How To Make A Scorpio Man Regret Losing You (7 Ways)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
I can offer my best tips on how to make a Scorpio man regret losing you instantly. Continue reading to find out more...

Hello, my lovely! You have no idea how often I hear from women asking me, “Will a Scorpio man regret losing me?” These water sign men really manage to have a hold on the women they are involved with. It must be their enigmatic and mysterious allure!

I have heard it countless times from women who have experienced heartbreak with a Scorpio man. I can tell you, so many women would want to get back with their Scorpio ex after losing him. There is just something special about these men.

So, how do you make a Scorpio man regret losing you? Well, there are several different things you can do to make him want to take you back. Knowing how to make a Scorpio man regret losing you will absolutely give you the power to get him back into your life.

So if you want to make a Scorpio man regret losing you, then you have come to the right place. I am going to show you all my different strategies on how to get a Scorpio man to regret hurting you.

Will A Scorpio Man Regret Losing Me?

Scorpio men are known for their intensely passionate feelings. They invest deeply in their relationships and tend to have a hard time simply moving on. When a Scorpio man commits, he gives his all and expects the same level of commitment in return.

They tend to attach themselves quite strongly to their partners and form deep emotional bonds. So when they do lose the person they have fallen in love with, it can really hurt them beyond words.

This can definitely lead to regret and make them wish that the breakup never happened.

How To Make A Scorpio Man Regret Losing You (7 Ways)

If you’re looking to make a Scorpio man regret losing you, here are 7 effective strategies to consider:

1. Get With Someone New Immediately

Scorpios are about as possessive as they come, considering the only one who might be more possessive is a Scorpio! This means that you have an advantage now since he already has a bruised ego from not being able to keep you around… take advantage of this one, sis! 

If you’ve had a guy on the line as a plan B for a while, I highly recommend hitting him up at this time and posting a few up-close-and-personal pics of the two of you on social media. Avoid Snapchat since it tells you who has looked at your story and a Scorpio certainly doesn’t want you knowing he’s looking! Anywhere else is a safe bet. 

Pair it with a flirty caption about how you crush on the guy in the pic or how you didn’t see what was right in front of you. Any Scorpio post-breakup is going to see that and say OUCH. He’ll blame himself if another man crosses your mind.

Your Scorpio ex will instantly feel pangs of regret when you’re laughing it up with a new lover. This will keep you firmly in his mind as he attempts to get over you. If you do this step right, he might not even be able to get over you at all!

You may also want to readWhat Happens When You Stop Chasing A Scorpio Man

2. Act Like You Aren’t Hurt

After a breakup with a Scorpio, you’re definitely feeling incredibly hurt since Scorpios are great at hitting you right where it stings (when they want to). However, it’s time to fake it until you make it while you attempt to make this Scorpio regret everything they ever did to hurt you. 

It’s time to make them feel like you don’t care about everything they ever did or said to you while you were together… remember, this is the spicy new single you! She doesn’t hold on to all that old hurt. This Scorpio has no idea who he was messing with, after all. 

So now it’s time to put on your bad b*tch face! This is going to throw the Scorpio off since he’s expecting you to fall to pieces after the breakup… he’s spent a long time convincing you that you can’t do better, even if it was subtle. 

Dress up, go out, and act like you’re okay. This is the biggest slap in the face to the Scorpio and very little is going to get at his ego like your bold and brazen self-confidence and wellbeing! 

3. Message Him Directly

This may seem counterintuitive—aren’t we supposed to act like we don’t care? For sure! You shouldn’t message him to talk about how hurt and lonely you are without him. Projecting that hurt onto him is totally on the table, though!

Asking him how he is doing after the breakup, asking how you can help him cope, and being open to dissecting what went down, “if it will help you heal” is a GREAT technique for making it seem as if you know, you’re fine but you’re worried about how he’s holding up! 

This type of mind game is great because it leads him to believe that you never doubted that you would be okay, but you have concerns for his mental health after the breakup. This is going to lead him to believe that you always pictured him as the weaker of the two of you and nothing is a bigger low-key insult to the Scorpio!

So go ahead and do some wellness checks sprinkled with: “Hey bud, how are you holding up?” This is going to be a subtle way to let him know that you have reason to be concerned about him, not the other way around! 

He’ll be regretting the way that things shook down with this action because he’ll be kicking himself for ever letting you think that he needed your help… it’s shady but it gets the job done!

4. Work On Yourself

Self-improvement is the best revenge! Not only will you be making him mad jelly but you’ll genuinely feel that this breakup is the best thing that’s ever happened to you! 

What were you interested in and thinking about pursuing when you were single? What has your relationship drawn you away from? Go back to those ideas and see if you can go after them once again! This is going to empower you and make you feel on top of the world when you have a hobby. 

Sometimes after a relationship the motivation to tone up and get healthy crops up – follow that urge! Scorpios are physical and sexual. If they see you at your physical peak after the two of you break up, then this is going to grind their gears and have them wishing for you to come back to them!

Learn more about what a Scorpio man likes and dislikes in a woman.

5. Post Sexy Selfies

Maybe you decided to turn to meditation and yoga to get your head straight after a traumatic breakup with the Scorpio. You’re doing diaphragmatic breathing like a champ and have some new, toned arms and abs! Damn girl, look at you go! 

Capitalize on that! Take some hot pictures and post them to social media. The Scorpio is highly motivated by sex and physical attraction. When you look your best well after you have broken up with the Scorpio, then he’s going to absolutely fume that he has no access to all of that goodness you’ve got going on!

A little flexing never hurt anyone… except maybe your ex! Maybe try taking tons of progress pics as you get fitter and fitter which will have the Scorpio wondering what about the breakup motivated you to improve yourself. 

At the end of the day, all of this will make them regret ever letting you go since you just keep getting better and better with time!

6. Limit Contact With Him

One of the best ways to get a Scorpio man to regret losing you is actually to just step away and avoid contacting him. Give him space to realize what he’s lost and to appreciate your absence.

This will actually create a sense of mystery because you are not readily available to him and this is probably what he is used to. When he is not in control of the situation and can’t access you whenever he wants, it will make him start questioning his decision to let you go.

It is good to make him sweat a bit and wonder what you’re up to. This is a powerful way to make a Scorpio man regret losing you and realize the value of your presence in his life.

This is also an excellent way for you to gain some clarity and focus on yourself. Distance might give you some answers to what went wrong with the two of you in the first place.

7. Avoid Being Needy

To make a Scorpio man regret losing you, it is very important that you remain confident and positive. The last thing you want to do is turn needy and display how much you miss him.

Being too dependent on him will certainly turn him off and push him further away. He will definitely realize that he made the right choice in ending things with you. It is better to just avoid acting too desperately.

And I know that can be very difficult, it probably feels like he is the only person who can take your pain away. But the more you reach out to him to comfort you, the faster he is going to move on.

It really needs to seem like being apart doesn’t faze you at all. This will really confuse him and make him wonder if he did the right thing. He is not used to a woman not chasing after him when he has left.

Do Scorpio Men Regret Cheating? And How To Make A Scorpio Man Regret Hurting You?

Scorpio men take their relationships really seriously. Once they commit, they really mean it because they tend to be very loyal and faithful in their relationships. They aren’t usually really the type to cheat, but when they do, they really do regret it.

They feel a deep sense of guilt and remorse for betraying their partner, especially if they truly cared for them. However, Scorpio men have very strong sexual needs and if he did step out of the relationship it is usually because he wasn’t getting what he wanted in the bedroom.

The most important thing you can do in this situation is maintain your self-respect and show that you value yourself and won’t tolerate being cheated on. It is best to step away for a while and make him see the consequences of his actions.

Give yourself some time to focus solely on yourself and pay no mind to him. What you need to do is focus on your own healing because going through a betrayal like this can be very traumatic and upsetting.

Read alsoDo Scorpio Men Cheat? All About Scorpio Man Cheating Signs

When A Scorpio Cuts You Off, How To Make Him Regret Leaving You?

Having your Scorpio ex ignore you can be one of the most painful feelings in the world, especially if you still have feelings for him. These guys are amazing at icing people out and creating a cold, distant atmosphere.

Once he has decided he wants nothing to do with you anymore, it can be pretty difficult getting his attention again. But there are a few things you can do. The most important would be to focus on yourself and improve who you are.

This is exactly how to make your Scorpio man regret leaving you: by showing him that you are capable of growth and self-improvement without him. Take the loss, and put all that energy into yourself by seeking therapy, working out, eating healthily, focusing on your hobbies, and living a life that feels fulfilling to you.

This kind of energy is very attractive. Trust me, he will notice a glow up and regret not being beside you.

Do all the things you said you were going to do for yourself while you were together. Show him that you’re thriving without him and that you don’t need his validation or presence to be happy.

The more you make it about you, and less about him, the quicker you will regain your power and he will regret leaving you. At that point, you might even feel like you no longer want to be with him either because you’ve realized your own worth and happiness should not depend on someone who betrayed you.

Read nextWhen A Scorpio Man Is Done With You (Will He Ever Talk To Me Again?)

Does Your Scorpio Man Pull Away After Intimacy?

Does your Scorpio man pull away or get quiet when you’ve just had a deep emotional connection?

Or does he seem to disappear just when you thought he was getting closer?

Have you felt confused by his hot and cold behavior?

If so, then he might have an avoidant attachment style.

He could be Dismissive Avoidant and completely terrified of commitment…

Or he could be Fearful Avoidant and REALLY want commitment…

But get scared when he feels himself getting closer to you.

If he has either one of these attachment styles, you’re going to end up feeling extremely confused at times.

And both are caused by childhood trauma.

When you can see the scared little boy inside him that had to shut down his feelings if he’s dismissive avoidant…

Or have a parent not provide his needs consistently if he’s fearful avoidant…

It can make it easier to have empathy and compassion for his confusing and frustrating behavior. 

But that won’t fix it.

And while advice on attachment styles can be helpful…

What you really need to stop this frustrating hot and cold cycle is to understand him better.

Thankfully, there is a simple system to TRULY understand how he ticks based on his astrology.

It will stop him from pulling back when you begin feeling closer.

And it will accomplish this in only 30 days.

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So no more crying yourself to sleep when he pulls back..

No more feeling incredibly confused.

And no more wondering what in the heck is going on with him…

Even if he has an avoidant attachment style.

If you want to turn things around with your Scorpio man in 30 days or less…

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Sending you love,

Your sister and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

2 thoughts on “How To Make A Scorpio Man Regret Losing You (7 Ways)

  1. It totally helps to know who you are as a woman and to be full of self-awareness. Be ever evolving & have many passions. As a Taurus woman & Aries rising, I fully stand my ground and I do not back down from my values—that doesn’t mean I’m unable to find compromise or cannot communicate my feelings. But one of my many scorpio men experiences included this one man completely ghosting me in the middle of rekindling a relationship dynamic for months. I was upset but knowing my reigning power as Venus is my ruler, I knew I attracted love abundantly. I wasn’t worried about moving on or him coming back. When he did come back, I put on my “commander” suit — not for combat but for a meeting. I kept my seductive tone but I was very assertive. I gave him hard boundaries. I corrected him when he would sweet talk me. I opened up to share my disappointment in him & he even confessed he was more attracted to me opening up about things he never knew… but I blatantly told him I wasn’t interested & meant it. I know he still checks on me but I don’t care. He knew what amazing, strong, sexy, loving, sensual, erotic, intelligent woman he had in his hands—is now being relished by another man—or so he thinks 😉

    1. Hi Benny!

      Well I guess you never know what you’re going to get when you stand up for yourself. I am not only proud of you but I’m happy to see that it worked. Some guys don’t know what they’ve lost until it’s gone. Too little too late. Glad he thinks you’re being adorned with the love you deserve and hey… I have no doubt you’ll get exactly that. I wish you all the best!

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