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How Is Sex with a Scorpio Man?

Are you a woman that is crazy about a Scorpio guy and wondering if he’s just as delicious in bed as he is out of it? Here are some juicy details on how sex with a Scorpio man is like:

Can Be Conservative

The Scorpio man is picky in choosing someone to go to bed with. If you’re lucky enough to be the woman he chooses, sex with a Scorpio man is a treat. When he’s not sexually involved, he will be a bit conservative.

This means he may make out with you but then decide to stop it. Unless he plans on making something of it, he’ll typically stop before the intimacy can really begin.

If he’s dating you though and he’s decided that you’re someone he can trust, he’ll start initiating intimacy. All the energy he withheld will come out and be a bit like a waterfall.

He literally will unleash every bit of passion he’s been holding back. This is a very good thing for you. If you’ve been patient enough to flirt with him and make him wait a little bit; he’ll show you why it was a good thing to do.

He’s conservative when it comes to sex until he meets the woman he wants to absolutely get in between the sheets with.  Once that happens, all bets are off and chemistry takes over.

Focus On Every Part of You

A man's hand caresses the girl's face in the morning - What Is Sex Like with the Scorpio Man

This man will take his time to check out every nook and cranny of your body. He wants to completely experience you. He’s not one that wants to turn the light off and fumble around.

He will want the lights on and be able to completely see you. It turns him on to be able to intimately be with you in this way. He’ll be able to please you better by getting to know your body.

There are some Scorpio men that just go for the glory so be aware that you really don’t know which way this could go. He may just immediately jump to oral sex and then want to quickly move to intercourse.

It really depends on how fired up he is. If you want him to hold out for a while, don’t give his genitals too much attention. If you get him fired up there, he may want to do the quick get in and get out.

When you have sex with a Scorpio man, try to tease him and make it linger so that you have a much more rewarding experience. It will make it more rewarding for him too though he may not think that in the beginning.

Teasing Each Other

He’ll be into a game of teasing as long as there will be the main course. He is quick fused when it comes to his temper as well as his libido. Try the teasing method a little bit and see where that takes you.

Try to be sensual around his neck area and take your time working your way down. He will not know how to control himself. In fact, he isn’t good at holding back but if you can do something like handcuff or tie his hands up, what can he do?

He isn’t trusting so it may not be easy to convince him to let you restrain him. If he learns to trust and allows you to though, he’ll have the most exquisite time in his sexual life.

The more you two tease one another; the more explosive your orgasms will actually be. Always keep in mind that Scorpio is highly passionate and will satisfy you in ways that other men cannot.

When He Takes Control

You never quite know what you’re going to get with each Scorpio man when it comes to him being in charge sexually. Either he will take the fast route of just diving right into sex or he will take his time.

It’s going to depend on who it is he’s having sex with and what his mood is. Remember that a Scorpio man often changes moods. His passion will be driven by his emotions as well.

He could either be in the mood for a long lovemaking session or he may instead be in the mood for a quickie get in and out session. There are many variables to the Scorpio man.

This can make him pretty hard to predict as far as what mood you are likely to catch him in. You’ll have to get to know him really well in order to be able to tell what you’re going to deal with each time you encounter him.

It may actually be different every time you have sex with a Scorpio man. Watch his actions and observe what type of mood he’s in and you should be able to gauge which direction he may go in if you’re ready for a little roll in the hay.

No Grey Area with Him

Cheerful young couple resting in the hotel's bedroom - What Is Sex Like with the Scorpio Man

Scorpio men tend to be very black and white. He cannot see any area in between. Sexually speaking; he will be either; very hot and passionate or he will be ice cold and unable to find a middle ground.

Sex with a Scorpio man can be very aggressive he may be very passive. There is no center field with this guy. His feelings run deep as does his libido. It’s either or.

If you’re really into your Scorpio man; you’ll get to know what he wants, how he wants it and when. You’ll also get to know the moods in which you know there’s probably no chance of getting him in the sack.

Conclusion

If you’re dating him, you’ll have to carefully watch how he acts around you. This will teach you how he deals with his current circumstances and his moods. This may help you determine if you can or cannot get a slice of Scorpio or not.

To learn him is to love him even when he’s being frustrating. Click here to learn more about the Scorpio man.

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



  • Ok. Long but true..
    Im 38 years old. I hired a girl 26 years old as my assistant. She worked for me for about 3 months. One day she brings her boyfriend up to the office to meet me. I was cordial, but dismissed it quickly and got back to work. Hes 39 years old. One day she didnt show up to work and I couldn’t reach her so i remembered her boyfriends name and reached out to him on fb. Immediately he gave me his phone number and told me to call him. I called him and he informed me that she had been arrested for OVI and driving under suspension. We kept in constant contact, the following 10 days leading up to her court date. I tried to be as encouraging and optimistic as possible and I didnt wanted the hassle of having to hire someone else as well. He said they’d been dating 6 months and this was blowing his mind. When her court date approached and concluded they gave her 6 months in alcohol in house treatment for having too many OVI’s under 3 years old. She will also go to do six months in another county after leaving there, for violation of probation.
    Needless to say, I was sympathetic to his concern. He told me that once she gets out, she will have been in jail for longer than they’ve dated. He said they had been living in an apartment together for less than a month because she was tired of living with her sister, so he got an apartment so she could have a place to be. He said he got her a car in his name because of her credit, later to find out she had suspended license. So now hes stuck with the Bill’s of the apartment and car note. Not to mention, he just got a divorce a year ago because of his ex wife constant infidelity. I gave him some words of encouragement, told him to make the best decision and to be content with what ever he decides to do.
    I called him, at the end the week after rounding up all of her personal belongings and took them to his house. He invited me in. We set and talked for a while and then she called and I talked to her for a minute. When the call was over, I told him to take care, and that I was in a hurry because I was going to get something to eat. He decided to join me. We went to a sports bar and had drinks and ate and talked for about 4 hours. In the end we parted ways with a hug.
    I went to work and told another employee that I met with her boyfriend to take her belongings. He said, oh you know she was using that guy up and waiting for her man to come home from jail. I couldn’t believe it and especially after all he had done to help her. He said she had told him that one of his kids is autistic and the other manish and they get on her nerves. That hes too affectionate and it makes her want to throw up as much as he wants to kiss her everytime he leaves. None of this sat well with me but at the same time it was none of my business.
    Fast forward. She has now been in the prison treatment center for 110 days. A few weeks earlier she wrote me a letter apologizing for not being able to continue to work. I called him to tell him about it. He and I began texting and talking on a regular basis. Hello, Good morning, good night. Some of the time just about her and him and some about our own self and lifes. I could tell he was confused and frustrated and feeling some type of way about the whole situation with her and my heart went out to him because I knew how she said she really felt about him, but I never disclose that to him. It’s not my place to tell.
    One day he invited me to eat sushi. I went, we talked, ate sushi, drank sake and laughed and had a good time. And like the first time, in the end, we parted ways with a hug.
    I begin to subside on texting and talking with him as much because I really began to like him, I mean, like him, like him. Lol. I didnt want to feel lmthis way because after all, he has a girlfriend, regardless of what her intentions were.
    Our text and calls dwindled over the next 3 weeks.
    One day I was thinking about him and I told him I was going out, which is rare because I’m a workaholic, and hadn’t been out in over a year, but it was much needed. I had plans to go out with my bestfriend. I invited him to come along as well. We all met up and had a good time, drinking, laughing, just unwinding all together. Once I saw him, I actually felt like I had been missing him.
    As always, in the end, we parted ways with a hug. After this night, We began texting on a regular basis again, how was your day, just thinking about you, hope all is well.. etc. We never discussed her again.
    Day before yesterday (Saturday) evening we planned to go eat sushi. Well the time approached and I had to cancel because I had a deadline and needed to get some paperwork in before Monday. We both ended up texting our sad faces..
    I ended up telling them that when I was finished, he could/should come by and we could have some drinks. He agrees and I invited him to my house for the first time.. I got finished working at bout 10pm and he made it to my house by 11pm. As promised he brought drinks. We drank and talked and laughed and had a really good time. He told me about his family, his children, a lot, just his history period.. I did the same. In the midst of talking and getting up to make drinks and etc., we had a few schoolboy/girl incidents where we’d brush against one another with a quick apology, and continue on with our convo.
    He sat closer to me on the sofa and when he started showing me pictures in his phone he put his arm around me. On occasions he played with my fingers while talking to me. He kept staring at me. We watched the UFC fight in between talking and laughing. A time or two, our eyes locked and we dismissed it, carrying on.
    The UFC fight was over. We showed each other our tattoos and talked some more.
    Our eyes lock again, and this time he kisses me. He wrapped his arms around me and squeezed me tight. He was so intense and passionate with it I almost melted.. needless to say he began giving me oral sex and between his breaths, he would ask me to stare into his eyes. And I did and it felt like he was looking into my soul. When he kissed me he brushed the hair out of my face gently. He ran his fingers down the side of my face. Everytime he kissed me, he’d smile and just look at me for a minute. He told me I taste so good. We didnt have sex and he didnt want oral sex in return. When he was finished, he layed back on the sofa and pulled me close to him. He lay my head on his chest, wrapped his arms around me and we fell asleep.
    We woke up, at about 5 am and he decided to go on home. In the end, we hugged tight and kissed and he parted way.
    Sunday morning we texted our usual good morning. And briefly we mentioned our feelings on the previous night.
    I guess I’m confused here. I mean, I dont know what we are doing but just my experiences with him, hes a good guy and I really do like him. I feel bad, of course he was my assistants boyfriend, at whatever capacity that was. But i feel like he deserves someone like me, who will be good to him and love him like he should be loved. I dont know where they stand, we talked about it briefly that night, and he said it’s been different and he said he thinks she should focus more on getting better than focusing on anything else in her life right now. I didnt want to pry because, I’ve heard scorpio men dont like that. I guess I dont want to go any further, if hes gonna truly wait for her to come out after the year is over with. I dont want my feelings hurt.However, hes so gentle, I dont feel like he would ever intentionally hurt me. I’ve enjoyed the times I’ve spent with him and everything we’ve done together, as a whole. Even just our conversations. I dont know if I should tell him my feelings because he may not be there at all, maybe this was something lustful for him.. I dont know what he wants from me. If he does want me, why is he still holding on to her?

  • **UPDATE ** We talked on the phone last night for about an hour and he said he gave his 30 day notice at their apartment and is moving back closer to his family at the end of June. I didnt qant yo ask what he will do with her things. I just listened. And when I was in Facebook later on last night, I saw that he removed all of her photos from his page.
    We talked about seeing each other soon. He works out of town during the week and has his kids in every other weekend. I’m a regional Manager so I travel a lot as well. According to our schedules, we won’t be able to see each other again for almost 2 weeks. I want to see him bad. I dont qant yo rush. Dont qant yo lish hom away but I’m still confused. We haven’t said anything other than the fact that we do very much like each. I’ve been out of a relationship, with my children’s father for almost 3 years, hes been divorced for 2. Praying if this is for me then it will be evident and happen with ease.

    • I loved how you spent the second half of your story justifying having sex with your former employees boyfriend by painting her in a negative light, oh, but you tried making yourself look good by being the “supportive” boss, didn’t you? Yeah, right, I saw through that. Lol!! How professional. No matter what the situation, you got way to involved in your employees personal life. Now you have feelings for him and poor you, now have feelings for him. I would love to hear her side of the story, but I am sure you will end up with exactly what you deserve.

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