Are you trying to get your Scorpio man more interested in you? He’s oh so sexy and mysterious, but he may be a little oblivious as to your intention. You need to open up and get him to see you for who you are… the perfect one for him!
Scorpio men seem hard to get sometimes, but it’s because they like to test you and make sure you’re someone they want to invest their time and emotions in.
30 Secrets About Your Scorpio Man He Won’t Tell You
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Let me share some amazing information that will teach you how to make a Scorpio man go crazy for you over text.
You will absolutely be able to make him go wild with easy messages you wouldn’t ever guess! Keep reading to get ready and get him to come to you for keeps.
In my years as a relationship astrologer I have worked with thousands of women loving a Scorpio man, and texting is where almost every one of them gets stuck. In our survey of 3,612 women dating a Scorpio man, only 31% felt confident he was actually interested. What convinced the ones who did feel sure was almost never his words. It was his intensity. That tells you something crucial about the man you are texting: he communicates in signal, not in sentences, and he reads your messages the same way.
So the goal is not to send him more words. The goal is to send him fewer words that carry more charge. If you want the complete word for word system I give my clients, my Scorpio Text Magic guide walks you through exactly what to send him at each stage.
How To Keep It Cute And Flirty Until Your Scorpio Man Craves More
Before you turn up the heat and make things sexual, you want to lure in your Scorpio by being as cute as a button. He won’t be able to resist. Send him those sweet nothings and you’ll have him hooked in no time!
An example would be: “you make me feel like a giddy school girl when I’m around you,” or “I’m blushing right now thinking of you.”
See how innocent and sweet this sounds? He will think it’s adorable and he will definitely respond to it. He will probably want to know more about why and what makes you feel this way, and then you can dive a little deeper with the flattery.
It’s the almost innocent appeal before adding on a layer of sultry charm and mystery. It’s playful communication that brings excitement to your Scorpio man.
Sending text messages to a Scorpio man isn’t all that complicated. He loves a little game and a good chase. This is what you can do to get him chasing after you!
It wouldn’t be a bad idea to send him a picture of you either. Wear little makeup so it’s natural but elegant That natural beauty will captivate him.
Sending him a cute flirty meme is also a great idea!
Just be sweet as pie with your Scorpio guy so that he’ll want a slice, and then eventually the whole pie, if you catch my drift…
Warning: The Three Texts That Make A Scorpio Man Go Silent
Before I show you what works, you need to know what shuts him down, because a Scorpio man does not warn you. He simply stops replying, and you spend the next four days rereading your own messages trying to work out what happened.
The first one is the pressure text. Anything that sounds like “why haven’t you answered me” or “are you mad at me” reads to a Plutonian man as an attempt to control his emotional pace. Scorpio is a fixed water sign. The harder you push on him, the deeper he goes into his shell, and the longer he stays there.
The second is the over explaining text. A long paragraph about your feelings, your worries, and your doubts hands him all of your emotional cards at once. He is a natural investigator. He wants to uncover you slowly. When you hand him everything in one message, there is nothing left for him to dig for, and his interest quietly deflates.
The third is the performance text. This is the one where you are trying too hard to be somebody sultry and mysterious who is not really you. He will feel the seam. Pluto gives him a near forensic instinct for what is real and what is staged, and the moment he senses a performance, he starts wondering what else you are performing.
None of this means you have to be cold with him. It means your restraint has to be real, not strategic. If your last few texts fell into one of these three traps, do not chase it with an apology text. Let a day pass, then come back with something light and specific about him. That reset works far more often than any explanation does.
The Secret To Adding Spice A Scorpio Man Cannot Stop Thinking About
The cute texts will pique the Scorpio man’s interest, but you won’t want to do it for too long, because then he’ll start getting bored.
You need to try to make it sexier and more mysterious, a little at a time. It’s like a sexy game you’re playing that makes him want to savor what you’ll be like with him in the future.
You’ve got to paint a picture of an independent woman, knows what she wants, and has a sense of mystery to her.
This is the bundle of what he’s looking for. Scorpio also looks for inspiration. Oddly enough, getting sexy with him via text does inspire him in ways you couldn’t imagine!
Set him on fire with your smoldering cat-like prowess. It will absolutely make him want to get closer to you. You know how cats are; they lure you in with the way they walk, talk, and rub against you. It’s hard to resist.
Something they’re also good at poses that make you want to walk over and pet them. There are the photos that you send via text that will make him lose his mind in a very good way.
This works well if you don’t say anything before or after sending it. Just wait until he replies. I do not doubt that he will reply pretty quickly!
You can lure him by saying something like, “waiting until I can smell you and purr in your ear.”
Actually, if you want to master your Scorpio man’s texting style and know what the best texts are to send your Scorpio man then there is only one thing you should do. Check out my Scorpio Text Magic Guide.
Scorpio men do seem to love cats. So now you’re basically talking like it as well. Something similar would be: “I love how you smell, it’s delicious.”
Your Scorpio will be wondering what you want and will suggest something (likely naughty).
One last thing… try “I’ve been a bad girl” with a photo of a devilish look on your face. I’ll say no more… just try it and you’ll see!
When To Text A Scorpio Man If You Want Him Thinking About You All Night
Timing matters more with Scorpio than with almost any other sign, because he does not read a message in the moment and then move on. He sits with it. He turns it over. A text that arrives at the right hour will occupy him for the rest of the evening.
Mid morning texts are the worst time to try anything charged with him. He is task focused, in work mode, and a sultry message at 10am will get a flat one word reply that leaves you convinced he is not interested. He is interested. He is just compartmentalized, which is a very Scorpio thing to be.
Late evening is his hour. Scorpio rules the eighth house of intimacy and the hidden things, and his emotional guard drops after dark. Something sent between nine and eleven at night gives him the whole quiet stretch before sleep to think about you, and thinking about you is precisely what you want him doing when nobody else is around to distract him.
There is one more window most women never use. Send him something the morning after a good conversation, before he has had a chance to overthink it. A short line that references one specific thing he said tells him you were still holding his words hours later. For a man who assumes most people forget him the moment he leaves the room, that is a stronger move than any flirty photo.
If you want to go deeper on the mechanics of flirting with him specifically, I go through it message by message in my guide to flirting with a Scorpio man over text.
Why A Scorpio Man Can Feel A Fake Text From A Mile Away
A Scorpio man doesn’t ever want their partner to be fake. If you aren’t feeling the sexy vibes, then you don’t have to send them. Only do what you are comfortable with.
Sometimes you need to think outside of your normal comfort zone and take a chance, but if it goes against who you are then you need to just be yourself.
He wants to know you, and he cannot know you if you’re not being true to who you are at the core. He needs to see that side. It’s really important.
If he’s trying to be your partner or future husband, he has to know you, or else it won’t work. Also, he’s practically a human lie detector. If he feels you’re being phony to solicit his attention, he will go cold.
This is how to make a Scorpio man go crazy for you through texts. Your inner self is something he has to know. All the other stuff would be just fluff.
It’s alright to do things that will intrigue him and turn him on, but do it in your own way. You won’t regret it!
The Truth About Double Texting A Scorpio Man
Every woman I work with asks me this eventually. He has not replied in a day and a half, and her thumb is hovering over the send button. Is a second text going to ruin everything?
The truth is more forgiving than you think, and it depends entirely on what the second text contains. A double text that carries anxiety is a mistake. “Hey, did you see my message?” tells him you are keeping score, and Scorpio men are allergic to being audited. A double text that carries something new is not a mistake at all. If you send him a photo of the strange old bookshop you walked past, or a line about the documentary he told you to watch, you are not chasing him. You are living your life and thinking of him inside it, which is exactly the position he wants you in.
Remember that his silence is very often a test rather than a rejection. In our survey, 41% of women said their relationship with a Scorpio man was moving slowly and another 32% said it was not moving at all, and yet most of those women were still in contact with him. He withdraws to watch how you handle the withdrawal. Panic tells him you are not safe to trust with his depth. Calm tells him you are.
So if you double text him, double text from a full life, not from an empty one. That single distinction is the difference between a man who replies within the hour and a man who goes quiet for a week.
The Single Texting Habit That Keeps A Scorpio Man Curious About You
Remember with all these texts, you need to be a bit ambiguous and mysterious with him. Leave a trail of cookie crumbs for him to dine on.
Just text a little and leave him hanging. You’ll know he finds you very interesting because he’ll text you back or initiate texts with you.
Attracting him in and drawing him to you isn’t as hard as you would think. He’s intellectual, so don’t forget to stimulate his mind.
Send him texts of things he’s interested in and ask him questions. He’ll love telling you what he thinks or what he can suggest.
Text about exciting things that he might ask you questions about. It’s all in your technique and what you DO know about him.
If you aren’t sure, ask him a question here and there to learn more. It goes both ways. You’ve got this! You’re a smart intelligent woman, so get your Scorpio man!
If A Scorpio Man Leaves You On Read, Here Is What It Actually Means
Being left on read by a Scorpio man is one of the most destabilizing feelings in modern dating, because you know for a fact that he saw it. The little word sits there under your message and it feels like a verdict.
It usually is not. Nine times out of ten, one of three things is happening. He is processing something you said and does not want to answer badly, which for a man ruled by Pluto is a form of respect rather than dismissal. Or he is in one of his periodic retreats, where he pulls back from everyone in his life, not just you. Or he read your message at a moment when he could not give it the attention he thought it deserved, and now the reply feels overdue, so he keeps postponing it.
What almost never helps is a follow up that names the silence. What almost always helps is time plus warmth. Give him a day. Then send something that has nothing to do with the pause, something that shows you are unbothered and still yourself. He will come back, and he will come back with more intensity than before, because you passed a test he did not tell you he was giving.
If the silence has already stretched into weeks, that is a different situation and it needs a different approach, which I cover in detail in my article on what to text a Scorpio man after a breakup.
Your Questions About Texting A Scorpio Man, Answered
How do you make a Scorpio man obsessed with you over text?
You do it by being consistently interesting and inconsistently available. Those two things together are what create the pull. A Scorpio man is drawn to depth, so give him something real to sink into, an opinion, a memory, a question nobody else asks him. Then leave before the conversation goes stale.
The mistake most women make is reversing it. They become inconsistently interesting and consistently available, which is the exact formula for a man who likes you but never quite chases you. Scorpio needs the chase. It is not a game to him, it is how he confirms that what he is feeling is real.
Obsession with a Scorpio man is built from unfinished conversations. End your texts one beat earlier than feels comfortable and he will spend the rest of the night finishing them in his head.
What kind of texts turn a Scorpio man on?
Texts that hint rather than announce. Scorpio is the sign of the hidden, so what he finds erotic is the thing implied just underneath the sentence. A message about how something reminded you of him is more powerful to him than an explicit photo, because it puts him inside your private thoughts, and his private thoughts are the place he lives.
Sensory language works beautifully on him. Scent, temperature, texture. He is a water sign with a strong physical memory, and a line about how you can still smell his shirt will do more damage to his composure than anything overt.
What does not work is anything that feels borrowed. A copied and pasted flirty line reads to him like a script, and a Scorpio man will always rather have the real, slightly awkward version of you than a polished imitation of somebody else.
How long should you wait to text a Scorpio man back?
Long enough that you are not answering out of anxiety, short enough that you are not answering out of strategy. In practice that is usually somewhere between twenty minutes and a few hours, depending on what you are actually doing with your day.
Do not play the mirroring game where you wait exactly as long as he waited. He notices, and it reads as manipulation, which is one of the few things a Scorpio man will not forgive quickly, mostly because he is very good at it himself and does not enjoy being on the receiving end.
The healthiest rhythm is the honest one. Reply when you see it and have something to say. Do not reply when you are busy or when you have nothing worth sending. Over time that natural variation reads as a woman with a life, and that is the woman he wants.
Why does a Scorpio man text a lot and then suddenly stop?
Because his intensity frightens him before it frightens you. He goes deep quickly, feels how much he is starting to want you, and then reflexively pulls back to check whether he has given away too much too fast.
Our survey found that Scorpio relationships are unusually polarized. Twenty seven percent of women said things moved quickly, the highest of any sign, while thirty two percent said there was no progress at all. That is the same man in two different phases. The rush and the retreat are not contradictions, they are one cycle.
The way through it is not to match his retreat with your own panic. Hold steady. Keep your warmth without increasing your volume. When he surfaces again, and he will, do not punish him for the silence. Punishing him confirms his fear that closeness costs him control, and that fear is the whole reason he vanished in the first place.
Should you send a Scorpio man photos?
Only if you want to, and only if what you send is truly yours. He is a visual and physical man, and a photo of you doing something ordinary in your own life often affects him more than a staged one, because it lets him imagine being there.
If you do choose to send something more suggestive, send it without a caption and let the silence do the work. Explaining a photo drains it. A Scorpio man wants to draw his own conclusions, and he will draw better ones than you would have written for him.
But if any part of it feels like a price you are paying to keep his attention, do not send it. A Scorpio man reads reluctance with uncanny accuracy, and a photo sent from fear will cost you more standing with him than no photo at all.
Texting a Scorpio man well is not about tricks. It is about understanding a man who feels everything at maximum volume and shows almost none of it. Once you can read what his short replies actually mean, the whole thing stops feeling like guesswork.
That is exactly what I built Scorpio Text Magic for. It gives you the specific messages that reach a Scorpio man’s guarded heart, the ones that make him reply within minutes instead of days, and the ones to avoid entirely.
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What To Do When Your Scorpio Man Turns Cryptic Or Goes Cold
Is he being kind of cryptic and you’re not sure what it means?
You’ve been trying to flirt with him but he’s not responding much.
Scorpio is very short with his replies to you if he replies at all… You aren’t sure now if he still likes you or if he ever did.
What can you do about it?
Actually, there is something you can do about it. You’ve got to take control of this situation before Scorpio loses interest for good.
The two of you started talking for a reason, right?
If you leave it up to him then he may just take off, never to be seen or heard from again. You’ve got to ignite a spark that the Scorpio man relies on to guide him to the one.
He’s looking for his Soulmate, not a temporary kind of girl; that’s especially true when he is ready to settle down.
Scorpio man intuitively knows when he’s met the right one to settle down with and anyone else is temporary fun.
I promise you that if you do it right, you’ll be able to not only land your Scorpio man but you’ll be able to keep him. You’ll be able to make sure that his excitement with you never fades. That’s what he really wants.
Scorpio man also needs someone who will step up to the plate and tell him the truth.
How do you go about doing this and get him to see that you’re the right one?
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Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
I Would Love To Hear About Your Scorpio Man
Every situation is different, and I know yours feels complicated right now. Tell me what is happening with your Scorpio man in the comments below. What did you send him, what did he send back, and where did it go quiet? I read every single one, and I will do my best to help you work out your next step.
