Wondering if your Scorpio man is secretly in love with you? This mysterious Zodiac sign never makes it easy to guess; often appearing calm and controlled. However, scratch just beneath the surface and you’ll find someone intense, deep, and very loving! What are some of the secret ways he will express his love for you? Let’s find out.
Did you know that Scorpio is one of the relationship signs in Astrology? It’s not just Libra and Taurus, ladies – surprise! Scorpio rules the concepts of intimacy, sexuality, passion, and emotional connection when it comes to relationships.
And with him being a “fixed” sign in Astrology, he’s also the type that commits and wants something long-term and real. Sure, he can do casual, but usually gets too tangled in emotion – he is a water sign, after all!
So, how do you know if you’re the girl he wants at his side? What is his “love language” and how does he best express his heart?
The truth is, he’s not an obvious kind of guy. He tends to keep his feelings to himself, until he’s totally sure that you feel the same way. He doesn’t open up easily, in other words.
Between you and me, in my experience as a Relationship Astrologer, this is a man that is usually scared of being rejected. He does tend to have classic abandonment issues that he will never, ever show to anyone. Hence, showing love is a major risk for him.
How To Know If A Scorpio Man Is Secretly In Love
There is no denying it, but a Scorpio man is quite the mystery. Nothing gets him more excited than a bit of allure, especially if he is in a situation that might be seen as taboo, like if the two of you are colleagues or maybe if either of you are already in a relationship.
When a Scorpio man is secretly in love, he will try to catch your eye with a penetrating gaze, looking at you longer than he should, or perhaps brush your hand as he walks by you. He will try his best to be around you in your presence and find little excuses to speak with you.
You will also be able to tell if he starts acting all shy around you and treats you differently to other people. You will somehow know that you mean something to him because he will make you feel special.
Even if the two of you aren’t really in a taboo situation, a Scorpio man is really shy and reserved. It may take some time for him to warm up to the idea of expressing his feelings to you. He will keep it on the down-low until he is certain you feel the same way about him.
With that said, these are the ways he will communicate to you that you are the person his heart belongs to:
8 Secret Ways A Scorpio Man Expresses His Love
1. He Plays Games With You
This may sound counterproductive, but the fact is, Scorpio men play games in love. These games are specifically designed to explore whether or not you have feelings for him. He will seldom admit his feelings first unless he feels very safe indeed.
So, get ready! He will push you, say yes when he means no, and make you generally feel spun around. You may even feel slightly manipulated at times, so you’ll have to be very clear about where you stand.
Sometimes, just saying that you care about him should settle him down and make him feel safe enough not to test you.
Playing games with you, summarized: If your head is left spinning when dealing with a Scorpio man, you know he is into you. He loves to test and prod to see how you will react.
2. He Stalks You
One of the biggest signs a Scorpio man is secretly in love with you is when he stalks you as if you are his prey. He wants to know every little detail about you.
This may sound a little creepy, but if a Scorpio man really likes you, he may show his secret feelings by stalking you. This means asking you intimate questions, or seeming to know more about you than you told him (because he has totally investigated you online!).
Obviously, there’s stalking – and then there’s real stalking. Turning up at your workplace, your gym, your nights out, should be a serious red flag. But other than that, small little signs just show that he’s a bit obsessed with you and wants to get to know you more.
A Scorpio man stalks because it is in his nature to investigate. His sign also has the tendency to become quite obsessed with the things he fancies. You should see his interest in you as a compliment because he wants to dive deep and figure out the essence of who you are as a person.
He stalks you because he likes you and wants to know every little detail about your life. He is simply curious, and because he takes his relationships so seriously, he wants to know what he is getting himself into.
Stalking may also just look like cross-questioning you on your past relationships and trying to figure out your future motives with him. Stay calm and answer the questions, it’ll be over soon!
Stalking in a nutshell: He wants to know every little detail about you because he is curious and wants to know who you are as a person. It is simple, the Scorpio man is obsessed!
3. He Acts Dramatic
As a water sign, Scorpio has the tie of personality that can get very, well, emotional. Not only that, but Scorpio is also the sign of crisis, intensity, and drama. Scorpio people are all or nothing, and they don’t do anything halfway, ever.
So, if you see him acting dramatic over something that seems small and silly, it’s probably a sign that he’s really into you. His feelings have become invested, and he may not know how else to behave to get your attention.
Try and see it as his inner child reaching out to you and asking for your love and care. It might be annoying at first, but as soon as you realize what’s going on, you’ll see that he may just be scared of showing his true emotions.
The lowdown on acting dramatic: He is rather emotional and when he invests in you, he can become quite reactive. This is just him fearing losing you.
4. He Asks For All Of Your Secrets
When a Scorpio man is falling in love with you, he wants to know absolutely everything about you. He wants to know your past, your childhood, your past relationships, which parent you were closer to, where you grew up, what trauma happened in your life, and so on.
It may feel all a little bit invasive, but he’s just trying to get close to you. He wants to get under your skin and find out what makes you tick.
Of course, you can choose to reveal only what you want to, but don’t think he is going to share too, by the way. First, he has to see if he can trust you, then he will tell all!
Asking all your secrets in short: He wants to know who you are as a person and get to know you as well as he possibly can. Expect some invasive questions when a Scorpio likes you!
5. He Tries To Make You Jealous
This will probably feel slightly childish to you, but one way that you can tell a Scorpio man is in love with you is when he begs to behave in a jealous way, either by becoming protective of you, wanting to know where you’re going or by trying to make you jealous.
Admittedly, this is not the most mature behavior in the world and it can become toxic if not kept in check. A little bit of jealousy can be seductive and fun, but too much can be bad for your relationship.
You’ll have to be the one to make that call, and simply reassure him that you are all his and there is no need for these games. Once he feels safe, he’s far less likely to test your feelings by bringing up his exes or hinting at flirting with others.
In essence, why he wants you to be jealous: He is protective over you and wants to see if you feel the same way about him. This is the moment for you to reassure your feelings about him.
6. He Seduces You – Often
Scorpio is the sign of sexuality and passion. Ruled by Mars in ancient Astrology, the planet of libido, desire, and lust, this is a man who likes to get it on, if you know what I mean!
If you find that our Scorpio fella is seducing you every second of the day – via text, calls, conversations, or just by being physical – you’d better know he has some serious feelings for you! This is an easier way for him to express love and care, with his body and his hands…
His seductive techniques, the lowdown: He is a very sexual person and likes to share the love through seduction. When a Scorpio man likes you enough to want to sleep with you, then you know he is in love!
7. He Shares His Feelings With You
A sure sign that a Scorpio man is in love with you is when he shares his feelings with you. This is a really big deal, and should never be taken lightly! It’s never easy for him to open up and be vulnerable, and he will only do it with someone he deeply cares about.
This is a major step in the right direction, so keep your ears and eyes peeled for this special, milestone moment!
He shares his feelings, summarized: Sharing his feelings is 100% a sign he is in love with you. This means he trusts you and sees you as someone special.
8. He Pursues You
Lastly, if a Scorpio man really loves you, he’ll show it by simply pursuing you. He will want to hang out and spend time together, and he will make it very known that he finds you desirable and attractive.
That’s the thing with Scorpio men – they can be obsessive and intense, and when they fall in love, that gets turned all the way up. You will just know.
He pursues you, in short: When a Scorpio man takes the time to go after you, it means he really likes you!
My Final Thoughts
When a Scorpio man is in love, he falls hard. He just loves being in a relationship and the safety and security of a long-term commitment. He might not follow the conventional route of courting a woman. He definitely has his own unique style that sets him apart from the rest.
But when a Scorpio man is secretly in love with you, he will go out of his way to spend time with you and make sure that you know he is interested. When a Scorpio man loves, he loves hard and he always gets what he wants.
Being with a Scorpio man can be quite an intense and passionate experience.
But sometimes you can’t tell if this man is really interested in you or not…
You think he does, but you can’t be too sure.
You have never felt like this about anyone!
In fact, you might be in love with him…
This man speaks to your soul, and you feel such a deep connection with him.
These men are some of the most desirable in the whole Zodiac.
He is sexy, smart, and incredibly devoted.
So, it makes sense why you are so drawn to your Scorpio man.
He makes you feel like the most amazing woman in the world!
However, things seem to be going askew with the two of you…
It is such a pity that recently it seems like he is trying to actively avoid you.
You once thought he was in love with you, but suddenly he is acting all strange…
Whenever you reach out and try to speak to him you are met with silence or short replies…
The faster he pulls away the more it just breaks your heart.
You just can’t seem to understand why your Scorpio man keeps ignoring you.
You are sure that you didn’t do something wrong!
And when you ask him, he says it’s nothing
But you know deep down in your gut that this just isn’t true…
Why can’t he just be honest with you so that you can fix it?
He is pulling away, and you know it.
If only there was something you could do to repair the relationship to its former glory.
You would do anything in the world to have your Scorpio man look at you the way he once did.
You love him with all your heart and you want to fix what is broken.
Perhaps you just need to learn the right way to communicate with your sexy Scorpio man.
There might be something missing in your sex life and he is having a hard time speaking to you about it.
It is time that you take this into your own hands and do something about it!
There are definitely ways that you can turn all of this around and make your Scorpio man putty in your hands.
However, you need to be ready to commit to this change, because once it has been made then there is no going back.
There is so much you still have to learn about Scorpio men and the way they respond to love and romance.
And you deserve to know this information because it can be invaluable in the way you show up in your relationships.
The relationship you have always wanted is at your fingertips…
It just depends on you if you are ready to reach out and grab it!
Wishing you so much love and happiness.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,