10 Things A Scorpio Man Likes And Dislikes In A Woman

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Are you wondering what a Scorpio man likes in a woman? Here are 10 things that a Scorpio man likes and dislikes in a woman.

Do you find yourself totally into a super sexy Scorpio man and wondering what he may be looking for in a woman? Maybe you’re afraid to upset him, so you need to know what a Scorpio man likes and dislikes in a woman in order to keep things running smoothly.

Well, a Scorpio man’s likes and dislikes vary. He is hot and passionate. To determine what a Scorpio man wants in a woman, you need to understand his emotional nature. What turns him on and off?

To win the heart of a Scorpio man, it takes a special kind of lady. It’s a difficult task to figure out what makes him run to you like a knight in shining armor, but it’s worthwhile.

I have some things for you to read that just might help you figure things out. You will learn about his signals, which may help you decide what a Scorpio man wants in a woman.

These are 10 things a Scorpio man likes and dislikes that you need to know to better understand what he may be searching for in a partner.

Scorpio Man’s Dream Girl: What A Scorpio Man Wants In A Woman?

A Scorpio man is good on his word, and as such, he expects a woman of his choosing to be the same way. Unreliability and flaky behavior will cause him to run for the hills.

He desires a woman who is solely his. Not only that, but he also wants to know that his woman will always be there for him when he needs her as both his partner and the mother of his future children.

If he is struggling with others and talks to you about it, he wants you to be on his side and prove to him that you’re with him no matter what happens. He wants to know you will always be available when he needs your love.

A Scorpio man wants a woman who is interested in his well-being, his hopes, his dreams, and his future. Finding someone who will support his endeavors and lift him up to provide him stability is what turns him on.

Read also: 11 Body Language Signs A Scorpio Man Likes You

Now, let me give you a deeper explanation of all the things a Scorpio likes and dislikes in a woman.

Scorpio Man Likes And Dislikes In A Woman

One of the most popular and coveted signs of the zodiac has everyone on the edge of their seat when it comes to love. Falling for a Scorpio man sets you up for a path of ever-evolving mystery and shocking discovery.

Expect to be seduced, emotionally manipulated, and totally thrown off your game!

These guys have intensely insatiable cravings, and in order to understand what makes them tick, you’ll need to know what lies beneath these particular personality traits.

Hopefully, this section helps you better understand what a Scorpio man wants in a woman.

What A Scorpio Man Likes In A Woman — 5 Things That Drives Him Crazy About You

1. Scorpio Man Adores Woman With Integrity

The Scorpio man may seem very sensual and sexual, but he actually believes in having integrity. Though you both want to jump into bed together, he will find it sexier if you don’t.

By telling him that you don’t want to ruin things by getting intimate right away, he’ll respect this and see that you’re a lady of virtue.

While a Scorpio man is very sexual, he will indeed hold out when he feels it’s necessary. If you show up at a Scorpio man’s house with bad intentions, he may turn you down and send you on your way.

2. Scorpio Man Desires An Independent Woman

Scorpio men have keen intellects, and he wants a woman who can match him in this way. He prefers a lady who holds herself in high regard without being egotistical.

He isn’t looking for a verbal jousting competition, so don’t get me wrong. A Scorpio wants you to have your own goals, dreams, and ambitions in life.

If you’re a career woman who is driven by the success you’re trying to obtain, you’ll likely win his heart.

3. Scorpio Man Cherish A Woman Who Is Loyal And Committed

The Scorpio man wants you to prove to him that you can be trusted, that he can feel secure, and that you’re going to stick with him no matter what. This can take time, of course, but isn’t he worth it?

A Scorpio man likes innocence and purity. He needs someone who can help him calm himself when he becomes overly emotional. A Scorpio man is highly attracted to someone with a soft touch who knows how to carefully handle his fragile ego and heart.

Whether he’s in a bad mood or in a great mood, showing him that you’ll be there will prove to him that you’re someone on whom he can rely for the long term.

4. Scorpio Man Is Turned On By Her Intelligence With Wit

Scorpio men are often brilliant and filled with ideas. He prefers to have a brilliant woman who will stimulate his thoughts and nurture his dreams.

He has a very unique sense of humor, and it’ll be up to you to laugh at his jokes. Even if they aren’t all that funny, showing him you care enough to laugh will make him feel good.

It’s no good for him to have a woman who is hot in the sack but has no intelligence to behold. He likes the full package or nothing at all.

5. Scorpio Man Needs His Woman To Be Caring And Attentive Of Others

While being a sweetheart to him, he will also expect you to be this way with others. He is a humanitarian and thus feels that the woman he ends up with has to have compassion for everyone.

It’s likely he’ll adore children as well as pets. That means he wants a woman who feels the same way he does. By showing others kindness, you’re displaying who you are on the inside.

He will truly see you for who you are if you allow your inner nurturing to come out to help anyone who needs it. While you may be strong and independent, others may need your help.

Do Scorpio Men Like Clingy Women?

No! Remember that a Scorpio man wants an independent woman. Showing him signs that you NEED him is not a good thing. He will get freaked out and probably pull away from you.

He thrives on a lady who will be self-sufficient with or without him. It provides him comfort in knowing that he doesn’t ever have to worry about you because you know how to take care of yourself.

If you are demonstrating needy or clingy behavior, then a Scorpio man may not be the one for you. Perhaps a Taurus man or a Capricorn would make a better match.

Let’s dive deeper and see what else a Scorpio man dislikes in a woman:

5 Things A Scorpio Man Dislikes In A Woman What Do Scorpio Men Hate?

1. Scorpio Man Dislikes Head Games

Very much like a Virgo man, the Scorpio man’s likes and dislikes are many, but he doesn’t like to play head games. He finds it totally unnecessary and won’t appreciate a woman doing this with or to him. Be straightforward with him; don’t sugarcoat; just hit him with the truth!

Always tell him the truth and let him know where you stand. He’ll better respect you for doing this than by being passive-aggressive. I’m not saying you should yell at or attack him, but in a calm way, approach him with what you need to say.

2. Scorpio Man Doesn’t Like Being Lied To

This really rather goes with the last number. Be honest and do not lie to him. If you do, he’ll find out and either cast you out or use it against you at some point. Be very careful. He will see through you if you are not careful. He’s intuitive and known as a human lie detector.

The Scorpion sting is no fun, and he will leave you out in the cold if you try to attempt to deceive him in any way. Remember, a Scorpio man is a stickler for being loyal, and being deceitful will put you in the category of being disloyal.

If you feel you cannot be loyal to him, you may want to choose another partner. It will be hard to win him back if you’ve done him a disservice in some way.

3. He Dislikes You Not Being Authentic

If you are not being yourself when you are with him; you are being disloyal. Being inauthentic is just another form of lying basically. He wants you to be who you are, not put on a mask to please him.

Scorpio men get to the bottom of things and he’s very good at picking up on things that are not true. He’ll be able to see through you which will likely end horribly for you.

If you’re struggling to be authentic and trustworthy for your Scorpio man, I strongly recommend checking out my 30-day Scorpio Man Love Challenge… It will set you on the right path with that hot guy.

4. He Doesn’t Like You Being Lazy Or Complacency

The Scorpio man is a high powered and driven man when it comes to making sure he has a successful road ahead of him. Having a partner who doesn’t do anything to contribute will piss him off.

In fact, as soon as he gets wind that you’re lazy or unmotivated, he’ll probably go ahead and call it quits. He truly isn’t one to watch his lady lounge around the house.

If you are the stay-at-home partner and yet you still cannot seem to keep the place clean, you aren’t cooking, or you aren’t taking care of your Scorpio, he’ll likely give you walking papers.

5. Scorpio Man Dislikes When Bravery Is Lacking 

The Scorpio man isn’t into women who lack confidence. He loves a strong, independent woman who isn’t afraid to stand up for herself.

Self-esteem is a must for the Scorpio man. He needs a woman who is not afraid of him or of herself. Self-reliance and confidence are what he seeks, and anything less than that will likely get left behind.

You may also want to readHow To Flirt With A Scorpio Man (6 Interesting Tips)

How Does A Scorpio Man Treat His Woman?

A Scorpio man may treat his woman with devotion, standing by her through thick and thin, fiercely protecting and defending her.

He is a passionate lover, and as such, he treats his woman with passion and intensity by engaging in a deep emotional connection with her. Furthermore, he is honest and highly sensitive when trust is not returned. He will treat you with trust as long as you reciprocate, so note that he won’t settle for a woman who is less than truthful.

At times, a Scorpio man may demonstrate jealousy, but this is because he suspects a woman is not fully committed to the relationship. In other words, if you are committed to him fully and completely, he will treat you as his queen.

What Attracts A Scorpio Man Physically?

Believe it or not, these guys can be sticklers for good hygiene. You’ll want to make sure you have fresh breath and a good scent (a good perfume or body spray if you can wear it).

They love and need to have all of their senses moved by you. Maintaining an orderly living environment will show him that you know how to be clean, and he won’t have to worry about surprise stenches or gross old food stuck under the sofa.

The most important thing to remember is that a Scorpio man loves a woman with an open heart who is confident and self-assured.

If you keep in mind some of these main characteristics, you are sure to ride far off into the sunset with your Scorpion knight.

Discover more about what type of woman Scorpio prefers physically.

FAQ On Scorpio Likes And Dislikes

Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Scorpio man and how this will affect your relationship?

Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate the difficult times you might experience with your Scorpio man.

What Is A Scorpio Man’s Soft Spot When It Comes To Love?

Loyalty is a huge soft spot for a Scorpio man. One way to prove your loyalty is to simply commit to all of your plans and honor your word.

If you sway on this, doubt will creep in. Don’t get so comfortable to the point that you think you can casually blow off the small agreements you made with him.

Be a woman of your word. Another way to show that you are a steadfast woman is by showing your consistency.

You may also want to read7 Surefire Signs A Scorpio Man Is Fighting His Feelings For You

Does Scorpio Man Get Bored Easily In Relationships?

Well, yes! A Scorpio man is a high-powered and driven man when it comes to making sure he has a successful road ahead of him. He will always seek new challenges and excitement in his love relationships, and he expects a partner who engages with him on that level too.

If he finds out that you’re unmotivated or lazy, he’ll probably give up on you right away. He can become irritated and bored by what he perceives as your lack of interest or commitment.

So, it is important to keep a relationship fresh by exploring things together or trying new activities. Otherwise, he might even start looking for a new partner who can bring some drama and intimacy back into his love life.

How To Tell If A Scorpio Man Is Falling For You?

Every Scorpio man falls in love differently, but some of the signs are across the board.

He is bound to become more intense; he is receptive to your love, he finds the need to protect you, he showers you in gifts, and you should feel like the only woman to exist in his world. These are certain signs a Scorpio man is falling for you.

If you are interested in reading up on more signs a Scorpio man is falling in love with you, then check out my recent article. This should help you to see the signs of when your Scorpio man is madly in love.

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About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

3 thoughts on “10 Things A Scorpio Man Likes And Dislikes In A Woman

  1. I went on the Norwegian Gem cruise and met the perfect guy. Of course, he is a Scorpio! Everything about him was perfect. We only physically saw each other at night, he was probably always just chillin in his cabin. I spent the night the last the nights. He wanted me to write down my number because both of our phones were dead and I did not have a charger for mine. But after he asked, we got caught up and were too drunk to actually get a chance to exchange numbers. And all I remember is his first name and that he is from Brooklyn (and Italian). But it’s interesting that usually I don’t sleep with strangers but something about him compelled me to and I just always had fun with him and his cousin when his cousin was present. I really want to post a missed connections outreach and see if it goes viral, and he sees it because literally I have been thinking about him ever since and how pissed I am that we never got the chance to exchange info. But after reading this, I feel like I shouldn’t do that.l because he will think I’m clingy, “need” him and that I’m weird. But idk what to do if he is literally all I have been thinking about. I’ve never felt this way before with anyone and I’ve fallen in love 3 times .. well I guess not because this fling surpasses any feeling I have ever had. I’m a Taurus btw, and idk if I agree with the post when they said if you NEED someone be with a Taurus or a Capricorn. Idk if that’s true, yes, sure give us attention and all of that but we like space, we like being busy and living separate lives but still loving someone. Granted we would think about you night and day, but we really just want to cuddle up next to you at the end of every day and we’ll be set, or just a phone call. Please send feedback. It’s killing me not being able to still connect with him, I just feel like maybe to him it was only a fling, but then why would he ask for my number? And yes even if it was only a fling, I wouldn’t mind still flinging. Haha please send feedback on this. Especially if you are a Scorpio

  2. I’m irrevocably in love with a Scorpio Man who in just one night I was able to know he had to be my husband. I’m not even about marriage. I’m a free spirit who values my freedom and liberty to say what I feel even if my feelings change. As a Gemini I’m not sure what the hell has come over me. I love who I am. This man see’s me as emotionaly unstable which I never reveal my emotions unless I fear losing someone. Him and I are no were near there. He tries hard to make me feel jealous which is a turn off for me. I rather loom the

  3. Hi there!

    Thanks for writing this blog post. I always find it helpful to read about Scorpio men and their likes and dislikes in women. I’m currently in a relationship with a Scorpio man and it can be really hard to figure out what he wants from me. I’m wondering if you have any advice on what I can do to make him happy.


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