The free spirit and uninhibited style of the female archer are beguiling to a Scorpio man who may quickly move from being tantalized to being frustrated and suspicious when he realizes he cannot tame or control her.
Find out how compatible are Scorpio man and Sagittarius woman and how your planets work together:
Scorpio Man And Sagittarius Woman Chemistry
Where Sagittarius is casual, open and talkative about relationships, Scorpio is secretive, mysterious and very jealous in love, so this combination of fire (Sagittarius) and water (Scorpio) could prove to be a steamy encounter that quickly fizzles out.
You both create drama as you move through life with an intensity that can scare others away, and you are both into the idea of an epic love story, so when you first meet, there is bound to be a strong attraction. As your differences emerge, you can brace yourself for a bumpy ride that will certainly never be boring.
A Scorpio man will do his best to dominate and control a restless Sagittarius woman, but his inability to control her will bring out his dark side. He will want to keep his adventurous fun-seeking woman at home by his side, and she will rebel, as she always does when her freedom is threatened.
Although this is a challenging match, it can work, but both parties have to compromise and keep a cool head when conflict appears, and you will need to work hard to inject compassion and understanding into those instances when your wants and needs are at odds.
The Sagittarius Woman
Life is a great big adventure for Sagittarius, but you prefer to keep it light, and the intensity and dark desires of a Scorpio man may be more than you want or need in your life. You are driven by your ideas, and for you, the greatest form of love is freedom. You love the challenge of an unobtainable and detached lover, which is something a Scorpio man can never be.
Scorpio’s emotional manipulation will prove unbearable to a Sagittarius woman who tends to believe that people are motivated by higher principles. Sagittarius is a great socializer who loves travel and new experiences, and you are often the first to know about a party or a new club, but your Scorpio lover prefers to stay at home, staring into your eyes with deep devotion.
You are not known for diplomacy, in fact, tactlessness is your great downfall, and you often fail to deliver on your promises. You can be counted on when it comes to honesty and if you can make a Scorpio man understand your need for freedom and get him to take you at your word, then you may stand a chance with him.
The Scorpio Man
Scorpio men are driven by the need to experience profound love in committed, almost obsessive, close relationships where absolute devotion is unquestioned. They are very sensitive creatures who often feel misunderstood, and they harbor both rational and deeply irrational suspicion about the motives all people they come into contact with.
Scorpio men are ruled by Pluto the planet of death and transformation, and no issue is too dark, strange, or taboo for their curiosity. With a Scorpio lover, you can really let it all hang out and this is one sign you can trust with your darkest desires and biggest secrets. In return, Scorpio will expect nothing short of absolute love and devotion.
Scorpios biggest challenge is trusting others and learning to be less stubborn and more compassionate when dealing with the shortcomings and weaknesses of others. A Sagittarius woman may be able to teach him a thing or two, but surviving his storms may be another matter.
What Works in Your Relationship
Both Scorpio and Sagittarius are well-defined personalities who will be drawn to each other for reasons neither of you can really understand. Scorpio will be turned on by Sagittarius’ free-wheeling and restless spirit and Sagittarius will be intrigued by brooding mystery and passion of her Scorpio lover.
Because both of you love a challenge the sexual chemistry will probably be explosive but when it comes to romance you face a number of challenges. None of the issues you face together are insurmountable and you can teach each other a lot, but proceed with caution.
What to Watch for
There are some obvious and troublesome differences that Scorpio and Sagittarius will have to negotiate with sensitivity and a willingness to compromise. Scorpio needs security and demands committed loving whereas Sagittarius hates being hemmed in and demands complete freedom.
Scorpio will criticize Sagittarius for lacking direction, focus, and commitment and Sagittarius will think Scorpio is a paranoid control freak. When you argue or disagree things can quickly get out of hand, leaving you both feeling hurt, confused and decidedly turned off.
This hot and steamy match can disintegrate into nasty conflict because you have such different styles and approaches to love. Sagittarius and Scorpio want different things from life, and these differences can overwhelm the initial attraction that draws you into this passionate but difficult affair.
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