Hello, ladies! Are you ready to figure out just how to get that hot Scorpio man revved up from your attention? Of course, you are! And yes, there are ways to text him to get his attention and inspire him to actually reply to you.
Lucky for you, I’m here to help! I suggest you keep reading to learn the best ways to flirt with a Scorpio man over text. Keep it cute, simple, and smart – you can’t go wrong having fun with him!
6 Examples How To Flirt With A Scorpio Man Over Text
1. Keep It Brief But Interesting
Even if you’re the almighty queen of texting, you’re going to have to pull it back and only send him short messages that pique his interest. So, the question is: how do you go about that?!
The first thing to know is that Scorpio men get bored with long text messages. They probably won’t even read them all the way through. They like text messages that are short, sweet, and to the point.
You’ll want to avoid texts like: “you know I was thinking…” followed by a long story. With that, he will look at the first sentence and then put his phone down. Yes, I’m serious!
The more effective types of texts would be: “hey you, I bet you look amazing today,” and then wait for him to respond. If he doesn’t, it’s not the end of the world.
Wait until later to say anything else. When you do, a simple “what are you up to?” will do. That allows him to tell you what he has going on and if nothing, he may give back a, “not much, what are you up to?”
That can very well lead to him asking you if you want to hang out. You can also ask him questions such as, “have you been to that new restaurant…?” and see what he says.
If he answers (and regardless if it’s a yes or a no) you can tell him, “I’d love to go there sometime with you if you’d be up for it.” It lets him know that you’re thinking about him and wanting to find something for the two of you to do.
Avoid trying to bring up important topics via text. Any texts you send should be flirty, to the point, and a little bit mysterious, when you can. Let me explain a bit more in the next section…
2. Be Attentive & Flirty
The Scorpio man is a passionate guy who loves sex. Even if you two aren’t having sex, it’s good to tempt him with snippets of what you want from him.
I know this sounds cheesy, but it works more often than not! Text him: “What are you wearing right now?” As silly and cliché as it sounds, it’s going to be effective.
It tests the waters to see if he answers and better yet, he asks you what you are wearing. You can then use your imagination to give him a sexy description (whether you’re really wearing it or just imagining!) you may even choose to mention that you’re not wearing panties or a bra.
You’re giving him a visual even if that’s not what you’re actually wearing. It gets him stirred up and turned on which is what you want to do. The more you send these types of texts, the more his desire will build for you.
Another text could be something like: “Those jeans you wore last time I saw you were incredibly hot. Your ass looked fantastic.” He’ll love the compliment and he may mention something he’s seen you in.
These are all flirty messages that help stimulate conversation between you and your Scorpio guy. If you aren’t sure what clothes he likes on you, give him something to work with.
You can try saying, “what did you think of my cute red mini skirt I wore last time I saw you? Is it short enough or should it be longer?”
3. Timing Is Everything
This will sound odd but observing his schedule can either help you or harm you. Texting him when he’s busy could annoy him or put him off.
Find out when he works or when he has things going on. Be sure that when you text, it’s either first thing in the morning or when you know he’s off work. He’ll be more likely to answer then.
He will do the same thing for you as to not bug you while you’re working or are busy with plans. When you do text him first thing in the morning, make it something really cute.
You can say something such as, “Good Morning! I hope your day is filled with good things!” I know I mentioned flirting but not right away first thing.
You’ll want to save the flirting for when you can tell he’s in a friskier mood. First thing in the morning sending the cute texts will make him smile while he’s getting ready to start his work day.
Use your creativity with cuteness. Don’t say anything that is heavy or pushy. Just a simple: “Hope you have a great day at work,” is an easy one.
Yeah, I know it sounds easy and cheesy, but sometimes the cuteness is welcomed and it’s something he’ll think is very sweet of you. These types of messages make him feel good.
4. Utilize Emoticons/Emojis For Expression & Mystery
You can totally flirt with your Scorpio man using emoticons or emojis. The kissing smiley is always a classic! Then there is the smiley with hearts for eyes. Those indicate your affection, which is something Scorpio man loves.
You can do this without words and he’ll not only know how you’re feeling about him but may make him respond with some as well. The winking face is a good one when you pay him a compliment.
I need to warn you that the eggplant emoticon is very sexual and unless you’re trying to make a point, you probably don’t want to throw that one in the mix.
You can try texting something naughty but using the angel halo smiley face. It’s cute and it’s suggestive. Here’s one you can use: “your body gets me so…” leave him hanging. Don’t say what it does to you but send a devil and angel emoticon back-to-back. He’ll get the hint!
If you aren’t sure what to text him, send him a simple winking smiley. He’ll wonder what you’re up to and will likely message you back.
Naturally, if you send the drooling smiley face, he’ll really wonder what is on your mind and will definitely want to get back to you.
If he sends you something spicy, you can respond with the embarrassed blushing smiley along with the devil smiley. It indicates that you’re turned on by what he said to you.
5. Compliments, Compliments, Compliments
Just like most people, the Scorpio man loves when a woman appreciates his efforts to look his best. This is especially if he puts lots of time into his hair and wardrobe.
Make him feel good by telling him how fantastic he looks. Tell him he looks so hot every time you lay eyes on him. Tell him he has nice style.
If he wears sexy cologne then make note of it, so he’ll keep wearing it when the two of you go out. Compliment his hair and the way he smiles. The possibilities are endless!
Text something like: “Where did you get those shoes? They’re really stylish.” He’ll feel good that he has good taste. You letting him know you dig it makes him feel good about you.
If you want to double up, use a couple of the different steps I mentioned: “That shirt is so awesome, where did you get it? (Insert smiley with heart eyes or kissy smile)”
Naturally, compliments that boost his ego are nice, such as: “I absolutely love who I am when I’m with you,” or “You are such an amazing guy.” Yep, these are gushy but hey, they work!
6. A Little Something Sweet
Since Scorpio men are leery when it comes to trust, you need to let him know you trust him. It makes him feel like he’s doing right by you.
Sending him a text to let him know this would be like… “Have a great time with your friends tonight,” when he’s going out.
He will definitely want to know you have his back and aren’t worried about what he’s doing while he’s out without you. Likewise, he will need to do the same.
Of course, something such as: “you’re the best, I appreciate you,” will go far as well. It’s rather to the point and very loving. He will be elated to have a message like this from you.
Keep up the good vibes when you text your Scorpio man. Be sweet, be cute, be funny, and be flirty. This is what he wants in a partner over text!
3 Texting Mistakes That Women Make When Texting A Scorpio Man
There are three kinds of texts that will make a Scorpio man lose interest in you and become icy cold.
These happen when you don’t know your Scorpio man well enough.
It also happens when you’re letting your emotions take control without thinking things through.
You might do it out of reacting to something he said or did…
When you’re at a loss of what to text your passionate Scorpio man, what do you do?
You make mistakes that you cannot take back – and then what? You could lose him forever!
Don’t let this happen! It’s in your hands and you can avoid these mistakes!
If you want to sit back and do nothing about it, you might lose your Scorpio guy for good.
Is that really what you want? No! Of course, it isn’t, or you wouldn’t be reading this.
Take some action and make sure that you don’t do what other women do over text to a Scorpio man.
Make your Scorpio love feel wanted and loved.
If you really care for or love your Scorpio man, you’ll take the right steps.
You want to hold onto him and make him the love of your life.
Maybe one day you even want to marry him.
Don’t make the same mistakes other women have made via texting the Scorpio man.
You can do it better and you can keep your Scorpio man happy.
All you have to do is follow my guide.
Wishing you love and light on your journey.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,