Do you find yourself totally into a super sexy Scorpio man and wondering what he may be looking for in a woman? Maybe you’re afraid to upset him so you need to know what he doesn’t like in order to keep it running smoothly.
Here are some things that a Scorpio man likes and dislikes in a woman:
The Scorpio man may seem very sensual and sexual but he does actually believe in having integrity. Though you both want to jump into bed together; he will find it sexier if you don’t.
By telling him that you don’t want to ruin things by getting intimate right away, he’ll respect this and see that you’re a lady of virtue.
While he is very sexual; he will indeed hold out when he feels it’s necessary. If you try to show up at a Scorpio man’s house with the naughty intention he may very well sweetly turn you down and send you on your way.
Scorpio men have keen intellect. He will want a woman that can match him in this way. He prefers a lady who holds herself in high regard without being egotistical.
He isn’t looking for a verbal jousting competition; so don’t get me wrong. He will want you to have your own goals, dreams, and ambition in life.
If you’re a career woman that is driven by the success you’re trying to obtain, you’ll likely win his heart.
3. Longevity with Loyalty
The Scorpio man wants you to prove to him that you can be trusted, that he can feel secure, and that you’re going to stick with him no matter what. This can take time of course, but isn’t he worth it?
He needs someone who can help him calm himself when he becomes overly emotional.
Whether he’s in a bad mood or in a great mood, showing him that you’ll be there will prove to him that you’re someone on which he can rely for the long term.
4. Sensuality with Class
The Scorpio man definitely needs someone who can keep up with him. Once committed or into someone, he will have a high libido to contend with.
While he wants a woman to be sexy, he also wants her to be classy. He will respond well to dark-colored lingerie such as black or red nighties.
When you dress classy and hold yourself in high regard; he’ll be far more turned on that by a woman who has low self-esteem dressed in trashy clothing.
5. Intelligence with Wit
Scorpio men are often brilliant and filled with ideas. He prefers to have a brilliant woman who will stimulate his thoughts and nurture his dreams.
He has a very unique sense of humor and it’ll be up to you to laugh at his jokes. Even if they aren’t all that funny, showing him you care enough to laugh will make him feel good.
It’s no good for him to have a woman who is hot in the sack but has no intelligence to behold. He likes the full package or nothing at all.
1. Neediness or Clingy Behavior
Remember that Scorpio man wants an independent woman. Showing him signs that you NEED him, is not a good thing. He will get freaked out and probably pull back away from you.
He thrives on a lady that will be self-sufficient with or without him. It provides him comfort in knowing that he doesn’t ever have to worry about you because you know how to take care of yourself.
If you NEED someone, the Scorpio man may not be the one for you. Perhaps a Taurus man or Capricorn would make a better match.
2. Lazy or Complacency
He is a high powered and driven man when it comes to making sure he has a successful road ahead of him. Having a partner who doesn’t do anything to contribute will piss him off.
In fact, as soon as he gets wind that you’re lazy or unmotivated; he’ll probably go ahead and call it quits. He truly isn’t one to watch his lady lounge around the house.
If you are the stay at home partner and yet you still cannot seem to keep the place clean, you aren’t cooking, or taking care of your Scorpio, he’ll likely give you walking papers.
3. Backward Moral Compass
If you show signs that you aren’t a very moral person, he’ll tell you to get lost. Seriously, he has some high standards and expects the woman he likes to be the same.
He doesn’t like to be lied to, mistreated, or misled in any way. If you do not have pure intention with him, you should go ahead and dismiss yourself from his life.
He loves family, children, and animals. If you do not, there is something wrong in his mind thus not matching with is morality and standards.
The Scorpio man works hard to maintain a sense of security and self-awareness. He will not want to be with someone who constantly criticizes him. It shows a lack of respect and cares in his mind.
If you cannot compliment him on things he does right, you shouldn’t say anything when he does something you deem as “wrong” either. Enhance the good rather than the bad. Play nice!
5. Coming on too Strong
If you try to chase the Scorpio man too hard, he’ll start trying to run from you. He appreciates some good flirting but chasing him will scare him. He likes to be the one to chase a little bit.
This plays in with integrity. He may think your intentions for him are a bit false which will make him shut himself off toward you. Try to keep things on an even keel with this guy.
I hope this helps you get a better scope on what he likes and doesn’t care for so that you can try to win your Scorpio man over.
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,