bit differently than men of other sun signs.
And if you treat your Scorpio man the same as other men, you might lose him forever.
There are so many dating coaches that tell you exactly what to do when you text your man… And what NOT to do.
Unfortunately, their advice can REALLY backfire with Scorpio.
And there are three specific mistakes you NEVER want to make when texting your Scorpio.
I don’t want you to drive him away. Especially when it can be incredibly easy to capture his heart through text messages…
IF you know what you are doing!
Don’t worry, I’ve got your back!
When you know EXACTLY what to text him… and what to NEVER text him… He will be putty in your hands. And he’ll make sure to reply to you quickly and lovingly.
Go check out what I mean here now so you keep him in your life forever.
xoxo, Anna
