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Once You Get a Scorpio Man; How do you Keep him?

How To Keep A Scorpio Man Once You Get Him

So you’ve started dating a Scorpio man and you’re really into him. How do you keep him interested in you and possibly commit later on down the line? Here are some helpful ideas to keep the fires burning with your Scorpio guy.

Be As Loyal As It Gets

You never want a Scorpio man to question your loyalty to him. If you’ve already dedicated yourself to him; you need to know that he will often test your loyalty to make sure you’re above par.

He’s sneaky. He will look into your eyes for clues on whether or not you’re being honest with him. He’ll also watch your behavior. There are some that may even follow their ladies to see where they go and if they are where they say they are.

It’s also possible he throws you some complicated mood swings to see what you may do with them. Stick it out and show him that you’re not willing to throw your hands up and walk away.

Scorpio men are known for going cold when things are seemingly going really well. This is another testing tactic for some of them. They want to see how you react if he suddenly goes silent.

Show him that you are solid and well grounded. Let him know that you’re still there for him and aren’t going to run away. This will make him feel more secure and stop being icy.

Always Tell the Truth

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I realize that many people struggle with this. Either you’re afraid you’ll upset him or make him angry so you decide to not say anything. However; when he finds the truth out (and he will), you’re going to regret it.

The Scorpio man is the best detective imaginable. He will find out anything and everything about you and he’ll learn your mannerisms. He will instantly know when you’re lying to him.

If you happen to get it past him and he doesn’t notice right away; he will still figure it out. It’s best to just come clean. Even if it’s something that you know will piss him off or potentially hurt him.

Ultimately; it’s better to be forthcoming with what needs to be said. He’ll get past it and he’ll appreciate that you’ve cared enough to tell him the truth no matter how hard it was for you to do.

It’s possible he will get pissed or hurt but after the smoke clears; he’ll realize that you did your best in making sure he knew the absolute truth. That’s more valuable than just about anything else to him.

Keep Him Happy In Bed

This IS one of those men that you’ll need to keep pleased in the bedroom or he could start to look elsewhere. If he’s committed to you then he’ll be loyal. However; if you aren’t giving him what he needs; he could disconnect.

If he disconnects; he will no longer be “committed”. This is a point you don’t want to get him to. So make sure that sex is a normal part of your routine with your Scorpio guy.

Even if you’re only giving him a hand job because you’re not in the mood for full on marathon sex; you’ll be glad you did it. He’ll be grateful that you’re willing to see to his needs.

This keeps him engaged with your relationship because he often times will do things for you that he’s not exactly in the mood for either but he cares enough about you to go ahead and do it.

Scorpio men equate sex with the love they feel for your partner. If you pull away or start becoming a cold fish in bed; he’ll take that personally and figure you don’t care for him anymore.

Keep up with him as much as you can. It’s ok to not be in the mood every now and then or to have a headache. However; if you’re doing it all the time; something is wrong and you need to figure out how to fix it.

Avoid Making Him Jealous

There is a natural curiosity for some women to want to test the limits and see how jealous their Scorpio man can get. Don’t do it! Even testing him with it will piss him off enough that he may decide to break it off.

Remember he needs loyalty. If you feel the need to test him to see if he’ll get jealous then there is something else wrong in your relationship. That means it’s time to talk to him and work at fixing it.

He will never tolerate anyone trying to purposefully make him jealous. This is disrespectful and a deal breaker. The last thing you want him to think about you is that you’re inconsiderate.

This is definitely something that an insecure and inconsiderate woman may do to play with her Scorpio’s feelings. This is not good, not healthy, and will get you dumped fairly quickly.

Show Him Your Love

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Scorpio men are not big on words. He is much like Taurus in that he wants to be shown how you feel. Giving him gifts, showing him how much you care, letting him have the last cookie, etc are ways to give him affection without words.

It’s not that he doesn’t want to hear “I love you”; it’s just sometimes overwhelming if you want to say it all the time. He’d rather just make sure that you two know how you feel about each other via action.

Leave him cute love notes on his bathroom mirror or make him a surprise lunch that he can take to work. Doing things for him will prove to him that you’re into him and care for his well being.

Cooking him nice meals or baking some yummy desserts will win you many favors. It also shows him you’re going to be a tremendous wife and mother. Click here to find out more about what the Scorpio man wants in a woman.

I hope this helps you to maintain or build the perfect love with your Scorpio guy.

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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8 thoughts on “Once You Get a Scorpio Man; How do you Keep him?

  1. I just met this scorpio man, he is out neighbor and he is taking care of me since I arrived home (I live in Europe) and he helped me with everything I wanted ( I don’t need to ask I just say that I want this and he does it directly). It is worthy to mention that our relationship was superficial before just neighbors but now is getting better, however, he never said a word like he is interested in me or something or never propose going out for coffee… but he is going out of his ways for me… this is confusing! I don’t know what to do? Shall I make the first move? I am a Taurus woman by the way

  2. I’m an Aries woman, newly in a relationship with a scorpion man, I feel he loves me and I do love him too, but most time I still doubt if he truly do love me and I’m yet to understand him, we are in Nigeria, so how do I know he truly loves me??????

  3. He is scorpio and i’m a gemini… He really gets cold…. As in instantly…. I can’t understand him… We’re sweet then suddenly he becomes cold…. Damn it…

  4. Im a Leo woman with me Scorp King… we started as fuck buddies. then I broke it off and now i moved back and he treats me like were in a relationship now.. we are def having some serious puppy love here. and we had our first major fight on halloween… he didn’t talk to me for a week.. so yeah don’t piss scores off they rarely forgive, but than God we are back on good terms.. these tips are so major and make sure u keep his sac empty (if u know what i mean) sex life is MARVELOUS if u wanna keep a score man ,, give him good sex when he wants and don’t try to force him in a relationship he will run. but show don’t tell… and SPACE give him SPACE SPACE SPACE.. hope this helped guys i love to share (:

  5. I’m a leo he is a Scorpio. I love him dearly but sometimes it feels like a mission trying to make it work with him. I need to know what to do to keep him happy

  6. I am a gemini and he is a scorpio. The sex is very good but he blows hot and cold air most of the time. He can be manipulative and controlling but I love him still. I dont know what to do anymore…i a submissive and loyal to him but no. Its too much now

  7. I dont know if it is only me or anyone outthere feel different about scorpio man in terms of him be scary if we rush the relationship. I feel otherwise tho. My scorpio man is intense in my opinion, I felt be pushed instead. Sometimes it scares me. Now I am in cold phase, as I am scared be involved into new relationship, based on my past karmic relationship. meanwhile he is also stuck up, doesnt do anything to make it better. Sigh. Are we both scared…

  8. Hi i am a Gemini, and my Scorpio boyfriend is the guy that im looking for, 2years this coming June… and all the things u mentioned about him was so surprising bcoz u say it all about him.

    All i want is to keep our relationship nice and smooth…

    I love him so so much

    Thanks to u

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