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How To Flirt With A Scorpio Man Effectively: 6 Surefire Tips

Are finding yourself drawn to a sensual man but not sure how to flirt with a Scorpio man?

Here are some ways that you can work your magic and get that Scorpio guy to come walking your way:

1. Stare with Intention

This may sound like a creepy tactic but when a Scorpio guy is into a woman, he himself will give a certain stare deep into your eyes that will make you swoon right then and there.

Give him a look that makes him wonder what you’re up to. It’s a bit like the “cat at the canary” look. It’s a bit mischievous. The mystery of it will make him want to talk to you.

This definitely works if he hasn’t already tried to talk to you. Stare him down as though he’s the sexiest man you’ve ever seen. He’ll be drawn to this and it does tend to stroke his ego.

This is a very quick and clever way of letting this sexy guy know that you find him very attractive and that you’re interested in getting to know him. This should get him to find out more about you.

2. Show Your Intelligent Side

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If you happen to get to the point where you two are engaged in conversation, show how brilliant you are. Don’t be ego oriented though. You can show how witty and smart you are without having an inflated sense of self.

He is very much attracted to smart women who are independent and can keep up with their banter. Try to steer the conversation to things that he enjoys that you perhaps are also well versed with.

Find your common interests and go with that topic of conversation. In fact; if you don’t know what his interests are, it’s a great time to ask him. If you know about any of the things he likes, go ahead and talk about it.

He’ll be dazzled by you! This is especially important if you plan to have another date with him. You can do a bit of research if you need to on the things you aren’t sure about. It will only help you find a more interesting conversation.

Be as brainy as you can but be careful not to be a know-it-all. Find a nice balance and you should be pleasantly rewarded by the Scorpio guy as he tries to get to know you more.

3. Keep Your Mystery Alive

Once you start roping the Scorpio man in; try to maintain an air of mystery about yourself. If you let him know everything up front; he will become bored after awhile.

Give him tidbits that will excite him about your life and keep the rest unknown to him. You can tell him more about yourself over time. You want to basically lure him so that he’ll want to stay and get to know you more.

This makes for an exciting game of sorts. It’s not an unhealthy one though. Excitement is always key to keeping things going between you and the passionate Scorpio man.

Try to tease him a little if you can as well. Start to tell him something he will find interesting but then tell him you’ll tell him the rest another time. This opens up the gateway for a possible new date.

A new date can lead to another and possibly more. The more thrilling you make it for him; the better off you’ll be in forming a nice bond with him.

4. Spontaneity Sparks

This guy will absolutely be a fan of you being spontaneous. The Scorpio man craves excitement and appeal. So once you start dating him, try your best to catch him off guard.

Show up someplace where you know he may be and pretend you had no idea. Wear a sexy red or black dress with high heels. He’ll go nuts! Whatever he’s doing or whoever he’s meeting will have to wait.

He will be so drawn to you that he’ll have a difficult time keeping his eyes or hands off you which is exactly what you want. If by some chance he’s having a meeting or is doing something of importance, he’ll get back to you assuredly.

If he does drop whatever he’s doing to come over to you; you can expect that things will likely escalate and become something better. Be sure to wear those thigh highs. What man doesn’t love those?

5. Keep Your Emotions Stable

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Scorpio men are typically emotional by nature on their own. The last thing they want is to have someone else being emotional around him. It will make his own stability shake.

When you’re flirting with him, show him your intention and be rock solid. Ultimately he’s looking for a partner that will provide him with loyalty and security for the future.

If you can prove to him that you’re a strong independent woman who will be there for him; you’ll be able to get closer to him. Let him vent to you, let him be your friend to start out, and allow him to see your strength.

This will absolutely turn him on and cause him to want to get to know you more. He’s looking for a wife and mother to his future children. This is the side of you he needs to see to assure him that you fit that criterion.

6. Be Sexy but not too Racy

Unless you’re looking for a “friends with benefits” situation; you may want to clarify your intention by how you flirt, what you wear, and what you want. He will want to know.

He is a very sexual person but he is also picky. The woman he settles down with will not likely be someone he has a “friends with benefits” situation with. He sees that as a friendship with sex.

That’s where he’ll leave it when he’s done or finds someone else.

How do you flirt with a Scorpio man? Click here if you want to learn more about this mysterious man.

I hope this helps you successfully get that Scorpio man’s attention. I know how hot he runs and how much he makes you ladies quiver in excitement.

Wishing you all the luck of the universe,

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



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