How To Make A Scorpio Man Miss You Like Crazy

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
You’ve gotten the attention of a really sexy Scorpio man but not sure how he feels when you’re not around. Here is how can you make a Scorpio man miss you.

Are you wondering if a Scorpio man misses you when you’re not around? One of the most popular and coveted signs of the zodiac has everyone on the edge of their seat when it comes to love.

Falling for a Scorpio man sets you up for a path of ever-evolving mystery and shocking discovery. Is it possible to learn how to manipulate a Scorpio man? Expect to be seduced, emotionally manipulated, and totally thrown off your game!

These guys have intensely insatiable cravings, and in order to understand what makes them tick, you’ll need to know what lies beneath these particular personality traits.

You’ve gotten the attention of a mysterious Scorpio guy, but you’re not sure how he feels when you’re not around. How can you be sure that a Scorpio man misses you when he’s not with you?

Here are some ways that you can assess the situation and find out how to make a Scorpio man miss you like crazy.

When A Scorpio Man Says He Misses You

The Scorpio man loves intensely and will show it in more ways than one. He will want you around to spoil him. He will protect you, and allow himself to become vulnerable with you, but this should not be treated lightly. The Scorpio man is a private person.

Because of his secretive nature, if a Scorpio man misses you, he might not confess it right away. Scorpio men usually keep themselves very busy. It’s unlikely you’ll hear “I’m bored” from this guy. He always has something going on or something he can be working on. That being said, he doesn’t give himself too much time to miss you.

A Scorpio man will rarely say he misses you; he would rather show you in a practical way by being by your side and supporting you. Still, when a Scorpio man says he misses you, you should believe him because he doesn’t toss his words around like that.

This is why it is so important to know what the most common signs a Scorpio man misses you are:

3 Clear Signs A Scorpio Man Misses You

He Texts And Calls You Everyday 

Perhaps you’ve gone on vacation or are on a business trip and you’re wondering: does your Scorpio man miss you? One big sign that he does is that he’ll text you while you’re gone.

He’s so used to you being around that after maybe a day or two, he starts texting you to see what’s going on and how you’re doing. Though if you text him first, he’ll answer you.

The best way to figure out if he misses you though is by not texting him first. Let him reach out to you. If he doesn’t then there is a chance he’s not thinking much about it.

If your Scorpio man takes time out of whatever it is he is doing to text and stays in contact then it’s likely he does miss you. It may not be as much as you miss him but still, some are better than none right?

If he’s giving you daily calls, he definitely misses you. Even if it’s only for a couple of minutes, he’s expending some effort to make sure you know he’s thinking about you. His actions are what you need to look for.

Scorpio men just like any man; will tend to reach out to the woman they care about as often as they can. If you see an increase in him reaching out when he’s not with you, he misses you.

Now, there is a clause to this of course. If you two live in the same town but not together, he may not feel the need to miss you because you are still sort of there, unless you’ve gone a week or two without spending time together.

Discover here how to make a Scorpio man go crazy for you through text <<

He Thinks Of You When You Are Apart

A Scorpio man typically keeps himself inundated with lots of things to do. He’ll especially spend time on things he’s passionate about such as art, music, or even his career.

So when he’s busy “in the zone”; he may not be thinking of you at that time. It doesn’t mean that he isn’t into you or doesn’t care. It just means his mind is occupied.

Try not to confuse his being busy and unable to process other thoughts as him not caring about you or not missing you. When he does have time to think of other things; he will indeed miss you.

Again, this has to do with time and space also. If you see each other on a regular basis, he’s probably comfortable and missing you isn’t a thing as he knows he’ll see you or talk to you again soon.

The only way to get him to miss you is by becoming somewhat unavailable, going on vacation, going on business trips, etc. Try not to do it too often though because then he’ll think you don’t want to be with him anymore.

He Is Honest And Obvious

Scorpio men typically will actually let you know if they are missing you. They will text you, they will call you, or they will do what they can to spend some time with you.

When he does spend time with you after missing you, he’ll show you physically how much he missed you. That will be very clear and you won’t be left wondering whether or not he did, in fact, feel loss while you were apart.

If you’ve spent significant time apart due to living circumstances such as geography, work, or studying abroad, he’ll definitely let you know how he feels when he talks to you or sees you again.

It’s likely that his feelings will be much more intense than they possibly were before. Watch for how he acts with you after you’ve gone without seeing him for a while.

Again, don’t try to purposefully spend significant time away from him. That will make him think you don’t want him. It IS healthy though to spend time with your other friends and/or family without him.

How To Manipulate A Scorpio Man And Make Him Miss You Like Crazy

You need to be unforgettable if you want to make a Scorpio man miss you like crazy. Give him lots of love, attention, and compliments, and treat him like a king. When he’s apart from you, he will miss this.

If you give him lots of reasons why he should miss you by showing him, he’ll definitely notice you’re not around no matter what he is doing. He’ll want to reach out to you more and see what you’re up to.

Be Less Available

I would never tell you to ignore your Scorpio guy because that would be a total mess and you’d regret it. However, you can try to be less available to you. Scorpio men want to spend lots of time with their lady. But when he doesn’t, here’s how to make a Scorpio man miss you.

If he’s with you all the time though, he has no time to really miss you. Try to make other plans with friends, family, or plans with yourself that means you have some solitude.

He may not like it but when he cannot have total access to you at all times, he will miss you and it will make him appreciate the time he has with you more. It is a little manipulative but it’s also very healthy to have some alone time sometimes.

Scorpio men commit to women they feel comfortable with but if they have too much of someone too often, they will start feeling less excited and the enchantment fades.

Therefore by adding some excitement via a little bit of time apart, he’ll appreciate this so much more thereby actually missing you when you’re not around. Absence in this way can make the heart grow fonder.

Don’t be at his beck and call. Don’t jump and run to him every time he calls. There should be some healthy boundaries. Tell him you already have plans or you need a little time to yourself. Be nice about it though otherwise, he’ll be suspicious of you.

Explore this helpful, step-by-step guide while you wait, as it will show you the ‘buttons’ to press to cause a change in how your Scorpio man feels, sees, and acts around you.

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Space Out Your Texting Or Social Media

Just like I mentioned a little bit of healthy space, you don’t want to constantly text him or get on his social media. Back off a little bit and make him wonder but not enough to worry.

You don’t need to text him back the very second he messages you. This would mean that you’re at his fingertips when he wants you. That’s not a good thing because the one time you really can’t, he’ll get really upset with you.

Try waiting a while before you answer but not too long. Scorpio men are not very patient so you would never want to make him wait for several hours or days. Give it maybe an hour or two before you respond.

He needs to know that you have a life outside of him but that you WILL answer him when you can. Then he knows he can depend on the fact that you will actually respond when you’re able.

There is a huge difference. Some women want to pull back and try to make him chase. While that may work for some Scorpio men, some of them will think this is a great waste of their time and they’ll find someone else to move on with.

Don’t hover over his social media all the time either. Even if you read it and see what is going on, you don’t need to “like” it every time nor do you need to respond. What this does is make him wonder if you saw it.

He’ll likely ask you “did you see my post” and then you can say, “I haven’t been looking at your page much sorry.  It’s kind of weird because they will totally spy on your stuff all the time.

However, he may not always message you or respond to your posts either. It’s some espionage really. Basically, though, you need him to think that you’re not keeping a constant eye on him.

Remind Him Of Past Dates

When you text him or post on his social media, be sweet and thoughtful by reminding him of a time you can remember fondly with him. Talk about a past date or something you did together that was special.

I don’t mean sex. I mean the actual time you spent together, which was very sweet and memorable, and something you’ll always treasure. This will also make him recall this memory and make him miss you.

This sort of thing has to go hand in hand with the other tips I’ve given you already. Clearly, you can’t bring up old times if you’re together all the time, as it won’t feel as special then.

While you remind him of past things, you can also try to suggest trying some new things and going to some new places together in the future. He’ll dig your way of thinking and probably try to hook up a date for the two of you.

You can even bring up something like, “The last time I was in your arms, I felt like the sunshine was on my face and I didn’t have a care in the world.” Yes, it’s poetic, but it will get his attention.

Sneak into the bathroom while he is taking a shower or write, “I love you,” on the steamy mirror.

Surprise him. This is a fantastic way to have a place in his heart because he will not anticipate it. He will be thrilled! Tempt him by showing him that you love him, and he will likely not be able to resist you.

How To Make A Scorpio Man Miss You After A Breakup

If you want to win a Scorpio man back into your life, then make sure that you show him how interesting your life is without him. Try focusing on yourself and making your life path successful. When you do that, you’re healing your own wounds and learning to make yourself happy. When time elapses, if he really cares for you, he will return to talk.

You are worth it! I know you are someone a Scorpio man would miss. Focus on your work, family, and passions. This way, he will see what he is missing, and he will start thinking about wanting you back in his life.

It can be very hard to win a Scorpio man back into your life, especially if his trust has been broken, but it is doable. Try not to make him jealous, but if you really want him back in your life, show him the best version of yourself.

Be successful and confident; allow yourself to enjoy good times with your friends, and this will surely get his attention. Radiate happiness to show him what he is missing.

It is important to focus on what makes you happy rather than obsessing over getting him back into your life. If you are doing things that you enjoy, he will see your content and how interesting your life is. This is one of the best ways to make a Scorpio man miss you.

Related: How To Make Up With A Scorpio Man After A Fight

Should You Tell A Scorpio Man You Miss Him?

I would advise you not to do that. This will kill the intensity and excitement he feels. Instead, use any other subtle way I described above. Let him guess; make him wonder about you. This way, you are living rent-free in his head.

One of the worst things you could do when it comes to the Scorpio man is to reveal how you feel about him. Yes, he is blunt and loves honesty, but you could be honest with just about anything related to him except telling him directly how you feel.

You can invite him to do something with you or share an inside joke. You can ask him how his day is going; there are a lot of ways to let him know you care about him and that you are thinking about him.

FAQ On Scorpio Man’s Missing Mode

Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Scorpio man and how he feels about you when apart? Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship.

Hopefully, this can help you navigate your relationship with him.

Are Scorpio Men Manipulative?

Scorpio is one of the most controlling zodiac signs, and he craves power through manipulation. They live in the moment; they are confident, courageous, competitive, and, as such, manipulative.

The Scorpio man likes to be in control. He creates drama as he moves through life with an intensity that can scare others away.

Will A Scorpio Man Come Back After Disappearing?

This depends on the conflict itself. Sometimes you should check in after a few days; other times it may take a few weeks. Tell him that you’ll be there for him no matter what he does. This is a very important secret to a happy relationship with a Scorpio man.

Talk to each other about important things. Once you have his mind, you will also have his heart. He may observe your behavior and attitude when it comes to loyalty and commitment. Your Scorpio guy can strategize being cold and distant just to observe your emotional response to such actions. 

How To Make A Scorpio Man Regret Losing You?

Show him you are not prioritizing him. Convince him you are happy with your life. Don’t be too available, and don’t make him your whole world! That would definitely make him regret losing you.

Because of his Sun, Scorpio man likes a successful and passionate women who know what they want and who stand with their feet on the ground. 

Just remember, if your Scorpio guy has gone quiet, it’s necessary for him to put all the pieces together in his mind, cool down, and figure out what he wants to do next. Hang in there!

Be respectful and authentic; communicate openly and honestly. Keep your head cool and make space for productive communication with your Scorpio guy.

Above all, express your emotions! The Scorpio man values directness. Don’t be vague; don’t make him guess. Instead, focus on clear and effective communication.

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54 thoughts on “How To Make A Scorpio Man Miss You Like Crazy

  1. I am relationship with person whos zodiac is scorpio. Last week we had a fight dat he have asked me to give him some space and i have come to visit mumbai. So he have not texted me neither did he call. Does he want a breakup ?

    1. He just wants space! Give it to him. Keep busy til then. He could be testing your strength. They do that sometimes.

        1. I met a scorpio about a year and a half ago. We talked and texted everyday for about a month but never met face to face and then he disappeared. When I asked him he said he is going through alot and it’s not a good time for him. We stayed in touch once in a while. Then about 2 months ago he asked me if we should finally meet for a drink. We did and really hit it off. He really opened up to me and was extremely vulnerable and emotional. From that day he texted me good morning everyday and messaged throughout the day. We saw eachother every other week for a date because we both have kids. He then started being hot and cold. Would message me once a day and seems to always be busy. When we saw eachother it was amazing. He seemed to be really into me. Would look into my eyes and tell me beautiful things, hold me and tell me he got me etc… The last time I saw him was really great until it became physical and he was having some issues. I tried to make him feel that I don’t care because i authentically care about him. I have hardly heard from him since. When I do he always says his life is so busy. I try to be nice and positive but I feel that I need to hear from him that he is over this. Should I just let him go or ask him about it? It has been a year and a half in the making and when we were together it was really special. Should I just get the hint and move on?

          1. I am a Taurus and deeply into a Scorpio man and have been for almost 2 .1/2 years. The past year and a half both of us have become single and best friends. I want more, but he “isn’t ready”. We are both in our 60’s and time isn’t standing still, if you understand what I mean. We both enjoy golf, pickle ball, same type of movies, food, tv shows, watch golf, tennis football basketball together always. He’s met my family, I’ve met his entire family and his out of town friends. Everyone thinks its me that doesn’t want a relationship with him, but its him. No one can understand what his problem is. I get it……he is a typical Scorpio man. Overthinks everything, a perfectionist, very particular and I am not the usual type of female he pursues. I am not 5’10 110 pounds or neurotic. I am 5’4″ 130 pounds, successful in business, independent, men usually fall at me feet (but not this one) as I am very attractive as well and athletic, competitive (which he says he likes). He is out of town now for 6 weeks and I am praying he misses me to the point he realizes that we are meant to be together since we are always together. He calls and texts me numerous times daily since leaving 2 weeks ago, even though its an 8 hour time difference. So how can he miss me if he is in constant communication with me, to the point of having FIND ME app on all the time. If I turn mine off, he sends a request out to me again. And no, we are not intimate, only hugs and occasional light kiss. SO FRUSTRATED!!!

  2. I am currently dating a Scorpio man. We are fresh in our relationship but we have been talking for two months. He’s in the marines and I’m a first year college student. He lives two hours away from me so we mostly be texting and getting on FaceTime. We saw and spent time together once and I have been missing his presence ever sense. Every time I tell him I miss him he replies back to me “lol you’ll be fine, gotta stay strong.” This kinda makes me feel upset because he doesn’t tell me he misses me back. Also, we don’t text or FaceTime like we used to before we started dating. Does this mean he’s doesn’t like or isn’t interested in me anymore or am I looking too deep into it?

    1. This is so early in and it seems like you have never handled a Scorpio before. If so, welcome to the club. I am currently dealing with my very first Scorpio and they require so much patience. He will not tell you that he misses you unless he really means it and most likely you would be telling him this before he even does. From what I got from what he told you is that you have to be strong emotionally and mentally. They know that they are a lot to handle and are untrusting in nature. You can tell them that you love them and whatnot and they would automatically have “Why?”, “How?”, “Are you serious about this?” kind of questions pop up in their heads. Give him space and just go at his pace. It takes a lot of time for them to officialize a relationship since it takes them awhile to gather and process their emotions and analysis. They can easily stop talking to someone if they are not interested in you. They resemble a Saggitarius in the sense where if the spark is gone, they would most likely not bother talking to you. Observe his little actions and have A LOT and I mean a lot of Patience. Be mentally strong most importantly because it is a rollercoaster with them. Hot and cold all the time. He just needs a lot of space since their sign leans towards Pluto. Don’t be readily available all the time either. Focus on your life and maybe not initiate a conversation first for a couple of days. If he does contact you first though, respond but not with too much urgency. Hope this helps!

  3. A Scorpio male told me he wanted to date me in February. We were talking since then. We had an argument in May (I blew up on him for no reason). We have been up and down with communication since then. Every time we do speak he tells me he misses me and thinks about me everyday. But yet he didn’t say anything. We recently had an argument on Friday where he told me he would be moving away. I was very hurt and asked him if he knew this why have be run after him?! To that his response was “don’t run after me” “stop running after me”. He apologized and said he didn’t want me to think he was using me. He also said I didn’t know how he felt. I actually really wanted this guy. I wanted to love him. I’m so confused he told me he had a crush on me for years and was watching me for years. But after our first argument in May he said we wouldn’t be a good couple because I had a short fuse. When we argued again on Friday he said “This is why we wouldn’t be a good couple” again. I think it’s unfair because none of our arguments were every in person just via text. We didn’t even get to make it to an official date yet because between he and I we kept on canceling on each other. But as of recent I felt like he just didn’t want to see me. And when I did see him a week before as soon as I left he texted me an hour later to tell me that he missed me. I’m sorry this is so confusing but I’m confused myself.

    1. Okay. From my experience with my Scorpio, he does not like it when I go off on him. This has happened once only and has never happened again. He withdrew away from me. I confronted him directly and asked him why it seems like he is avoiding me. He told me that he does not like a girl going off on him about minor issues, telling him what to do and in a way it scares him. He hates arguing. It does not matter whether this is in person or behind a screen. It’s the same inpact for them nonetheless. It makes him run for the hills. I haven’t done it since then but he has the tendency to pull back in reverse and seem detached which typically would make most females feel insecure. My suggestion would be to give him space. Don’t always initiate a conversation first, but don’t go more than a couple of days. Anything more may make him assume that you have lost interest. It’s a mental strength game with them. If you can read them when they are in silence and are able to put up with their spontaneous hot and cold tendencies, a scorpio would appreciate this. Also, do not pry into his personal life and force him to open before he does it on his own. They automatically throw their defenses up and get annoyed. They are secretive in nature. Don’t try so hard to invade that. If you can’t calmly recollect and remain composed whenever he does what he does, I suggest you to not continue this because it would be a mental toll on your end. As a virgo, I overthink a lot and overly analyze situations that it drives me insane. As soon as I caught onto his scorpio attributes I had to rewire how I would typically handle a male. It takes a lot of mental strength and most importantly…PATIENCE. A ton of it. Good luck to you. Your scorpio would most likely still have feelings for you if he comes back and tells you that he misses you despite telling you that he is leaving. But if circumstances don’t allow it to work, a scorpio would loosen his hands and let you go even if it pains them. They are emotional behind their wall of indifference.

  4. I’ve been with my Scorpio man for 3 years. I am a Capricorn woman. I am annoyed bc I’ll send him texts or calls and he doesn’t answer. It’s so inferioriting bc I know he has his phone in his hand playing video games and I know he see’s it! He answers other people’s texts. Yesterday he told me all I have to do is give him space and he will give me more attention. Okay, I leave town every month for 10days how much more space does he need? He doesn’t do things with me and my friends are constantly asking me where my man is and I just tell them we’re capable of living different lives. Yet, when he first pursued me he was around every corner and had a general interest in me. He’d meet me at the river, now he says he hates that. Bar, he hates that now. Anything I want to do he says no to. One word answers constantly. The thing he does do sometimes is buys me flowers and little things like that. We are intimate but now I’m starting to feel like maybe he’s just been manipulating me with sex. He says he loves me yet doesn’t have feelings. Is this just an intimate relationship and that’s it? I feel like that’s all we have in common. How much more space does a guy need when I’m out of town often?

    1. Hello fellow Earth sign! One of my favorites between a Taurus and a Capricorn. I do not know what to tell you honestly. I feel the same way with my Scorpio at times too. As an Earth sign, Virgo, I tend to view things in black and white. Ever since I interacted with a Scorpio, that has changed drastically. They need a lot of space and I mean a lot of it. They could be so sweet and intimate with you in one moment then just act like you never existed the next. I am intimate with mine and he has the tendency to do this. Then one day, him and I went to the beach and didn’t do anything physical. Just basked in each others silence. He would randomly ask me questions that require a lot of thought and an understanding of one another. I didn’t feel like I was being used anymore. He opens up on his own. And also, I told him that he liked me and his response was that it was reciprocated, but he most likely would not have told me on his own anytime soon. Intimacy does not keep a man solely by itself, especially with a Scorpio. It is how they show affection in a way since they are untrusting in nature, but they require a lot of understanding and mental stimulation. I have also noticed that if you gently approach a Scorpio to clear up any of your doubts, they would do that for you especially if they care. You have to sense a lot of things with them. Does he stare at you intensely like you’re the only one in his world in that moment? Does he reserve whatever time he has despite him placing other priorities before you? Does he show affection here and there to remind you that he does like you? How does he hold you when he hasn’t seen you in awhile? They tend to not do PDA because they like all the lovey-dovey stuff to be done in private. Every now and then they would let it slip. Just really observe your Scorpio in silence because he is doing that with you in return. Don’t always expect him to have you on his mind all the time because they tend to keep themselves busy. Be patient fellow Earth sign. Scorpios are often misunderstood but be mindful because they can be manipulative at times. Observe always. It’ll open up a lot of doors and clear a lot of confusion. It’s a lot of mental work with them.

  5. Hey I am dating a scorpion guy and it’s been 2 years things have been hard for me and I am scorpion too so no patience you know but still I don’t know how come I have been patient so saying him I tried to leave but he dint let me go and we are back again now something again happened I did not wished him on his birthday I couldn’t I don’t know why I was so angry I could he is cold with me now giving me silent treatment I don’t know what to do .

    1. Hi Riya! You two need to learn how to talk to each other properly. It sounds like you keep doing it wrong thus leads you two to misunderstand each other. I think you two could benefit from a counselor or mediator to help you two learn an effective method for talking openly and in a way that’s productive for you both.

  6. When i first met this Scorpio man, he told i was the type to run from commitment and i told him he was spot on. over some time i started to like him and expressed that i was willing to give things a real shot..When i say sweet things, he tells me how i say all the right things like its game. Yeah maybe he has trust issues (who doesn’t) i’m affectionate to him and now over a month in i’m wondering if i’m wasting my time. We just started dating so i’m beginning to feel i’m free to date others.. Am i wrong? Has me expressing my true feelings started the game playing?

    Okay so here’s some examples. One minute he’s texting me every morning with sweet messages,He always compliments me and when we’re together he goes out the way to open doors, pull chairs, stares in my eyes and would wink,.. but then he sometimes gets awkward and starts to shift positions, looking elsewhere like hes in deep thought or not interested and its weird lol.. Anyway the Sex is really good ,i have a high sex drive & i’m very open minded so we agree on that pt.. we live an hr away from each other and we both work so every other weekend has been our schedule. Lately he’s barely texting back . He always says he pays close attention to words so i’m mindful as to what i say. every once in a while he’ll go out the way to copy and paste certain messages

    Him: I might catch feelings.
    Me: I want you to catch feelings for me,, i like you alot.
    Him: Liked “I want you to catch feelings for me, i like you alot”

    Me: Babe, Im missing you..
    Him (8hrs later) hru

    Wtf? Im not even the type to say things like this so early on. but i followed his lead,…These cold responses are going on too long and i’m getting put off. I’m a Leo so if i feel rejected (when im not in love) my response is to play the field and set my sights else where.. So before jumping the gun a few days ago i decided to ask flat out.

    Ex3/ Me: Are you really interested in me?
    (30mins later)
    Him: Yes

    Okay,he gave the right answer and i left it alone, I dont nag but now it feels like he’s ignoring my text….and when he does message its many hrs later. I understand the moody thing cause i can be the same way but i’m not going to chase him.. should i start looking else where? or am i somehow being tested?

      1. Hi Wendi! I don’t know how it turned out for ConfusedLion as she wrote in a year ago and hasn’t written back in. Leo and Scorpio can sometimes have communication problems. It’s one of those situations where you have to basically set up times where you can touch base with each other weekly to get communication open and flowing better. When his temper flares, it’s hard to talk to him. Leo woman’s temper flares as well. So neither of you can talk to each other while you’re still upset. Finding a time when you’re both calm is far better. I hope this helps sweetheart!

      2. I am scorpio my man is also scorpio we are together last 3 years listen u are leo and Leo are so aggressive and fire scorpio don’t like angry people and freaky people give him space but don’t disappearr when my scorpio man don’t text me and ignore me I take a selfie and share in status then he always text me and communicate me

    1. Give him some space and let him come to you. I have been dating my scorpion man for 2 in a half years now and trust me it’s gonna take some time and wrk to get him totally into you and even then you still not gonna totally understand him but in time you will get to understand him more. Although it’s a fight to understand my man at times I wouldn’t trade him for nothing in the world because when his attention is there I feel like the only woman on the planet lol so if you’re willing to put in some wrk and time go for it

    2. You are being tested. Your story is identical to mine. I really liked him and I stuck around which paid off. He’s now in love with me and we are so happy together

      1. HI Sagittarius!

        Oh my! I am so very happy to hear a success story sweetheart. Thank you for sharing with me. It sounds like you’ve found a good formula for making it work with him. Kudos to you. If you ever want to know more about Scorpio, you might think of reading my books on Scorpio Man Secrets. It never hurts to learn all you can.

  7. I’m a cancer dating a Scorpio. We had an argument yesterday and I ended up giving him ultimatum, then he said I should give him 2 days to get his head in the right space.

    I couldn’t keep that promise o 2 days so I texted him “I miss you” today on his WhatsApp. The message hasn’t been delivered yet but I feel like he won’t answer it..

    Do you think I blew my chances by doing so?

    1. Hi Crabbywoman! I don’t think you blew your chances but I wouldn’t reach out again until he answers. Often times if you back off a Scorpio, he’ll figure things out and he’ll come back to you and chase you. The only reason he wouldn’t is if he’s not really into it and doesn’t want it. Give him some time sweetheart.

    1. Hi Kimberli Allen! That is fantastic! I’m glad to hear that you have a Scorpio man treating you well. I hear so many horror stories, it’s refreshing to hear a good one. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and your love! Blessings to you!

  8. How do i tell if the scorpio man im seeing is married or not.
    He will not see me when my son is around. He only want to see me when my son in not around.

    1. Hi Tougieda! Ask him if he’s married. Point blankly and honestly. If he wants to see you when your son isn’t around it’s because he’s not serious enough about you and knows it’s wrong for your son to meet him. That doesn’t mean he’ll always be that way but until he feels confident that a commitment is what he wants with you, he wants to stay in the shadows. I hope that helps answer your question.

  9. I am a pisces and I had a couple relationships with scorpios… yes, they played mental games and they were brutal. I am a hopeless romantic and this wasn’t easy at most times…. after me leaving them because I couldn’t handle their games anymore… or their tests… they were all stalkerish towards me and that annoyed me just as much. but I am interested in this other man, who lol happens to be a scorpio… and we are friends, but right now he is giving me the cold shoulder… anyways I am confused …

    1. Hi Esj! Not all Scorpio men are headcases. I’m sorry you’ve had some bad experiences. Water signs typically work well with other water signs due to the ability to get each other emotionally. You need to stand up to them and not let them walk on you. Pisces are soft hearted and can be easily hurt by the Scorpion. Put your foot down. Cold shoulder? You don’t need it. Ignore him for awhile and see what happens.

  10. Leo woman here. My scorpio and I have been talking for about 6weeks. We had one amazing date, spent the night together. I was mad at myself for letting it happen but it was purrrfect. He initiates texts everyday, and texts often. I haven’t seen him in a month. I got mad that he cancelled on me and stopped talkin for a week. I text him an emoji and he right back to it like nothing happen. Wants to “make it up” to me, tells me he wants me in his life, wants to see me, says how great I am blah blah – why won’t he spend time then?!?!

    1. Hi Leo containing herself! You are one of a handful of Leo ladies who have written in about the frustrating Scorpio men. Seems you all have similar problems with them as well. Let him do the work and prove to you that he cares. Watch him work it and come back around to give you what you deserve. Don’t take him back unless he does it!

  11. I attest this article is very very true for a scorpio guy. I just realised he is missing me now because i have not reached out to him for days and he is texting and calling.

    1. Hi Njemo! Thank you for your testament. I always love when people write in to verify that what I’ve shared happens to be true for them. He’s chasing you because he misses you. That’s good! Keep it up and you may just find some success with him.

  12. I’m a Leo on the cusp of Virgo and he’s a Scorpio/ saggy chat. He’s driving me crazy! Built up, treated me like a princess then pulled back. I lost my cool and told him on a zillion texts how I feel about him. Next time I bumped into him he was as lovely as ever. He’d never initiate contact but always responds instantly. I swear I’m losing my mind.

    1. Hi Sal! As the other women who wrote above that are Leo, communication is a difficult thing for Leo and Scorpio. You two need to talk to each other when everything is good and find out what you two have for a possibility. If you start really dating then you two should get together when you’re both in a good mood. Do not mix when you are both in a not so good mood as that will be a disaster. I hope this helps!

  13. Lol, yes I am dating a Scorpio Male and he is a lot to deal with hot and cold. It is a bit stressful as he only want’s to spend 1 day a week together & not even a whole day. He’s fun to be with and the passion is priceless. I would love to spend more time together as he is always busy.

    1. Hi Nina! Hot and cold seems to be their signature thing to do. It has to do with not managing their emotions and insecurities well. They over think things too much and turn mountains into molehills which them makes them back off because they cannot handle the stress they created themselves. It’s a matter of learning this about him. You should read my book “Scorpio Man Secrets” as it will uncover even more tips and hints for you.

  14. We leave together and I fine myself think he doesn’t want me and that he is seeing someone at work he don’t txt me as much as before when his at work I catered to him I make him feel special but I think and feel his talking to someone else what should I do

  15. He texts almost every morning, but calls mostly each night “I’m just leaving work, wanted to hear your voice!” I’ve never had anyone communicate with me so frequently, not even my ex-husband when we were married! So this is very new and “different” to me; thank you Anna for spelling out what this means from a Scorpio man.

  16. I have been talking with this guy(Scorpio) for awhile now and we have a great time when we are together… we are always laughing and he is very affectionate always touching or kissing me. But I feel like it is just about the sex and he doesn’t want a relationship!?! I can definitely see myself with me. We talk everyday but what is getting annoying is I usually am the one contacting first but he does respond everytime. I don’t want to feel like I am wasting my time but sometimes I do. We do say love ya to each other but I don’t know if he means it’s like I do??? Recently he asked me to go on a weekend vacation with him but I not sure if he is being serious about it… I am just confused right now about the whole thing and not sure what to do

  17. Scorpio man has repeatedly lied to me about nude pics of other women. Im fed up with the double standards. At the moment ive calmly expressed my feelings about this issue and i am leaning back. Is leaning back the right thing to do in this situation? Ive gotton very lil response from him. This is a boundery i must hold. I want to be in a relationship where i am respected not just given lip service and empty promises. How do i regain my power and the balance in a relationship with a scorpio man who loves me but is obviously taking me for granted?

    1. Hi Betty!

      Ouch I am so sorry you’ve had this crappy experience with a Scorpio man. They do tend to be secretive unless you’re accepting of what they are doing then they’re honest about it. The trouble is, it’s normally things you don’t like. Scorpio men are very sexual guys and yes, they like porn. It’s one of those things that you can either accept or you’ll have to find someone who doesn’t do that. Men in general really seem to like it no matter their sign. Be confident in who you are and don’t worry about his “looking” if he isn’t actually cheating on you with someone. If those are texts you’re talking about then yes, stand up for yourself and tell him it’s disrespectful to you and the relationship. Either he abides by it or you will have to drop him at the curb honey. Don’t back down. If you want to know more about Scorpio man’s mind, check out my books on Scorpio Man Secrets.

    1. Hi Virgo!

      Oh honey, it’s my pleasure to help you out. The information doesn’t end here though. If you would like to dig in deeper to the heart and mind of a Scorpio man, you really should check out my books on Scorpio Man Secrets. You’ll be come a master at how to be with him. I wish you all the best.

  18. Hi, I read this and found Leo fellas above really frustated for their Scorpio man.
    Same as me, LOL!
    I think it’s natural for Leo to always want attention, but hey… please see the bigger picture. Scorpio show their love really in your face in the beginning of relationship.
    Time after time, they’ll get back to they old habits as they think that you already know that they love you (otherwise, they’ll just dump you already).
    I know they just kind of men that cause lots of anxiety in Leo women. However, if you list the good and the bad of him, and understand he’s worth to keep, then just cool down a lil bit.
    Relax…mindfulness… give them lots of affections and warmth of the sun. They like cute text and flirty.
    They like your videos and photos in sexy pose or just pretty make up.
    Don’t expect them to reply more than lovely emojis (LOL), but they’ll keep all of things that you gave them as a treasure.

    They just afraid of being hurt and finding it’s hard to trust people they love (because they choose you as their partner, and you are their weakness).

    My relationship went downhill couple months ago… as a Leo, I only can tell you to relax. Chill, sweetheart. They just afraid of losing you, that’s why they’re pulling back to avoid conflict.

    Scorpio loves freedom and Leo loves authority. Find the win-win solution.
    Do compromise.
    Mine have schedule to phone once a week or have movies online when we don’t have a time to go on date outside.
    That’s enough 🙂

    Tell them you love them.
    Maybe after the 40th times, they’ll tell you back 😉

    1. Hi Another-Leo-wmn!

      Thank you for chiming in with your experience sweetheart. I appreciate all the data I can get. Communication is always the make it or break it of any relationship. I think sometimes people lose sight of it. Scorpio needs excitement as well so when that isn’t happening, they look elsewhere. Leo can do just about the same, it’s true. Again, thank you for sharing your experience. I’m sure it will help some of the ladies out there reading.

  19. I’m in a complicated relationship I guess with a Scorpio. We are friends but we also have sex, which we both agree is really great. We match really well. We have both agreed to not date since he is still in love with his ex and I just got out of a bad relationship. But two months ago he seemed to be getting more and more attached, and so was I to be honest. But then his ex texted him and then showed up. She used him for money and then left. But he lashed out at me saying I was why she left.
    Two days later he’s back in my bed and has been ever since, though I really don’t want to date him at this point. I’m good with friends with benefits. But since she had shown up, the next day after being with me he ends up being super moody and reverts back to blaming me for her not staying. One minute he’s great and we are great, the next minute he is sullen and moody saying he doesn’t trust me. I don’t know what’s going on with him.

    I can stop having sex with him and he just fine though it’s great sex. However, I don’t want to lose my best friend. I don’t know what to do….
    He says we need to stop having sex, but then turns around and is wanting to have sex. He says he wants her and not me, but then gets jealous if I talk to another man and keeps coming to me.
    What does he want cause he has me so confused

  20. Leo women here ,
    Been talking to a Scorpio man a little over a mth now . Granted we are king distance from eachother but he showed a lot of affection and attention when started talking. Now it’s becoming more and more less. We just had our first big argument today and he was very hurtful with things he said . He came off very sharp tongue and nonchalant about everything I express to him as if he didn’t care . He says he can’t provide me with the “ Time” I want from
    Him and basically to just let the situation go because he can’t give me what I want . I fought it for a min but noticed I started getting emotional. So I had to just end the conversation. I told him if he leaves the “ relationship “ now then don’t come back .

    I miss him ALOT and I want us to work because he has ALOT of great qualities and potential that I want in a man and I know deep inside he’s just affectionate as I am . but I don’t like feeling like I’m irrelevant and or my feelings don’t matter. Im the type after a while if I dont hear from you then Im over it . If I fight for you and you don’t fight back then what’s the point … can someone please help . I feel like he’s gonna reach out later on down the road but me knowing me , I’m m not gonna want it anymore because I feel like you were to quick to
    Let it go ?. Please help

  21. I’m a Taurus seeing a Scorpio man. We are both in our late 50’s. We meet while going through divorces During COVID in May of 2020. My divorce was finalized in July that year. (My only marriage of 33 years) He had moved back to take care of his parents. Plus there was a 18 month separation period in the state his wife filed in. She came to visit him June of 2020 ( their wedding anniversary) He said the visit ended badly she booked an early flight home. She didn’t stay with him during the visit. Then she came back OCt 2020. He happened to come down with COVID. She left early again. Also didn’t stay with him. His father passed away in Jan of 2021. The wife wanted to come. He told her point blank No it wasn’t a good idea. I feel like she was bread crumbing him this whole time. Yet she is the one who filed. We continued to date through out all of this happening. The end of April 2021. I got up the nerve to tell him I was developing feelings for him. He broke things off with me. Said his wife had served him with divorce papers finally. (His 3rd divorce her 4th) I was devastated. I didn’t speak to him till July of 2021. By Aug he was wanting to get back together. I was still to hurt by him. Made the mistake of dating too soon. Met someone a couple weeks later. I knew it wasn’t a good relationship for me. Yet I stayed for 7 months. Super long story…that guy got into a motorcycle accident. Had months of recovery. Was pushing me too hard to get married. I broke it off with him. During this time my Scorpio guy was waiting in the wings to swoop in and grab me this time. We have been seeing each other since then. It will be a year end of April 2023. He is very aloof he even admits it and apologizes for it. Although I very much like my alone time too. Neither of us wants marriage. I told him I just want a life partner/campion. He feels the same. My biggest concern is the lack time we spend together. We don’t go out or on dates. I’ve invited to do stuff or meet my adult children. He always is busy. We live in the same town. I get his mom is 85 and needy. He doesn’t live with her. He has friends from childhood here also. I know no one. I moved here for my job. When we do see each other I can feel he has feeling for me in his hugs, kisses… if I need help with something he will be there. But it always feels like sex is the main reason we see each other. I’m not sure how to approach him and find out what his intentions are with me for a future? I don’t mean marriage in the future. I’d like to know if he sees me as a life partner.

    My sun sign is Taurus, moon Sagittarius and ascending is Scorpio. His sun and moon are Scorpio with ascending Taurus. I feel like we are very similar and understand each other very well. He has even mentioned this in conversations.

  22. I am in a long distance relationship with a Scorpio man. We were texting regularly mostly weekends. We work opposite shifts. He has gone silent. Very little to No communication in 3 weeks. Nothing has indicated any issues with us

    1. Dear Pat,
      The Scorpio man is a rather physical sort of guy which makes long distance relationships difficult for him to achieve or make last.
      He may do it easily in the beginning while he’s getting to know his woman. He will want to have an initial meeting to make sure the chemistry is there and then perhaps proceed with getting into a relationship.
      If you don’t meet occasionally he will lose interest and pull back.
      I hope this situation will be resolved in you favor.
      Sending Love to you!

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