So you’ve started dating a Scorpio man and you’re really into him. How do you keep him interested in you and possibly commit later on down the line? Here are some helpful ideas to keep the fires burning with your Scorpio guy.
Be As Loyal As It Gets
You never want a Scorpio man to question your loyalty to him. If you’ve already dedicated yourself to him; you need to know that he will often test your loyalty to make sure you’re above par.
He’s sneaky. He will look into your eyes for clues on whether or not you’re being honest with him. He’ll also watch your behavior. There are some that may even follow their ladies to see where they go and if they are where they say they are.
It’s also possible he throws you some complicated mood swings to see what you may do with them. Stick it out and show him that you’re not willing to throw your hands up and walk away.
Scorpio men are known for going cold when things are seemingly going really well. This is another testing tactic for some of them. They want to see how you react if he suddenly goes silent.
Show him that you are solid and well grounded. Let him know that you’re still there for him and aren’t going to run away. This will make him feel more secure and stop being icy.
Always Tell the Truth
I realize that many people struggle with this. Either you’re afraid you’ll upset him or make him angry so you decide to not say anything. However; when he finds the truth out (and he will), you’re going to regret it.
The Scorpio man is the best detective imaginable. He will find out anything and everything about you and he’ll learn your mannerisms. He will instantly know when you’re lying to him.
If you happen to get it past him and he doesn’t notice right away; he will still figure it out. It’s best to just come clean. Even if it’s something that you know will piss him off or potentially hurt him.
Ultimately; it’s better to be forthcoming with what needs to be said. He’ll get past it and he’ll appreciate that you’ve cared enough to tell him the truth no matter how hard it was for you to do.
It’s possible he will get pissed or hurt but after the smoke clears; he’ll realize that you did your best in making sure he knew the absolute truth. That’s more valuable than just about anything else to him.
Keep Him Happy In Bed
This IS one of those men that you’ll need to keep pleased in the bedroom or he could start to look elsewhere. If he’s committed to you then he’ll be loyal. However; if you aren’t giving him what he needs; he could disconnect.
If he disconnects; he will no longer be “committed”. This is a point you don’t want to get him to. So make sure that sex is a normal part of your routine with your Scorpio guy.
Even if you’re only giving him a hand job because you’re not in the mood for full on marathon sex; you’ll be glad you did it. He’ll be grateful that you’re willing to see to his needs.
This keeps him engaged with your relationship because he often times will do things for you that he’s not exactly in the mood for either but he cares enough about you to go ahead and do it.
Scorpio men equate sex with the love they feel for your partner. If you pull away or start becoming a cold fish in bed; he’ll take that personally and figure you don’t care for him anymore.
Keep up with him as much as you can. It’s ok to not be in the mood every now and then or to have a headache. However; if you’re doing it all the time; something is wrong and you need to figure out how to fix it.
Avoid Making Him Jealous
There is a natural curiosity for some women to want to test the limits and see how jealous their Scorpio man can get. Don’t do it! Even testing him with it will piss him off enough that he may decide to break it off.
Remember he needs loyalty. If you feel the need to test him to see if he’ll get jealous then there is something else wrong in your relationship. That means it’s time to talk to him and work at fixing it.
He will never tolerate anyone trying to purposefully make him jealous. This is disrespectful and a deal breaker. The last thing you want him to think about you is that you’re inconsiderate.
This is definitely something that an insecure and inconsiderate woman may do to play with her Scorpio’s feelings. This is not good, not healthy, and will get you dumped fairly quickly.
Show Him Your Love
Scorpio men are not big on words. He is much like Taurus in that he wants to be shown how you feel. Giving him gifts, showing him how much you care, letting him have the last cookie, etc are ways to give him affection without words.
It’s not that he doesn’t want to hear “I love you”; it’s just sometimes overwhelming if you want to say it all the time. He’d rather just make sure that you two know how you feel about each other via action.
Leave him cute love notes on his bathroom mirror or make him a surprise lunch that he can take to work. Doing things for him will prove to him that you’re into him and care for his well being.
Cooking him nice meals or baking some yummy desserts will win you many favors. It also shows him you’re going to be a tremendous wife and mother. Click here to find out more about what the Scorpio man wants in a woman.
I hope this helps you to maintain or build the perfect love with your Scorpio guy.
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,