In the mind of a Scorpio, love is not given away just like that. He has some clear ideas in his head that he has to fight or hijack the emotions coming from the other side. For him, this will be the hardest fight, but the reward of the inner satisfaction will last forever in his heart.
Here are a few tips on how to flirt with a Scorpio man:
Scorpio man Is a Fiery River
Any contact with the Scorpio person brings some sudden fears, and doubt in general. And even if you bump into a Scorpio guy selling vegetables at the farmer’s market, your communication might easily look like this:
-Hello, how much for the zucchini?
-My inner shaman just told me that one gorgeous lady would come today and ask for zucchini. Then I should offer her my heart and my body, and the moment I say how much this costs, she will be mesmerized… By the way, zucchini cost $X. What can you do now?
Well, the most diplomatic thing would be to smile gently and walk away with the creeping fear in your mind. Maybe, this won’t be remembered as the perfect or the most successful flirtatious joke, but you won’t forget him for sure. And this is the way this guy’s brain works all the time and how to flirt with a Scorpio man.
For a Scorpio guy, love is something sacred which comes from the depthless of the earth, and the highest heavens and then merges into human beings. Love is not a cheap thrill for him at all. He can have numerous hookups or one night stances, but when he feels that the woman standing next to him is very valuable, he will make sure that she will become the queen throughout his whole life.
Love is the fire of creation and destruction, and every sexual experience is like a little death and a big reincarnation for his whole being. And he is capable of literary sacrificing his life for the love of his life. This is the point where everything becomes very interesting for you.
Decide What You Want
There is no need to create the astrophysics, engineering technology or a war strategy if you only want him for one night. You can be daring, cheeky and of course, a bit rude and he will notice you straight away. If the Scorpio guy is available in his heart, he will take this as a challenge and start a little verbal fight.
To flirt with a Scorpio man, you should let him win and pretend like you are somewhat ashamed of your ignorance and his dominance. And the next step will take place in some bed nearby.
However, if you want his heart, then you have to become very patient, meticulous and yes, special. There is nothing more magnetic in mind and eyes of a Scorpio man than a high-value woman. She is worth living and dying for.
Hunting the Hunter
If you are spending some time together during the day, like working together or attending the same school or activities, then you should look sexy, but classy at the same time. Other than that, you will have to talk like a lady (no dirty words are allowed) and act like a lady too. A feminine woman is a great aphrodisiac in his brain, so please become one, if you already haven’t.
The next thing on your list will be to find your passion. This can be literary anything related to “girly activities,” like dancing classes, acting, cooking especially. You might even choose tarot cards, creating jewelry, attending some educational lectures regarding archeology, history, medicine or arts.
And the final and crucial step is to hang around him in a very discreet manner and from time to time mention your passion. He could try to make some small and mean jokes about you in the beginning but don’t show him your anger. Smile and walk away in the whole of your divine femininity.
The fish has swallowed the hook. Now the fisherman, or a fisherwoman in your case, have to pull out the rope very, very slowly. He will certainly feel embarrassed for his small joke, but he will be attracted at the same time.
And now, dance around your “passion” while he will slowly start to dance around you magically attracted by your energy, beauty and focus on something valuable.
The Night of the Underworld
In the case you have an official date night with the Scorpio man, or you just met him at the club or a restaurant, and you want something meaningful and serious in your life, then you should be a lady, again, and show your passion, still, but you should also do some things extra.
Be talkative, but not boring. Most of the time he won’t pay attention to your words at all; he will listen to the music of your voice. And the levels of energy you possess and how he feels beside you will become the decisive factor for him.
So, please be humorous too. Break the ice by saying some jokes about you, how clumsy you can sometimes be. Let him see your pure childish heart, but let him also be aware of your gentle and feminine gestures at the same time.
Do not stay forever. Give him two hours the most and excuse yourself by telling him that you have to get up early to do this or that. Make him want you more.
And for heaven’s sake, don’t go to bed with him right after this date ends. He will try for sure, but act like a conservative girl, and this will make him chase you.
The magic hook for him will be to make him always want you more until he puts the ring on your finger.
How did you flirt with a Scorpio man? What happened? Did you catch this exotic and dangerous creature from the depthless of the water?
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer, Anna Kovach