When Is It Okay to Say “I Love You” To a Scorpio Man?

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
When is it okay to say "I Love You" to a Scorpio man? You’ve fallen deeply and passionately for a Scorpio man. Now what? If he hasn’t told you he loves you yet, then you may be hesitant to say the magic words first.

You’ve fallen deeply and passionately for a Scorpio man. Now what? If he hasn’t told you he loves you yet, then you may be hesitant to say the magic words first. I don’t blame you!

So when is it ok to say “I love you” to a Scorpio man? I’ll guide you through everything you need to know! 

Does Your Scorpio Man Love You? Hints He Does

The first thing you’ve got to figure out is whether your Scorpio guy is in love with you. It would be a lost cause to confess your love if he doesn’t feel the same way, right? You could scare him into becoming distant, or worse—you could end up with a broken heart.

Let’s take a look at the things a Scorpio man will do when he’s in love.

  • He asks you very personal questions.
  • He wants to know your plans for the future—and talks about a future with you in it.
  • Your dreams and desires are important to him.
  • He asks how you feel about marriage and children.
  • He can’t stop looking at you.
  • He gets possessive or protective.
  • He wants you to spend time around his family and closest friends.
  • He may test your loyalty by disappearing to see how you react.
  • Tells you he adores you or gives other verbal indications of his feelings.

Now you have a good idea of what to look for to figure out if he’s falling in love with you—or already does love you! If he’s not doing any of these things, then he just may not be there quite yet.

If he is doing any or all of them, then you may have the green light to tell him that you love him. Sometimes it’s best to let him say it first, but if you just really feel the love from him, go for it!

A Scorpio man in love will go above and beyond to show you he cares. If he does, there is a very good chance he’ll be accepting of your cherished words. 

He will go to the moon and back to make you feel the love he has for you, and when he does, you’ll know it’s the right time. 

A Scorpio man love is amazing and worth the wait! Weigh your feelings and make sure that YOU are ready. 

What Scorpio Man In Love Wants

What A Scorpio Man Wants In Love

Something else you should probably know before you say those three little words is what your man is looking for in a partner. 

If you’ve been with him for a while, you may have these answers already. Some things may still be a mystery. 

Again, if he shows the signs that I gave you above, then you’re good to go because he already sees you as the right one for him.

If he isn’t then, there are things you need to consider in order to fit what he wants or needs. It may require some adjusting, but don’t change yourself though unless it feels right. No one should ever ask you to change.

That being said, Scorpio men crave the following in a partner:

  • Inspiration from his lady love: He wants the right woman to inspire him to be his best and accomplish his goals in life.
  • A woman who does her best: He wants a partner who is going to achieve her dreams. Share your success stories with him. He wants to hear them. 
  • Someone independent: A Scorpio man doesn’t want a woman to be totally reliant on him for anything. She has to take care of herself and not be needy.
  • Someone unique: The Scorpio guy really loves a woman who stands out from the crowd. The more different you are the better!
  • Trust and Security: This guy is looking for a love that he can open up to fully and rely on. It’s important that he can trust you. 

These are some of the most important things to keep in mind as far as what he’s looking for in a life-long partner.

Do you offer at least some of these qualities? If you do, then you’re on the right track to show him that you’re the woman for him. Always be classy and keep your head up.

A Scorpio man wants a woman who has it all together and can show him how it’s done so that he can also rise up and take control of his own life. Give him a reason to be optimistic about you. 

When To Say “I Love You” to Scorpio Man

When to Say I Love You To A Scorpio Man

This is the part you’re waiting for, right? 

First of all, you need to make absolutely sure you do indeed love him before you say it. You cannot take it back once you do, and he will take you at your word. You have to mean it. 

Remember that a Scorpio man is a great lie detector and will know if you’re not sincere or you’re not ready. Keep that in mind before you blurt it out at the wrong moment.

Next is having been together long enough to really know each other. If you know that he’s not easily scared off, then it might be the right time for you. 

If you don’t feel you know him well enough to gauge his receptiveness, then you should probably wait and give it a bit more time. There is no need at all to hurry the process along. Do what feels natural. 

Only say you love him if you know you can fulfill the responsibilities of that love. It’s a commitment to him, and he typically will not say it unless he knows he’s ready to fully commit.

To a Scorpio man, commitment is a huge thing. You want it to go well and to work out. If you have any issues that need work, you may have to put love on the back burner for a bit, and that means it’s probably not the right time.

Know that things won’t always be roses. Once you commit to your man, you’re with him for better or for worse—at least that’s how he sees it! You have to be 100-percent ready before you take the plunge. 

Read next: How Scorpio Man Express His Love: Is He Discreet or Loud?


I wish there were a magic answer to this question. But in my time as a relationship astrologer, I’ve learned that the right time to tell a man you love him is deeply personal and not the same for every woman. 

Be patient, be honest with him and yourself, try your best to understand his feelings, and trust the energy between you. The best time to say you love him will come to you.

If you feel as though everything is flowing wonderfully and you’re ready to be with him for the long haul, then you can go ahead and give him those three words.

Telling a Scorpio man you love him means that you’re his and there are no other options for you. He will absolutely tell you when HE feels ready, so it’s also okay for you to wait.

Your intuition will help guide you if you listen to it. Trust your gut. 

Do you love a Scorpio man? Have you told him how you feel? Let me know how it worked out in the comments!

And if you’re wondering how you match up with your Scorpio, try my free, fun compatibility quiz!

I wish you all the luck of the universe.

Your friend and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

One thought on “When Is It Okay to Say “I Love You” To a Scorpio Man?

  1. Oh it’s been a ride with my man. He is a Scorpio head to toe.
    The silent has been tough, especially with some of his business issues. He fails to communicate them to me. Trying to be patient!!! Thanks for all the insights on this ever changing man. Whom has expressed his love.
    It’s going to be a wild ride.
    Especially at our ages 66!

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