When it comes to the Scorpio man, he possesses a great passion for the woman he loves; but with that great passion brings some well-known issues. What are they and what can you do to get past them?
Scorpio has many wonderful qualities, but it’s probably helpful to you to know what a Scorpio man’s weaknesses in love are so that you can understand him better.
If I were you, I’d stay tuned and read this article through to the end if you want to love and make your Scorpio man relationship work!
Jealousy, Jealousy, Jealousy
This issue has got to be one of the most difficult things to deal with when it comes to loving a Scorpio man. He loves so deeply that his partner becomes almost like a possession.
He doesn’t want anyone messing with what is his and he surely doesn’t want his partner to find interest in anyone else. He loves to flirt but you’re definitely not allowed to.
Not only will he be jealous of male friendships that you may have but he will also be jealous of your other friends and sometimes family.
Basically, anyone who has your attention or love is someone who he will become jealous of. He doesn’t want time and attention taken away from him.
This is sort of like paranoia on his part. He wonders where you are, what you’re doing, who you’re talking to, and I wouldn’t even put it past him to follow you now and then.
Jealousy is like a sickness with the Scorpio men. They can try to work on it, but it takes a very strong and patient partner to help him get past this.
What can you do? You have to stand strong and still be you. Don’t isolate yourself from your friends or family because of your Scorpio man jealous tendencies.
Tell him where you are going and with whom. Return at the time you said you would and if you cannot, message him and let him know why. This teaches him that you do what you say.
It may take him time to adjust or to trust you more, but as long as you don’t leave him hanging, you are doing the best that you can.
Being possessive and demanding really go hand in hand with jealousy and should be handled the same way. Don’t ever let him tell you what you can or cannot do.
The Secretive Behavior
The truth is, you’ll never know 100% of your Scorpio man. You’ll know him as much as he allows, but there are things that he will never reveal to anyone.
The other thing is that Scorpio man always wants to know your whereabouts and all the details but he doesn’t want to do the same for you. He doesn’t want anyone to fully know what he’s doing.
He could be going out to get a burger but instead of telling you that, he’ll say he’s going to run an errand or just a very simple “Be back soon,” without any more information.
If you were to do that, he’d lose his mind worrying about where you are going, why, and when you’ll be back.
Why does he do this? This is a very natural occurrence for a Scorpio. They are secretive. They were born this way, just as they were born not trusting anyone.
Due to this way of thinking, they do question everyone – including you. With time and patience, this will fade out a bit… but he will never totally trust you.
There will always be fears in the back of his mind that manifest from time to time. This is to be expected.
What can you do when he’s being secretive with you though? You’re going to have to stand up and tell him that if he demands to know where you are going, you need the same respect.
You’ll have to basically teach him how you want to be treated. Tell him it’s not acceptable for him to be shady but want you to be 100% honest and upfront.
This is a communication thing and he needs to be just as open with you if he wants you to stick with the relationship. Don’t let him get away with it. It needs to be totally clear between you.
The Scorpio Man’s Vindictive Weakness In Love
The Scorpio guy is definitely the “tit for tat” type of guy. If you do something that upsets him, he may do something right back that will bother you.
It’s childish and it shouldn’t be something that interferes with your relationship.
If you don’t do what you say you’re going to do, he will want to do something to retaliate. The problem is, you weren’t doing it to hurt him whereas what he does will.
An example would be that you had plans with a girlfriend, told him all the details but then the plans changed midway and you didn’t notify him.
Now he’s going to get back at you by totally getting angry with either silent treatment or venting with his sharp tongue. Not only that but he will go out and not tell you a thing.
He will make you worry and get stressed about what he’s doing. When you find out and say something, he says: “well you couldn’t be bothered to tell me your plans changed so why do you care?”
This is the Scorpio mentality. That being said, what can you do about this? You’re going to have to be careful about when you forget to tell him something.
When you remember, tell him you’re sorry you forgot to mention it. If you don’t trust me when I tell you that he will make this an issue even if it started as something really tiny.
The Bottom Line With Scorpio Man’s Weaknesses In Love…
Scorpio men don’t play fair when it comes to love and relationships. The best thing you could ever do for yourself is stand up and don’t let him try to hold you captive or control you.
When you stand up for yourself, it shows you are to be respected. He learns, with time, that if he wants to love you and for you to love him, then he has to respect you.
This does come with time and experience but you can totally get him to adhere to a healthier relationship. Make sure that the tit for tat game doesn’t happen.
Scorpio men love revenge and will seek it out if you aren’t careful. Make him treat you the way you treat him. You can do this!
Make him be his very best with you. You deserve to have happiness. Don’t ever let your Scorpio sting you with his cold behaviors.
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