9 Obvious Signs A Scorpio Man Is Falling In Love With You

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Are you looking for the signs of a Scorpio man falling in love? Maybe this can help you figure out the difference and if he’s falling for you.

A Scorpio man in love is a wonderful thing. These gentlemen know a thing or two about relationships. They simply love, love, and can’t live without it. But how do you know when a Scorpio man falls in love with you?

You might think that you see the signs a Scorpio man is falling for you, but you can’t be completely sure. Maybe he is just being flirty, perhaps he is unsure… or maybe your Scorpio man is falling in love with you deeply and genuinely?

If you are looking for the signs to find out whether or not a Scorpio man is opening his heart to you, then you have come to the right place. In this article, I am going to help you understand what is a Scorpio man like when he falls in love.

Be sure to continue reading to find out what you can expect from a Scorpio man when he is falling in love!


Scorpio Man In Love — How Does He Act When In Love?

A Scorpio man is quite intense, but when he falls in love, his intensity just goes up a notch. He expects his partner to meet this level of intensity because, for a Scorpio man, love is all about extremes.

A Scorpio man in love likes to feel like it is all or nothing and that the two of you can’t live without one another. He adores it when a woman can be raw and real with him and show him all of her emotions.

He loves the drama, the passion, and the intensity. When a Scorpio man is in love, you can see it in how he looks at you and stares into your eyes. The energy is palpable and will have you sweating underneath your blouse.

Finally, a Scorpio man in love is unlike anything you have felt before. These guys put their relationship first and want to feel that special bond and connection with their lady. This is the type of love you see in movies!

Do Scorpio Men Fall In Love Easily?

A Scorpio man loves to be in love; however, this man does not fall in love too easily. This is because once he does fall in love, he does so with his whole heart and there is no going back for him.

He is guarding his heart and is careful with whom he allows to enter it. A Scorpio man is cautious about falling in love because he has likely been hurt in the past. He wants to know that he is making the right decision and isn’t going to regret being with you.

This is why he will take his time getting to know you and won’t rush into anything with you, especially if he likes you a lot! If a Scorpio man isn’t too serious about someone and doesn’t see a future with them, then he tends to mess around with her, but he won’t take it to the next level.

But once a Scorpio man is in love with a woman, then it tends to be forever. He prefers long-term committed relationships over anything casual. So, if you have a Scorpio man in love with you, you can count yourself lucky!

How Do You Know When A Scorpio Man Is Falling In Love

There are quite a few things you can look out for when you are dating a Scorpio man to see if he is in love with you. These guys are a lot less mysterious or elusive than they think!

Certain things are a dead giveaway, and when you notice them in your Scorpio man, you can smile inside and know that this guy is probably falling for you hard!

Let’s look now at the signs a Scorpio man is falling for you:

9 Obvious Signs A Scorpio Man Is Falling In Love With You

1. His Intensity Increases

The Scorpio man is already fairly intense as a whole, but the Scorpio man falling in love is a different story. Everything in him is passionate and he tends to express this with his lady love. If he is falling in love with you; you can bet that you’ll feel him.

You’ll catch him staring into your eyes more often than he probably did before. This look he gives you is the look that tells you: “You are my world and I am so into you.” His eyes will tell you that your Scorpio man is falling in love.

His capacity for romance and making sure you are well pleased in the bedroom will become more intensified as well. It’s like he wants to express his feelings to you on a physical level.

There is nothing demure at all about this man. There is no way that you will NOT feel what he feels for you. It’s an energy that is hard to describe but once you feel it, you know he’s not just flirting, he’s in deep.

He will do anything for you and cater to your needs or desires if he’s falling for you. Making you happy is definitely on his list of high priorities. You’ll feel as though you’re the luckiest woman in the world when a Scorpio man is in love with you.

2. Giving Him Love Gets You Love

The Scorpio man in love tends to work a bit like Karma. They give you back what you’re giving them. If you’re in love with him and doing everything you can to show him that you do, he’ll return the favor.

He’s very perceptive and can read you quite well. He can read your intentions, your body language, and everything you do. So, if you’re giving your Scorpio man lots of tender loving care, he’ll be happy to do the same for you.

Though be careful, because if your intention isn’t particularly positive, he’ll pick up on it and give you the boot. This is one of the most intuitive men of the Zodiac, and he will remove anyone playing games.

While a Scorpio man may not fall in love as quickly as you, you’ll know when he does fall in love by how well he reacts to your loving touch, words, or actions. He’ll be just as caring and doting as you are.

You just need to encode his love language to know if he is inevitably falling in love with you. I covered his entire Astrology love profile in my Scorpio Love Language guide. I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language and finally connect with him in the right way.

3. His Need To Protect You Increases

The Scorpio man falling in love is one that always wants to protect those he cares deeply for. He’s this way with his family and close friends. When he falls for you, he will become this way with you as well.

At times this could come off as protective or even jealous. However, it’s his way of trying to keep your love for him intact and also make sure that no one can ever harm you.

He will want to make sure you’re safe and secure always. He may not be able to protect you 24/7, but he’ll do what he can when he can. He may send you out with some mace in your purse.

When you see this protective nature come out, he’s in love with you. He doesn’t feel that burning desire for your safety unless he genuinely cares. So, if you find brass knuckles in your purse, take it as a sign he’s smitten.

4. When A Scorpio Man Buys You Gifts

The Scorpio man in love will spoil the women he loves. If you suddenly start getting gifts or taken out to exceptional places, he’s in love. He wants to make sure you understand how important you are to him.

He very much places his lady love on a pedestal for all the world to know that you are his. He also wants to ensure that you understand how important you really are to him when a Scorpio man falls in love with you.

He will do his research to find out what you like and will adorn you with those types of gifts of love. If you want a man to pamper you as you’ve never been in your life, find yourself a Scorpio man.

This man will also know what your favorite colors are as well as other amazing details. When a Scorpio man buys you gifts, he gives you them in the right color, size, and what you want. It is a surefire sign your Scorpio man is falling for you.

5. You Will Feel Like The Only Woman In The World

When a Scorpio man falls in love, you will absolutely feel as though you’re the only woman on the earth that exists to him. He will keep his eyes on you and not notice any other ladies around.

Next time he takes you out to dinner; watch him. If he looks at other women in the place, he isn’t quite there. However, if he stares into your eyes, grabs your hand, and makes you feel like you are alone, he’s falling for you.

He will spend lots of time lavishing you with his intensely passionate side. You’ll never feel neglected or that he isn’t into you once he hits this phase of your relationship.

A Scorpio man in love makes sure their woman understands how much he cares for her. Inevitably, he will also tell you that he loves you or is falling in love with you.

The intensity this man can bring is something that is quite steamy and sought-after. The Scorpio man in love is a beautiful thing to behold and something you don’t want to miss out on.

Once he knows for sure, he will surely let you know. He isn’t one to pull back and keep it to himself. He will show you that he loves you but he will also tell you how he feels with eloquence.

It’s also possible that if he writes music or poetry (many Scorpio men are artists); he will write you a special song or poem to explain what he feels for you. You’ll then be able to see the depth of his heart.

6. He Wants To Talk To You More

A Scorpio man in love will want to talk to you quite a bit more than he was previously. He’s falling for you and therefore he’s much more focused on you, what you have to say, and what your thoughts are.

He cares about how you feel and what you feel. Your Scorpio man wants you to open up to him and be his best friend. So, he will call you up more, text you more, and probably interact on social media with you a bit more.

The Scorpio man falling in love with you is going to have you on his mind constantly. That makes him want to reach out as often as he can! You can expect his reaching out to increase.

7. He Wants To Spend More Time With You, Too

Just as he wants to talk to you as often as possible, he will also want to spend every free minute he has with you! He will want to make plans with you as much as you will allow.

When a Scorpio man falls in love, he cannot get enough of being around you, holding you, kissing you, and having that beautiful intimacy two people in love tend to have. Physical touch for a Scorpio man is love.

He may actually seem to be a little clingy but the reality is, he is in love with you and that’s how he knows to show you. He wants you to feel his love so that you will return that passion.

It’s almost too precious to be annoyed with, coming from the tough and mysterious Scorpio man!

Here’s more on how to show a Scorpio man you love him <<

8. When A Scorpio Man Opens Up To You

Getting as close to you as possible means opening up to let you in. Not all the way of course, but he will start to talk about his family, friends, and things he cares about. He may even reveal things to you he wouldn’t dare tell anyone else.

Your Scorpio man lowers his ever-ready stinger and becomes vulnerable to you. If you notice this happening, then your Scorpio man is definitely hooked on you! Embrace it and allow him to tell you everything that he’s ready to share.

He will even talk to you about his feelings and about various things including his adoration for you. Your Scorpio guy will be more talkative and want to tell you his thoughts or wishes.

This behavior from the stimulating Scorpio man is for sure a display of his love. Don’t ignore it!

9. When A Scorpio Man Says He Loves You

The most honest and open thing a Scorpio man can do is flat out tell you that he’s falling in love with you. He will when he feels it. He may show you other ways at first, but he will drop the “L” word!

A Scorpio man knows he has to tell you or else he may lose you. Even if that isn’t the truth, he feels that way. He worries if he isn’t honest about it that you will find someone else.

While it could take him a bit to spit the words out, he will do it. He absolutely wants to secure you and make sure you love him too. If you do love him, it might not be a bad idea to tell him first.

It could take some of the stress off of him if you tell him first. Alas, if you aren’t confident to do it then you can wait for him to. It will happen. That much is certain!

Here are a few more ways how a Scorpio man expresses his love for you:

Want to make sure your Scorpio man stays madly in love with you? Want to know you’re his one and only and that he only has his eyes for you and just you?

Then you need to know the 100 Magic Phrases for a Scorpio Man. These specific phrases make a Scorpio man cherish you as a true goddess he’ll be scared to lose.

When A Scorpio Man Loves You

When a Scorpio man loves you, you will feel like the only woman in the world. This is the type of love you have been looking for all of your life. A Scorpio man in love is very expressive and he will show his passion to you.

You will get the sense that you belong to him, that he hates spending moments apart from you, and that there isn’t anything he wouldn’t do for you. He will make sure that you know how much you mean to him.

If you are interested in learning how a Scorpio man shows love, then check out this link.

I hope this article has helped you figure out exactly what he will do and how you should react. Knowing the signs of a Scorpio man in love will help you capture his heart.

Scorpio men are actually quite beautiful when they are in love. They’re already able to draw people in easily but when he’s in love, it’s even more alluring.

Are you a bit insecure if it’s the real deal? Overthinking about how will your relationship move forward?

Then read on…

Warning: Don’t Use Normal Dating Advice With A Scorpio Man!

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Scorpio man.

And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.


Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Scorpio.

You see, Scorpio men are VERY different than men of other signs.

And if you use standard dating advice with a Scorpio, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.

I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…

So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.

These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.

Because your wonderful Scorpio is NOT like other men… at ALL.

So go here now to find out the specific things your Scorpio man needs to hear to melt his heart.

Wishing you so much love and happiness.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

10 thoughts on “9 Obvious Signs A Scorpio Man Is Falling In Love With You

  1. I met Omar on a dating site. I had connections with other men. Texting a couple for several weeks, actual dates with a couple. I talked with Omar for about four weeks prior to our first date. He sent pictures of his home, his boat and his car right off, trying to lure me in. I am interested in astrology ,but he wouldnt reveal his sign. Even before our date he was trying to convince me to go live with him I could not figure that one out. D uring our date I was imediatly attracted to him, Im a Leo I could not stop kissing this man. He literally put his face i foot from mine and stared unblinking into my eyes. Also like your artical he did offer to bring me mace because I had trouble with a mans advances while on a date. I just tricked him by telling him my date of birth and asking his 11 11 now it all makes perfect sense before I found out he was a Scorpio after our date I unsubscribed from the dating site.. Made alot of men very mad. He was going on a business trip and invited me along. I couldnt rightfully date and continue talking to other men when Omar has my heart. I think he wants me to move in so quickly to keep other men away. I am so attracted and adore this man. He is hot hot hot !!

    1. Hi Karen!

      Just be careful because just as sure as hot as they are, they can also become very cold and moody. Always keep communication open and make sure that you don’t allow him to control anything you do. I hope it works out for the two of you. Read all of my Scorpio Man Secrets blog for additional help.

  2. I’ve just started dating a Scorpio man and this article is spot on… this man has been so open with his feelings about me and is so sure I’m the one for him. I’m an Aries and have a long history with a narcissist so I’m a little more guarded… but his sureness and the way he pursues me is nice. I’m not ready to let go of my independence yet but we’ll see how it goes. I normally go for Sagittarius men but those guys are hard to catch and pin down.. I guess I enjoy the chase but it’s kind of nice to be chased for once. Everything in this article is turning out to be true.

  3. Hello Anna

    I have met an incredible Scorpio man, we instantly connected and had two great and amazing dates, we had talked for two weeks in between and he was caring, a true gentleman, he asked me so many questions and he looked at me in a way nobody did, I was 100 per cent sure we had connection, my instinct never failed before, and I never felt so sure about someone in my life, we are both 32 years old, he is basically what I have manifested long time ago, but suddenly after the second date he never texted me until I texted him and he said he thought about it and he finds me incredibly attractive and interesting but he didn’t feel connection. We haven’t spoke since it’s been few weeks. I’m heartbroken. Even if it were just two dates, I have never felt so sure about any man before. How can I be so blind ? We shared so many values and ideas. I’m not sure what was the red flag he saw but he cut me off drastically and I guess I will never know why.

    1. I think we dated the same guy Haha. The same thing happened to me. I was having so much fun and he told me that he didn’t wanna hurt my feelings that I should know that he didn’t want anything romantic with me and that he knows that I want something romantic with him. I never said that to him he wanted me to admit that I wanted something romantic with him Because he wanted me to know that he didn’t want something romantic with me. Slightly narcissistic yet I’m still missing that part of our friendship. Now I have to live with him and five other friends for a few months on the job assignment and I’m not sure how that’s going to be. He’s always around a bunch of women and all the bars that we work and I want to start seeing someone but I know he’s going to be very jealous. For some reason I don’t want to hurt or lose him entirely but he already told me there’s nothing in our future.

      1. Jenny,
        Going thru the same, I dont want a serious relationship, theres no romance!
        He was in the hospital, i visited him, big mistake, we supported to fly to Ireland in March, im heartbroken.
        I shouldn’t invest time in him..
        4 months…
        He lets no one close to him.
        Im very hurt, he hates me, he pushes me away..i doubt anything will happen
        What’s with these guys?

        1. Hi Gloria,

          Scorpio men are the kings of mind games. They can be very sly and manipulative. They really know what buttons to push to make a woman go crazy to get her under his spell. If you think he is playing mind games on you, he probably is.
          It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Scorpio man who won’t commit.Remove yourself from the situation and give yourself and him some space. It is important that you don’t jump to conclusions. Allow him to come to you with what is going on in his head. Trust me, you don’t want to make assumptions. Sending Love 🙂

  4. I’m a Leo and my partner is a Scorpio, one day before end of Libra sign. He is loveable and withdrawn, kind and spiteful, sexy on bed and withdrawn sex drive, he opens up and deprives in insecurities.. he is loud and shy.. I’m dating two people.. best of times, I’m in love other times I feel im in a realtionship but living in a single life. Can’t be in love as he’s been hurt in the past and I can’t understand love. He shows love instead sayin it. Putting that aside, he is my best friend and I can rely on him for anything.

  5. My Scorpio tells me that I am his all the time. Certain body parts are his. I’m his girl, his queen, I am the love of his life. He absolutely loves it when I tell him he is mine. It’s such a deep connection. I’m a Libra, Taurus rising, both have Venus in Scorpio. The sexual chemistry and passion is off the freaking charts. Like nothing I’ve ever experienced.
    I have purchased a lot of Anna’s books when I first met him and found out he was born on Halloween. While reading I realized pretty quick that he is the perfect definition of a Scorpio … dark hair, dark piercing eyes, hot as hell, smart, driven, workaholic, passionate and intense, obsessive, possessive, loves true crime shows, was hot and cold at first. A few months in he would tell me that he couldn’t stop thinking about me. “How did you do that to me?” he said once. I knew exactly how. I will never tell him of course.

    1. Dear Ranee,
      Libra’s affectionate needs are met by Scorpio’s raw and lusty physical demands but a sensitive and demanding Scorpio man will be challenged to the hilt by Libra’s need to socialize and flirt at every opportunity.
      You get along so well because you both have Venus in Scorpio. You are both passionate and connect on a deep emotional level. You are not interested in superficial relationships but only for true emotions. People with this placement usually marry as soon as they find the right person. One night stands are not on your radar and your loyalty is undeniable. Sending Love!

Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *