Moody, brooding, adventurous and passionate Scorpio men are the lovers most women fantasize about. The Scorpio man is all about strong thoughts, intense emotions, serious devotion and the kind of lust that will break down your defenses and have you gasping for air while begging for more.
If you find power attractive, then the serious mind and powerful sensual style of a Scorpio man will make your whole body tingle.
He is less likely to throw you down and ravish you with strong gestures of lust than he is likely to completely penetrate your mind, and overpower your fears with an emotional force so intense you may wonder if this man is slightly deranged.
Many women find themselves wondering what the catch is when caught up in whirlwind seduction storm that the scorpion creates around his mysterious and magnetic personality.
What you need to understand is that a Scorpio man is incredibly vulnerable and that when he is staring into your eyes he is wondering if he can trust you, not how he can destroy you.
He is also prone to suspicion and jealousy of tyrannical and theatrical proportions. He will love it if you are mysterious and hard to get, but give him a reason to doubt your faithfulness or honesty, and he will pursue the truth at the expense of the amazing connection you two have and he won’t rest until the whole affair is burned to the ground.
1. Be a Powerful Playmate
A Scorpio man does nothing half-heartedly and this is especially true in bed. Even when he cuddles he does it with a vigor that rivals his very firm opinions and his enormous will.
For him, a satisfying sexual encounter has lashings of emotion and physical expression to match, and any successful pairing should leave both parties transformed and shaken.
While control, power games, and submission are all part of his bedroom attire, what he really needs from you is authenticity and a wholehearted commitment to bonding physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Make lots of eye contact during foreplay and throughout sex, and after, and if you use your eyes to project your appreciation and attraction with force and conviction.
2. Cultivate Sensual Mystery
Scorpio men are the kind of lovers who never leave your head. They keep the object of their deepest passion guessing with their enigmatic mix of tenderness and ruthlessness, and as long as you stay true to yourself, you can really let your hair down to play act the femme-fatal sexual alter ego that lurks under your shy or polite facade.
Keep him guessing and, once you know where his limits are, push him out of his comfort zone. Make a theatrical confession of sexual fantasy or deeply buried secret to get your Scorpio lover excited and inflamed.
He can be trusted to help you explore your greatest fears without judgment, and you can reward that heightened sense of trust and deep connection with hours of attentive and dedicated oral sex.
3. Show your Emotions Fearlessly
Seduction is a grand and all-consuming game for the Scorpio man, who longs for a deeply committed match with his lover. He needs to feel that the game is not his to win for him to play at all, but if he thinks he doesn’t stand a chance, he will walk away.
Scorpio men love a thrilling and dramatic sex life but being a water sign their feelings are always washing around just under their skin. Whatever drama you unleash on your Scorpio man, make sure he knows that you love and adore him, or he may start second-guessing your integrity.
Get into his head as well as his bed, and probe his secrets showing that you intend to penetrate his darkest corners, but don’t threaten him, keep it gentle and playful, and show him that you mean business.
4. Be Strong and Serious
Scorpio men love power games and he will relish the challenge of a woman who respects his authority and pushes his boundaries but neither completely submits nor tries to completely dominate. Power and submission are all part of his bedroom attire, and he doesn’t want it all to be his sole preserve.
Push back, and be dominant in sexual positions and in initiating sex in the first place, but know when to submit and give in, or an almighty fight will ensue, as he hates being told what to do. It is a delicate balance of push and pulls but the minute you start taking him for granted or become casual in your approach, he will pull the bedroom rug out from under your feet
5. Venture into Mystical and Forbidden Realms
A Scorpio man loves sex that ignites a deeper spiritual response or awakens his sense of awe and wonder. You need to unleash the parts of your sexuality you normally keep hidden and give him the full weight of your unusual or unique skills and desires.
Try telepathic communication, or sex without any speaking or touching. Try to explore phone sex or sexting by exchanging intimate images and thoughts so that you both can talk about your ideas about love and sex at length in a safe space.
To keep him wanting more, treat him like a king and make him treat you like a goddess, with exact instructions on what your highness needs to be sexually fulfilled. Being yourself is everything, as truth matters to this man who has an intuitive skill in knowing when you are pretending.
6. Leave the Comfort Zone
In the eyes of a hot-blooded Scorpio man, being emotional, or truthful about your fears of rejection or failure, does not make you weak, but makes you authentic and powerful. Do not make the mistake of thinking that Scorpio men will be impressed by a cold and aloof dominatrix style of expression.
The process of getting to a mutual decision around fidelity and expectations will be wildly exciting for both of you. He cannot stand a prude and yet he needs to learn to trust you, and if you trust him with your fears and fantasies, the bond between you can only grow stronger.
7. Keep the Adventure Alive
He has issues with jealousy and he loves mysteries, so explore introducing other people, or new practices (like bondage and dominance or pornography) so that you can establish the ground rules by testing your limits rather than declaring the rules.
Get into his head as well as his bed, and probe his secrets showing that you intend to penetrate his darkest corners, but don’t threaten him, keep it gentle and playful, while making it clear to him that you mean business. The rewards will be great if you play your cards right.
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Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
