How To Love A Scorpio Man (15 Ways To Show A Scorpio Man You Love Him)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
If you want to learn how to love a Scorpio man, you need to treat his all-encompassing love for you as a shrine that needs daily devotion.

How to love a Scorpio man is something you have to learn; loving a Scorpio man can really be a delight. Scorpio men are manly in bed, where they prance and gallop like purebred stallions, but when it comes to love, they are just like women.

They love completely deeply and passionately and you can be sure that when a Scorpio man falls in love, he gives his whole soul. Betray that and you get yourself an enemy for life. A Scorpio man is all about extremes!

If you want to show your love to a Scorpio man, then you need to treat his all-encompassing love for you as a shrine that needs daily devotion. This is how to make a Scorpio man feel loved!

He loves being alone so when he gives up time for you, don’t ever take it for granted. Stay with the moment and feel each gesture with the intensity that he is pouring into it.

It isn’t always easy figuring out what you can do to make a Scorpio feel loved, so the following are the tips you need on how to love a Scorpio man to help keep the romance alive in your relationship for as long as possible.

How To Show A Scorpio Man You Love Him

1. Keep The Passion Burning

How to love a Scorpio man is a lot less complicated than you might think. A Scorpio man treats every moment as an adventure and you need to put some soul into it if you want to keep him feeling appreciated.

A Scorpio man needs real physical gestures to make him feel loved. This means eye contact, sexy lingerie, and original gestures that show him that he is the only man on your mind. Whether you are making coffee or giving him oral pleasure, pour your heart and soul into it.

When you show your passion to your Scorpio man, he will go out of his way to give you anything and everything, because that’s how a Scorpio man expresses his love. Understand this and you’ll be closer than ever with your seriously sexy Scorpio guy.

There is no way to be around your Scorpio man and not want to rip his clothes off! Let him see that and feel it. He’ll love it and he’ll want you more as well. Showing him how passionate you feel about him is a definite way to make a Scorpio man happy.

2. Make Him The Boss

Scorpio men are big on control. They are independent creatures who need to feel that they control everything around them at all times. This is why they prefer to stay at home, where they can control their environment.

If you want to show your love to a Scorpio man, don’t put him in situations where he is not in control, and don’t spring surprises on him that will cause him to lose his footing. If he loves you then he will give you power over him… but he doesn’t like feeling powerless, so keep that in mind.

Even if you don’t really want to be the submissive, you can make him think that you are, because that’s how to treat a Scorpio man when you’re in love with him and want him to know it.

He just really enjoys being a man. Let him have that and you’ll have him forever. A Scorpio man will truly appreciate you and show you how much he cares for you always.

Read also: Is your Scorpio man secretly in love? Signs to look for <<

3. Be Trustworthy

The greatest fear for a Scorpio man is that his lover is cheating on him. Give him any reason to doubt you and his legendary jealousy will flare up to destroy whatever love lies between you.

You may think your devotion is obvious but you need to show this man that he is the only one for you – and you should never be tempted to flirt with other men or test his devotion to you by making him jealous. When he fights it is to the death, and he does not take any prisoners, so don’t even go there, sister!

How to know a Scorpio man is jealous? Check out here <<

You have to be certain that your Scorpio man doesn’t suspect you for anything. Always be open, honest, and loyal. That’s all he asks and is something you should be able to do if you really love him.

Don’t give him any reason to think that you are anything but his. He has to know that you are someone he doesn’t have to doubt or be insecure about. Your Scorpio man will appreciate this and will try to reciprocate.

4. Exude Strength

A Scorpio man thrives when he is with a woman of substance who matches him with strength and purpose. He needs to know that you are his equal in every way. If you show any sign of weakness or naiveté, he’ll start to doubt the strength of your bond.

You need to learn the difference between being strong and being dominating so that you can show your inner strength but still let him feel like he is the one in control. Complicated, yes, but not nearly as complicated as a passionate Scorpio man.

Being a doormat to your Scorpio is not what he wants and he will likely lose respect for you. Stand up and make sure your voice is heard and that he really gets where you are coming from.

You don’t have to yell or make a big scene. Just open up to him on a personal level and work through it like an adult. He’ll appreciate your candor and the fact that you want to work with him.

If you struggle with finding the right words to make your Scorpio man feel special, I strongly suggest getting my Forever Love With A Scorpio Man. It will help you speak to his core, and make your bond so much stronger.

5. Stay Curious And Exciting

Nothing will make a Scorpio man feel like he is in love quite like a bit of mystery wrapped up in a whole lot of passion! Keep him guessing. The Scorpio man tends to get bored easily and needs constant stimulation and many little riddles to occupy his complicated mind.

Do not be tempted to make things up because he can easily detect a lie and may start to distrust you, just keep enough of you hidden to keep his interest and practice cloaking your everyday activities with a little bit of intrigue to keep him on his toes.

Being fun and adventurous is key, and so is being spontaneous. Your Scorpio guy will respond well and will take you to exotic places because that is how a Scorpio man expresses his love.

The more fun you have together, the more that the Scorpio man shows his love. His adoration runs thick and will be almost all-consuming at some point. You’ll envelop yourself in his beautiful cloak of passion.

Sounds fantastic, doesn’t it? Doing these things is how to make a Scorpio man feel loved. Give him what you have and he’ll happily reciprocate. Do fun stuff hand in hand. Find romance and enjoy!

Here’s more on what a Scorpio man likes and dislikes in a woman <<

6. Keep Things Sexy

Showing Love To A Scorpio Man

More than any other man in the Zodiac, a Scorpio man responds very sensitively to all the physical gestures of sensuality. For a Scorpio man to feel loved and cared for, he needs a lot of sensuality.

A Scorpio man needs red-hot, passionate sex. Be ready to seduce him at a moment’s notice and to be seduced spontaneously on any mundane occasion.

Your willingness to show him your inner sex goddess and to go along with moments of sensual inspiration will be noticed and hugely rewarded. Take extra care with your appearance and invest in new lingerie and perfume to make him feel extra special.

Learn here what type of woman a Scorpio man prefers physically <<

Ultimately, giving your Scorpio man the sex treatment is a good way to show a Scorpio man you like him. He pays attention and he loves to be as physical with you as he can get.

Give him your best and show him that you know how to treat a Scorpio man. He’ll appreciate every bit of kinky intimacy you can or want to give him.

If you want some hot and playful moves to excite your Scorpio man and drive him crazy in bed, make sure you get my 27 Dirty Phrases for Scorpio Man <<

7. Be Supportive

A Scorpio man is an emotional minefield, but he likes to act tough and not show how vulnerable he is. He doesn’t respond very well to criticism, and he gets hurt very easily, so you need to treat him like the fragile treasure that he is.

Support his ambitions and be very careful when it comes to your critique of his behavior. Make sure to tell him what you love about him; he needs to hear it daily.

Give him concrete praise and shower him with small gifts of sex and flowers to make sure he understands how much he is loved. Your actions are something he pays attention to.

Showing him unwavering support is how to tell a Scorpio man you love him without words. Give him everything he needs to feel confident and sure of himself as well as with you.

Here’s more on how to develop a strong emotional connection with your Scorpio man <<

How To Comfort A Scorpio Man — More Ways To Cheer Up A Scorpio Man

Scorpio men are some of the most emotional and caring men in the entire Zodiac. You wouldn’t think it because these guys tend to put on a tough front, but deep inside they are moody, sensitive, and really emotional.

Handle with care at all costs. Loving a Scorpio man can be challenging at times, but it is definitely worth it. Although they need a lot of love and affection, they will always stand by you if you are loyal and show that you care.

Here are some more ways to comfort your Scorpio man:

8. Embrace Your Feminine Side

How To Comfort A Scorpio Man

How to comfort a Scorpio man is a lot easier than you might think. All you really need to do is embrace your femininity and that mother-like instinct inside of you. A Scorpio man needs a woman who can be empathetic yet strong.

A woman who can support him and know when to follow his lead, but also someone who can push him out of his comfort zone. He needs a warrior with whom he can contend.

To make a Scorpio man the happiest guy in the world, he needs a woman who can show her loyalty and that she will stand by him, in all the good times, but as well as all the bad times.

9. Honor Your Commitment By Being Loyal

Commitment and loyalty are really big on a Scorpio man’s list of values. He needs someone who he can feel he can trust and depend on. All a Scorpio man really wants is someone he knows is going to stick by his side. 

He is terrified of being betrayed or hurt by the woman he opens his heart to, so be gentle with him. It is important for any woman to be patient with a Scorpio man because it can take a while for him to let his guard down. 

He knows this, and any woman who sticks around and shows him her worth will be rewarded with the most transformational and intense love imaginable. All a Scorpio man needs to be loved is patience and care.

Read also: How To Attract A Scorpio Man: 9 Secrets To Pull Him Closer

10. Put Effort Into Understanding Him

To love a Scorpio man, you need to take the time to truly understand him. He is definitely a complicated creature, and he isn’t always the easiest person to get along with. Be curious about him, ask him questions, and go out of your way to understand who he truly is.

A Scorpio man cares about depth, and this isn’t a man concerned with surface-level stuff. He wants to be with a woman who can really dig deep with him, and show him her true colors.

He doesn’t always like to open up first, but if you can show him that you know how to be vulnerable, he is more likely to slowly start opening up to you which will make it so much easier for you to understand him.

11. Forgive His Darkside

There is definitely a streak of nastiness that runs through a Scorpio man. At times, he can be really vengeful, jealous, and possessive. However, this side of him only manifests if he somehow feels threatened.

Understanding that a Scorpio man can at times actually be incredibly insecure will help you to love him better. Eventually, you will learn to notice his moodiness and what triggers it and this will help you to love him deeper.

It will mean a lot to him that you are making the effort to understand who he is. Through this, you can really strengthen your relationships and build a deeper bond with your Scorpio man.

Few More Ways To Make A Scorpio Man Feel Loved And Appreciated

12. Trust Him With Your Secrets

A Scorpio man will know that you appreciate his presence in your life when you open up to him and tell him your deepest and darkest secrets. Don’t worry; he knows how to keep your confidences close, and he won’t tell a soul!

When you allow him to see you in all your vulnerability, your Scorpio man will feel validated and loved. Trusting him is one of the biggest things you can do to signal to him that he is your chosen one; it makes him feel really important.

An added bonus is that you’ll find him to be a brilliant advisor and an excellent shoulder to cry on—this is definitely a win-win situation!

13. Allow Him To Protect You

How To Make A Scorpio Man Feel Loved And Appreciated

Scorpio is a sign ruled by the planet Mars—the warrior planet, the planet of battle. Protective, strong, and assertive, Scorpio men just want to be the ones to have your back! They are wonderful defenders of the people that they love and fiercely dedicated.

When you allow him to protect and defend you, you give him the chance to feel fully himself. And this shows him that you see him and appreciate him for who he is.

As strange as it sounds, when you let your Scorpio man be who he is, that is when he feels the most loved.

14. Get Him Meaningful Gifts

Everyone loves gifts, right? This is an easy one. However, it’s the type of gift that you get that makes all the difference. So, what does a Scorpio man like to receive?

It’s got to be meaningful. Scorpio is a water sign, after all, so you can’t just get him something expensive and fancy and expect him to feel appreciated. No, a Scorpio man needs something a little more than that!

Here’s more on how to surprise a Scorpio man with the perfect gift <<

Whatever you do, make sure it has a story and touches his heart. That it’s something deeply personal to him as an individual, or to your relationship. You’ll have him weak at the knees!

15. Invite Him To Vent With You

Scorpio men are very controlled by the outside world. They seem like they have it all together, but inside, there’s a seething storm of emotion and feelings!

Inviting him to vent to you can make him feel very loved and affirmed. Simply asking him to share his day with you or inviting him to talk about a colleague that gets on his nerves is a great way to show him you appreciate how hard he works and what he goes through in his day-to-day!

How To Tell A Scorpio Man You Love Him

There are many ways in which you can show a Scorpio man that you love him. These guys have a sixth sense, so it is likely that he knows how you actually feel way before you reveal it to him.

He certainly has a sense for these things and this is what makes him so special. But how do you let him know how much you care for him? Is there a special way to do it?

Well, you don’t always have to verbalize the way you feel about your Scorpio man. For some women this is a bit too much, and what are words without the actions to back them anyway? If you love a Scorpio man, you can always show it to him.

And by that, I mean support him, care for him, go out of your way to make him special. All these ways will really let him know that you mean the world to him. You don’t even have to say it.

If you are still feeling unsure, and confused about whether or not to tell your Scorpio man you love him, check out this article.

The 14 Words That Give Instant Youth To Your Relationship With A Scorpio Man…

Have you ever heard of a 14-word elixir that can rejuvenate relationships with a Scorpio man and grant eternal love?

Just as communication is the most important aspect of a relationship, one of the most important aspects of communication is knowing how to overcome disagreements and misunderstandings.

I knew many women who tragically failed with Scorpio guys just because they underestimated the importance of talks.

Some didn’t talk with them enough and some talked too much… Others talked just enough, but they said a few wrong things here and there which made their lovers sulk and brood.

Let me tell you, you never want to leave a Scorpio guy sulk because of something that you said.

It’s best to resolve any such conflict ASAP because his negativity could expand ad infinitum until one day he just snaps and decides that you’re not the one for him and that it’s all over.

The worst part is that 9 out of 10 times with a Scorpio, women are not even aware that they’ve said something wrong… or missed saying something that he expected them to say.

He doesn’t give off any signals when he’s hurt or disappointed. Instead, he usually just becomes quiet… but women never notice it. Even if they do, they never realize what to do in time.

That’s why whenever a disagreement occurs, it’s best to diffuse it with 14 words that could save your relationship.

Click here to learn the 14 words that give instant youth to your relationship with a Scorpio man <<

Sending you love,

Your friend and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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4 thoughts on “How To Love A Scorpio Man (15 Ways To Show A Scorpio Man You Love Him)

  1. A Scorpio man that has been deeply in love with me for the last 3 years has made me submit my heart to him. He sings songs of me, showing up on schedule to see me, makes a lot of eye contact and so much more. He is truly devoted and loyal to me even though I’m with someone else. He doesn’t want to give me up and is seriously in love with me. I have come to learn how dedicated Scorpio’s are when they believe you are truly the one. We always had a crazy magnetic connection from the moment we saw each other, it was crazy. I’m torn between him and my current relationship. It isn’t easy, but to see how he waits for me while loving me deeply from a distance, respecting the situation and giving me all the care that he can give. We match a lot actually. Im an Aries with a Cancer moon and I feel he is everything I ever wanted in a man, yet I’m waiting patiently what time will reveal.

    1. Hi An!

      Wow your Scorpio man sounds fantastic. Your union does make sense and since you have a Cancer moon, your “watery” side understands him. You two can connect. Just watch your temper because with his, you two could clash sometimes. Just keep talking and communicating. Good you are letting time dictate what happens next. That’s a very honorable approach. If you’d like to learn more about him, check out my books on Scorpio Man Secrets. Wishing you all the best!

  2. Hi my name is Lana
    I have been dating a Scorpio man
    For the last 8 months, it’s been really hard but extremely worth it !
    We are only long distance right now but I plan on flying out to meet him on our 1year anniversary! We are both so excited about it …
    When I told him it was the first time I’d ever heard him squeal with happiness ?
    Im so happy because it’s the first time In our relationship that he has really opened up fully to me .
    He’s told me about feelings he’s been having that I was hoping for but wasn’t sure if he was feeling the same way .
    I truly feel like we have an amazing connection and I pray that he is my soul mate !
    ( P.S he asked me about rings the other night ! )

    1. Hi Lana!

      Thank you for chiming in. I’m always happy to hear about success stories! When you see each other in person then the love can come and solidify. Enjoy yourself and don’t change simply because you’re face to face. Stick to who you are because that’s who he is interested in. You’ll find out what is what when you are face to face. I wish you all the luck of the Stars!

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