Are you irritated or hurt by a Scorpio man but you’re not ready to talk to him about it so you’re ignoring him? There are some really good reasons why this isn’t helpful to you.
Keep reading why ignoring a Scorpio man is a mistake:
Doesn’t Know What Is Wrong
If you are ignoring a Scorpio man out without giving him the courtesy of telling him what he did, this will annoy him. He cannot defend what he doesn’t know happened or what he supposedly said.
Scorpio men are inquisitive and analytical. If you ignore him, it will drive him crazy and this will lead to him being pissed off. Once he’s pissed off, he will have a hard time calming himself or he will blame you.
The last thing you want him to do is turn it around on you but if he isn’t sure why you’re angry or hurt then he cannot fix it, defend himself, or even apologize. Ignoring him isn’t the right thing. Tell him what is wrong.
Tell him what he did or what he said that made you so upset. This way he has a chance to figure out what the right thing is to do given the situation. He’s already an emotional guy so when you ignore him you make him go nuts.
Scorpio man is good at playing games back if you insist on playing them with him. What I mean by this is if you decide you want to make him chase you or make him jealous, he’ll probably do it right back to you.
No one wins if he’s busy trying to even the score. Ignoring him to see if he’ll chase you down is a gamble that probably isn’t worth the risk. It’s better for you to tell him that you’d like more of his time or attention.
It’s typically best to be honest with him rather than try to play with his head by not responding to his texts, not calling him back, etc. Some Scorpio men may try again to be with you but some will just go ahead and move on.
If you flirt with other men to get his attention while you’re ignoring him or post on social media how great your life is when he’s not around, he will retaliate and you will be hurt. That’s almost a guarantee. Don’t risk it!
May Think the Worst
As I mentioned before, the Scorpio man is analytical and his brain is constantly tossing around scenarios. If you ignore him, he will mull through various types of situations that could be causing you to ignore him.
If he believes you are ignoring him because you’ve found someone else or that you’ve moved on, you probably will not ever hear from him again. He will simply figure that you’ve chosen and it’s time he moved on.
Even if he loves you and never forgets you, he will not stick around and wait for someone to talk to him or explain herself if she’s left him for someone else or decided that he wasn’t worth her time.
That’s basically what it comes down to. He feels that if you aren’t paying attention to him or are ignoring him when he reaches out that you’re just not into him, you have secrets you’re not sharing, or that you have no respect for him.
He may also think that you are ghosting him. Certainly, if you’re upset or angry and ignoring him but he is unaware of the reason then yes, he will think the worst and it’s probably just not a good idea to not answer him.
Bad Call To Make
In general, it’s a bad choice to make if you decide to ignore a Scorpio man. Whether he is aware of what he did or isn’t, he will not tolerate being ignored. He’s the type that will be like “my way or the highway”.
That also applies “either pay attention to me or you can be replaced”. I wouldn’t test any of these theories honestly. Scorpio man wants to be paid attention to, he wants you to respond to him, and he wants to have confidence in you.
Basically when you ignore him no matter what the reason, he feels that you aren’t being respectful and you really don’t care about him. He thinks that if you did, you wouldn’t leave him hanging.
When he feels that you’re not giving him what he wants or what he needs, he will not stick around and wait for you to come back out of your shell and share with him what you’re feeling or what happened that caused you to go silent.
Before he takes off though, he may want some revenge. He may say something really messed up before he then goes silent on you. It’s like you’ll want to respond to him but then you won’t get anything from him after that.
He wants to give you a taste of your own medicine. So the moral of the story is here, don’t ignore a Scorpio man no matter what. If you’re upset with him, tell him you are and then tell him you need a little while to process it.
Tell him you need quiet time to think. That way he’s aware of what is going on and doesn’t feel as though you’re ignoring him.
Though truth be told, he’d rather you just tell him flat out what he did wrong or why you are so upset than simply ignoring a Scorpio man.
He may not like it and he may become upset himself but at least he knows what is going on and can try to work with that. It’s better than taking the huge risk of just going radio silent on him.
Scorpio men do not like to be ignored by their partner and will not do well with it. It’s best to be upfront and get it out of the way.
What is your experience ignoring a Scorpio man? Was it wise? Let me know!
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,