What Happens When You Stop Chasing A Scorpio Man

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Whether you’re chasing a Scorpio man or winning back your ex, you might be asking yourself, “Should I just give up?” Here is what happens when you stop chasing a Scorpio man.

What happens when you stop chasing a Scorpio man is that he won’t know what hit him. This guy is alluring, and yes, very sexy. He is so used to female attention that it can come as a shock when a woman suddenly pulls away.

I often get the question from all my lovely readers, do Scorpios like to be chased? And the answer is more complex than you might think… Men are wired to be the ones that pursue women, but some men also like to be chased. Is your Scorpio one of them?

When a woman says to me “A Scorpio man wants me to chase him,” I often struggle to believe this. It may seem by his actions that this is what he wants because this is what he is used to, but often Scorpio men actually just want a challenge. And if you’re not making it difficult for him, then he is going to become bored quite quickly…

Is it possible that your Scorpio man is testing you? He wants to see how far he can push things and what you would do for him. Chasing a Scorpio man might seem like a good idea, but it might not be the best idea for you…

Keep on reading to find out whether Scorpio men like to be chased and what happens when you stop chasing a Scorpio man…

Do Scorpio Men Like To Be Chased?

The truth is, a Scorpio man knows what he wants in life. When he has clarity, there is no stopping him from getting exactly what he wants. This is why he doesn’t need a woman chasing him; if he wanted you, he would go after you.

He might find it exciting initially when he notices that you are chasing him, but this will soon wear off as he is the one that usually likes to make the shots in his dating life. He is the one who wants to be in control.

When a woman chases him, it takes the fun out of the whole experience for him. Like most men, Scorpio knows what he wants, and he will nine times out of ten pursue the woman he likes. He will also be very receptive to her if she decides to reach out to him.

You’ll need to determine how he acts when you reach out to him. Is he being receptive, or is he acting cool and oblivious? If he isn’t giving any credence to the vibes you’re giving off, then your Scorpio may not be that interested in you.

If a Scorpio man likes you, though, he will make it known, and you won’t be left guessing. You can attempt to chase him, but I warn you that if he isn’t into you, he’ll not be very responsive.

The more pressure he feels, the colder he will become, so you may want to consider lightening up a bit if you decide to chase him. Coming on too strong will cause hiccups in your situation.

Should You Chase A Scorpio Man Or Wait For Him To Make The First Move?

Chasing a Scorpio man is never a good idea… In fact, chasing ANY man is not something you ever want to do, especially when you’re dealing with a Scorpio man. These guys are ruled by Mars and Pluto.

This makes them very powerful. They know what they want in their life, and if that thing is you, nothing is going to stop them from pursuing you. You need to know that the more difficult you make things for these men, the more likely they are going to want you.

Easy come, easy go is the motto for a Scorpio man. You need to give him a challenge, this is how a Scorpio man falls in love. So always wait for him to make the first move. Being too easy is going to make it really difficult for the Scorpio man to want you.

Be in your feminine energy and let him come to you. If he doesn’t then he clearly isn’t the right guy for you. You never want to chase a man. Be chased, don’t chase.

What Happens When You Stop Chasing A Scorpio Man

When you stop pursuing a Scorpio man, you leave him confused and wanting more. He is so used to women throwing themselves at him that it will really make him take a second guess when it comes to you.

Sitting back and not taking any action is the gift that you get to give any man. This means that you are in your feminine energy. Giving him the space to come to you is your superpower in life. Don’t give it away too easily.

Here is what happens when you stop chasing a Scorpio man:

Push And Pull

There will be times when a Scorpio man does want to know if the woman he is into is also into him. This is where the flirting comes in handy. Without putting pressure on him, you can perhaps invite him for coffee one day.

Just make it seem very fun and inviting. You’ll soon find out if he is interested or not by the way he responds. If you try it once and he turns it down, I’d back off and let him take the lead.

Really, he just wants to make sure that you like him so that he isn’t wasting his time and energy. Each Scorpio man has a certain something that he’s looking for in a woman.

It can be hard sometimes to figure out whether you should move forward or relax. Try watching his reactions to the things that you say to him. Touch his hand or arm when you talk and see how he reacts to that.

His actions should speak quite loudly, and sometimes he may give you the impression that maybe you should ask him out. You’ll know when the time is right because you’ll feel it.

This won’t necessarily be you chasing your Scorpio man, but it will be you putting your foot forward to let him know that you are into him if he’s ready to be into you. Put it out there and let him figure it out.

RelatedIs Your Scorpio Man Pulling Away? Here’s What To Do

Mysterious Wins the Day

Keep in mind that your Scorpio guy is mysterious on his own. That means that he’ll appreciate a woman who is also a bit mystery filled as well. It’s more fun for him to get to figure you out.

If you give yourself away up front, he’ll figure there is nothing left for him to unravel therefore he’ll want to move on. It’s more exciting to get to know you over time.

It also excites him to see sides of you that he’s never seen before. So try to keep things interesting, exciting, and unpredictable. Spontaneity is a good thing between you and your Scorpio guy.

Becoming predictable will bore him and he’ll look for something or someone else that will excite him more. So if you’re trying to get the Scorpio guy’s attention; try not to be quite so accessible.

Even if you’re not really all that busy; don’t text him a bunch or let on that you’re home alone doing nothing. He’ll wonder why you aren’t out having fun. It will also make him think you’re a boring homebody.

The more mystery you can integrate into the beginning of a relationship with a Scorpio man, the better off you’ll be. It will make him want to dig in and figure you out. That’s very exciting for the Scorpio guy.

Desperation Is A Smelly Perfume

While flirting with him can be fun and can lure him to you; do not come off as desperate or he will flat out drop you. Scorpio man wants a reliable and secure woman but he also craves intelligence and independence.

He wants a woman who can hold her own without him. To not NEED him is an absolute turn-on to him. Not that he wouldn’t take care of his lady; it’s just he would prefer that he doesn’t HAVE TO.

There is a difference between a high-maintenance woman versus a woman who can do it all on her own without his help. He wants to be WANTED rather than NEEDED.

The Scorpio man is also one of the most aggressive signs in the Zodiac and therefore if he wants you, he will come for you and you’ll know it.

When A Scorpio Man Wants Me To Chase Him

When a Scorpio man tells you he wants you to chase him, I would consider this a major red flag. This is not normal and is likely a guy who is using you or just wants one thing. You have been warned.

Any man who wants a woman to chase him is not worth the time or effort. How would you feel knowing that you were the one who did all the work in the relationship? This will totally throw your relationship off balance.

I would not pursue this kind of Scorpio man. I can almost guarantee that he is just wasting his time and is probably only after one thing… Unless this is what you want, of course.


What Happens When You Walk Away From A Scorpio Man?

Scorpio men can be pretty dangerous. There is a lot of intensity going on in their souls, and it isn’t always easy to figure out what they are thinking or feeling. Also, these men are the last to actually show what is going on inside of them. They are very protective.

Depending on how strong your connection was with your Scorpio man, it can go a number of ways when you decide to walk away from him. He might not even notice that you are gone, especially if this was just a casual thing.

However, if you are someone who touched his soul and got close to him, then it can be pretty difficult for him when you are no longer around. Scorpio men have a tendency to be quite fearful of love and relationships.

So whenever they get close to someone, it isn’t uncommon for them to want to burn the house down, if you get what I am saying. You may never know how you affected your Scorpio man, as he can be quite stubborn and may not come back, even if he loves you more than anyone else.

You may also want to readScorpio Man Silent Treatment — What To Do When A Scorpio Man Goes Silent

Does No Contact Work On Scorpio Man?

No contact with a Scorpio man is a tricky game to play. This is because this is one of the tactics he uses to make women fall in love with him, and he won’t like it being used on him. It does work, but he’ll know exactly what you are doing.

I would definitely recommend having no contact with your Scorpio man if he was your boyfriend and you guys are going through a breakup. It can be really difficult to let go of your Scorpio man, but if you go no contact, it can really help to heal the wounds and help you move on.

No More Sleepless Nights About Your Scorpio Man…

It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Scorpio man who won’t commit.

I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Scorpio guys.

I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her. She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.

As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that.

But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him. Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.

How could she just give up on that?

But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work.

She had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language…

And it worked!!!

So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Scorpio man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…

Go here now to see how to speak your Scorpio man’s love language. 



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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

2 thoughts on “What Happens When You Stop Chasing A Scorpio Man

  1. I don’t think Scorpio men like mysterious women because they are jealous men.. they don’t like mind games… as they are very positive men.. they don’t want these mystery they will know you in time yes cause you are dating but you got to be honest and open too with them… I am dating one that’s why I know.. we talked about it I was very open to him and he is very receptive to me being straight forward… Scorpio men are intellectuals 100%.. their mind is already busy with all the things going on on their lives and being with a woman who will give him a mystery little or big ones he will get lazy… and that mystery he will read it as coldness… my guy told me that before he met me he was dating this lady… and he read her as cold.. he even told me that he is confused about her because she is cold and he don’t know what she is thinking… so even after they already did the deed he was not amused cause he don’t know what she is like as she is not talking to him that much to help him better know her…he even said I cannot pursue a woman who don’t talk to me on a level… so it means he don’t have time to unravel mysteries in dating… as he is very emotional like me I am Pisces by the way 😉 he wants someone who is emotional too and open… he just moved on and that’s when he knew me… I can say we are so great together… I am older than him too 4 years so I am more matured and very vocal and he likes it.. or I guess we just really get along so well as a Pisces and Scorpio couple cause of our Zodiac signs… now I believe the compatibility.. 🙂

  2. Goes a week with out answering my message. God forbid I don’t answer him with in a couple hours. He’s asking if everything’s OK. 😂

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