When a Scorpio man says I love you, it can really rock your world. Those three little words are all you have ever wanted to hear from your Scorpio man. How a Scorpio man expresses his love is unlike any other sign in the Zodiac.
This guy is intense, passionate, and driven, but at the same time, he is also gentle, kind, and compassionate. The perfect lover, in my opinion!
What are the key things that a Scorpio man does to show you that he’s in love with you? I can help you discover how the Scorpio man expresses his love. He will go above and beyond to make sure you know how he feels. Keep reading to learn more about how a Scorpio man shows his love.
How Does A Scorpio Man Express His Love?
When a Scorpio man loves you, you will know. This guy will make you the center of his Universe! He is so passionate and so caring. The love he feels for you is palpable – you are guaranteed to feel it.
Not every Scorpio man is the same, so they all express their love in their own unique way. Some of them are a bit more forward and obvious with their love, while others are a little more shy and timid. It all depends on his unique personality.
If you are looking for some signs to look out for to really know if your Scorpio man is expressing his love to you, then take a look at this list.
8 Ways A Scorpio Man Shows His Love
1. He Has His Own Unique Love Signature
Not all Scorpio men react the same way when they are in love. Some of them will hold back and will just try to show their partner how he feels without too much talking behind it.
Some Scorpio men have trouble expressing how they feel and can come off as being somewhat awkward, shy, reserved, or even cold. He may also be very shy or reserved; therefore, he holds back what he feels until he cannot anymore.
Then there are Scorpio men who fall hard for a woman and will profess their undying love to her. He will give her lovely gifts, he will tell her verbally he loves her, and he will start planning a future with her in it.
When a Scorpio man loves you, he wants the whole world to know that the beautiful woman next to him is his. He is the selfish and jealous type; therefore, he wants to be really clear with the rest of the world that he is in love with HIS woman. A Scorpio man is possessive when he is in love.
Your Scorpio guy may very well depend on which personality type he tends to have. You’ll need to act accordingly in order to secure this guy’s affections for the long haul.
He is the type to test a potential partner to find out who she is, what she is capable of, if he can trust her, and if she’s going to be there for him even when he’s being cold and callous at times.
Patience is definitely required with the Scorpio man. So, whether he’s outspoken and doesn’t mind telling the public what is what or he’s the shy type who doesn’t like to really put all his information out there, you’re going to need to tough it out if you want his love.
2. He Goes The Extra Mile For You
Scorpio men are known to be huge flirts, and most women find them quite irresistible. This man can give a woman one look and she will melt. That means that he can flirt with many women but not be connected or even interested in them. He does it for the sake of the game.
When he starts to fall for you, he falls very deeply and will show you as much. This means he will start to go above and beyond to do whatever he can for you. So, it’s definitely something much deeper than flirting. This is how a Scorpio man shows his love, by being caring.
He wants you to feel happy with him when he’s in love. He’ll do whatever he can to spend time with you. He’ll also want to be with you often. This can make him start developing possessive behavior.
He doesn’t see you as an object but he does see you as “his” and no one should ever be messing with “his” woman. If things have gone past flirting and he is now pressing to spend time with you, then he’s likely in love.
Basically, he’s being a stereotypical male when they’re trying to win the affections of their future mate. These are what you’ll see from this guy when he’s falling for you. So, how does a Scorpio man show love?
This type of behavior is exactly what he exhibits when he’s falling deeply for the right woman. He figures out he has his Soulmate and he goes for it.
3. He May Become Shy
Some Scorpio men who are normally very outgoing will become very shy around the woman they are falling in love with. He’ll still want to spend time with you but he’ll seem quiet or reserved.
He doesn’t mean to be; he’s just a bit nervous and it makes him not know what to say to you. In time, he’ll feel secure enough to open up and tell you how he feels but first, he may become quiet.
If you happen to notice that the vibrant and social Scorpio guy you’ve been spending time with suddenly wants to spend time alone with you but is very quiet while with you, he’s probably in love.
He may spend more time staring into your eyes and hoping in some way that you’ll pick up on his vibe and somehow just “know” that he’s really into you. He may be a bit slow to the punch but he’ll tell you how he feels when he feels it’s right.
This is how your shy Scorpio man will act when he loves you. So, when you’re wondering “why is this Scorpio man shy around me?” Now you know!
4. He Might Go For It And Tell You How He Feels
As I mentioned, he gets into that mode that whatever is “his” is “his.” This means, in your case, that you are what he covets. He doesn’t want to lose you and so he’ll just go ahead and tell you how he feels.
Don’t let it freak you out, this is actually quite flattering. He’s not going to go crazy and try to dominate you. He just wants you to know that you’re the one he wants and that you belong with him.
You can decide against this, of course – but why would you? The Scorpio man is romantic and passionate. Though he can be jealous, he can also make you feel safe and loved.
So, there is always that possibility that your Scorpio guy may just go ahead and go for it if he’s truly falling for you. If he hasn’t yet, he’s either the shy type, or maybe he’s just not there yet.
One thing is for sure, you’ll know without a shadow of a doubt when a Scorpio man loves you due to how he acts and what he says to you.
5. He Acts All Confused
There are times where the Scorpio guy will get into certain moods that will make him seem as though maybe he isn’t that into you. He’ll get really hot and ready to rumble but then become cold as ice.
He’ll text you a whole bunch or call you and then suddenly, you don’t hear from him for days. This is normal behavior from him. He’s likely either trying to work out his feelings or he’s dealing with other things.
If or when he wants to tell you what it is that he’s going through, he will go ahead and open up. Love will make any Scorpio open up much more than they will with anyone else.
When he pulls this type of behavior; you’ll need to have patience with him. If he’s still showing signs of love to you, he’s not gone. He’s just going through something that he may not be ready to discuss.
He tends to lock up his feelings or issues because he doesn’t want to burden the woman he loves with his problems. Just hang in there and let him come to you when he’s ready.
6. He Will Want To Help You
When a Scorpio man loves you, he will want you to succeed at chasing your hopes and dreams. He is, after all, attracted to you because of your ambition in life. If you’re a strong independent woman, he’ll crave you.
Whatever it is you really want to do with your life; he’ll do whatever he can to help you get there. It motivates him to work on his own goals and dreams as well. In fact; he’ll want you to help him at times.
The ultimate scenario for the Scorpio man is to have a woman at his side that will be his partner in life. You are both successful and backing each other and nurturing each other’s dreams.
If you find the Scorpio man in your life offering to help you achieve your goals, he is likely in love with you. He doesn’t help just anyone. He wants to be happy but he also wants to see you happy.
7. Jealousy & Possessive Behavior
Now, this will be more evident to others and doesn’t qualify for a low-key attitude. The Scorpio man is a jealous and possessive type. So, if you two are out together and some guy is eyeballing you, he will do something to prove you are his.
He may say something to the guy or he may grab you to kiss you passionately in front of the man to be really clear that you belong to him. So, this is more of his being loud if he needs to.
This goes for social media as well. He may see something some guy commented on your photo or post that seems a little flirty or questionable. Then he may respond to it in a way that indicates that you are off the market.
He may also private message that guy and tell him he better step off because you’re unavailable for his attention. He probably won’t be very nice about it either, to be honest.
This is the side of him that comes out and can seem “loud” in terms of how he shows his love. He wouldn’t act jealous or possessive if he wasn’t in love with you. That much is very clear.
8. He’s Verbally Open
When the Scorpio man expresses his love, he will likely tell you he loves you. He won’t do it before he’s sure or ready unless he’s immature. Clearly, if he doesn’t know whether it’s lust or love, he probably shouldn’t say anything.
Otherwise, if he knows for sure he’s in love with you then all bets are off. He won’t typically tell you this in public willingly, unless you say it first, thus, forcing him to answer.
He’s not loud about his love for you unless he feels threatened or is trying to make a statement, otherwise, he’s low-key and would prefer to keep privacy in place. As I mentioned before, many Scorpio men are on a “need to know” basis.
How a Scorpio man shows his love, in a nutshell: Every Scorpio man has his own unique way of showing his love, but most of them will shower you with attention, go out of their way for you, and sometimes even become quite jealous and possessive.
A Scorpio Man’s Silent Love – Are Scorpio Men Shy?
Scorpio men are most definitely shy. These guys have hidden behind a hard shell, after all! It is funny that Scorpio men have the reputation of being these crazy party animals, when in fact they are actually rather introverted and shy.
A Scorpio man won’t express his love with grand public gestures and blast it out to the world. No, this man is a lot more covert and mysterious. He doesn’t want anybody else knowing his business, he is very private.
When a Scorpio man is in love, he will express it, but in his own way and sometimes he might need a little urge from you to show him that it is safe for him to say “I love you.”
When A Scorpio Man Says I Love You, Does He Really Mean It?
You can say a lot about a Scorpio man, but when it comes to love, he takes it really seriously. This guy isn’t joking around when he is in a relationship with a woman. He knows what he feels and he knows how important this is.
When a Scorpio man says “I love you” to a woman, he means it. He just isn’t the type of guy to say these strong words without actually feeling that way. He hates fakeness and phony people, so he isn’t about to become one of them any time soon.
However, a Scorpio man can be quite shy and isn’t always super verbally expressive. He might just have a totally different type of love language than expressing his emotions verbally. If you see him going out of his way to give you gifts or support you emotionally, he might be showing you his love.
Remember that everyone in the world has a different type of love language, and it is important to figure out what is yours as well as your Scorpio man’s love language. This can help you to settle any confusion.
If you feel ready to say “I love you” to your Scorpio man, then you should. However, I only encourage this if you have been dating for a while now and have actually spoken about a future together. You might scare him off if you drop the L-bomb on the third date. Try your best to be rational about this, please.
Say it if you feel ready because who knows, he might be feeling it, but he might be too scared to be that vulnerable with you. Letting him know how you feel will help him feel safe with you and break down his barriers. This should help him to express how he truly feels about you.
If you are feeling a little apprehensive about saying I love you to your Scorpio man and need some extra advice and encouragement, then take a look at this link which will help guide you in saying I Love You to your Scorpio man.
Does a Scorpio man mean it when he says I love you, summarized: Absolutely! These romantic creatures won’t mess with love. When a Scorpio man is in love with a woman, he will be absolutely truthful with her.
My Final Thoughts
Hopefully, this will help you determine how to tell if a Scorpio man really loves you. It’s not too hard to figure out if you watch his behavior.
When a Scorpio says I love you, he means it! He’s not one to throw that word around when he isn’t sure of who he is with or if he’s going to stay with that partner.
Being with a Scorpio man can be a lot of fun and so exhilarating!
You have never felt like this about anyone!
This man speaks to your soul, and you feel such a deep connection with him.
These men are some of the most desirable in the whole Zodiac.
He is sexy, smart, and incredibly devoted.
So, it makes sense why you are so drawn to your Scorpio man.
He makes you feel like the most amazing woman in the world!
However, things seem to be going askew with the two of you…
It is such a pity that recently it seems like he is trying to actively avoid you.
You once thought he was in love with you, but suddenly he is acting all strange…
Whenever you reach out and try to speak to him you are met with silence or short replies…
The faster he pulls away the more it just breaks your heart.
You just can’t seem to understand why your Scorpio man keeps ignoring you.
You are sure that you didn’t do something wrong!
And when you ask him, he says it’s nothing.
But you know deep down in your gut that this just isn’t true.
Why can’t he just be honest with you so that you can fix it?
He is pulling away, and you know it.
If only there was something you could do to repair the relationship to its former glory.
You would do anything in the world to have your Scorpio man look at you the way he once did.
You love him with all your heart and you want to fix what is broken.
There are definitely ways that you can turn all of this around and make your Scorpio man putty in your hands.
However, you need to be ready to commit to this change, because once it has been made then there is no going back.
There is so much you still have to learn about Scorpio men and the way they respond to love and romance.
And you deserve to know this information because it can be invaluable in the way you show up in your relationships.
The relationship you have always wanted is at your fingertips…
It just depends on you if you are ready to reach out and grab it!
Wishing you so much love and happiness.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,