Wondering if your Scorpio crush – or ex has feelings for you, or of he still wants you? As secretive as these signals can be, there are some sure-fire signs that he hasn’t let go of you just yet. Once you see these signs, you can be certain that the love is there. Here’s how to tell:
Still in love with your Scorpio fella? Or are you just falling for one and wondering if he feels the same about you? Either way, it can be hard to tell because he’s just so darn secretive! These are not the type of guys to show their feelings easily!
This is where Astrology comes in handy. There are always ways to tell when a guy has feelings for you, according to his Star sign. It takes away the fuss and agony of worrying and gives you the opportunity to act and to know just how he feels.
These are the most obvious signs to tell that a Scorpio man is either developing feelings for you, or still has feelings for you:
7 Ways To Tell If A Scorpio Man (Still) Has Feelings For You
1. He Keeps Playing Games With You
Scorpio men play games. Everyone knows that, but it can be infuriating, especially if you don’t know why he’s doing it. This sign often needs you to prove yourself, to test you to see if you are someone who can be trusted, loyal and faithful.
That’s why playing games is one of the strongest signs that he is falling for you, or still has feelings for you. He’s scared of being hurt and terrified of being betrayed. This is why he’s coming across in ways that seem manipulative, secretive or even toxic, at times.
Of course, you should never tolerate downright destructive behavior. It’s best to call him out on it, and show him that you mean business, that your feelings are serious for him. This will help him to trust you. Do away with the games, and get real.
It does mean you lay your heart on the line, however – are you ready for that?
2. He Becomes Vulnerable With You
When a Scorpio is really in love or has deep feelings for you, he will become vulnerable and sometimes, quite clingy and needy. However, it takes a great deal for him to get to that point, as this is a very scary space for him to be in, and usually comes out of desperation to keep you or fear of losing you.
Hence, if he is telling you about his true feelings, sharing his past with you, or sharing personal wounds with you, you can be sure that love is there. Even if you’ve broken up and he’s reaching out to you emotionally, it means that he still has those romantic feelings for you.
Now, is your choice as to what to do with this – do you want to try again – or not?
3. He’s Creating Drama
Another strange way to tell if your Scorpio fella (still) has feelings for you is when he creates drama. Yes, it’s annoying, and probably in some ways, a little childish. He likes to kick up a fuss, and pretend he wasn’t the one doing it.
However, it does get him the reaction he wants – your attention. It’s not always the best way to get your attention, but many Scorpio men can be rather wounded and aren’t always sure of the best way to go about getting what they actually want (your love!).
Of course, if it’s toxic drama, you will have to walk away or call him out. Show him a better way of getting your attention. Whatever you do, never play into his drama games. That will just get messy!
4. He Finds Reasons To See You Or Speak To You
You can be sure that a Scorpio man still cares for you if he is finding any reason to contact you or see you. Whether that means coming to your house to collect his special sweater, or stopping by your work to collect a document, he’s definitely looking for reasons to see you!
This can be quite enduing, once you realize that it’s all just a ploy to have more of you. He may also just reach out by text and pretend to ask you about something practical – don’t be fooled! This is almost always a sign that he is still in love with you.
5. He’s Acting Jealous
Is your Scorpio ex or love interest acting jealously? He’s probably in love with you, or still carrying the torch for you. It may seem very strange that he’s acting jealously about the new guy you’re seeing, because the truth is, who would be jealous unless they still wanted to be with you?
It’s not pretty, the jealousy – but if you know where it’s coming from, then you can find a way to not only tolerate it, but see this as a potential positive.
6. He Tells You His Secrets
Just as being vulnerable with you is a sign of his deeper feelings, sharing his secrets with you is also a sign that he’s in love with you, or still carrying feelings of closeness towards you. Scorpios do not share their secrets very easily at all, so this is a very important signal that he wants you in his life!
This may range from smaller secrets such as sharing his feelings about his boss with you over text one day, or telling you his dreams and hopes of the future over dinner. It may be a sudden revealing of emotion over a phone call, all in an attempt to draw closer to you.
This is almost a last resort with the Scorpio guy – he wouldn’t share his secrets unless he feels he can really trust you and that his games aren’t working. He has no choice but to become vulnerable, which is a very good thing indeed!
Read next: 5 Signs Your Scorpio Ex Does NOT Want You Back
7. He Can’t Let Go Of You
One of the biggest signs that a Scorpio still carries feelings for you is when he just can’t let go of you. Whether that means always reaching out, playing games, acting jealously, posting pictures of the two of you online or still hanging out with your dad for a drink, he still wants you.
Even if he’s new in your life, that will show up as always wanting you around, trying to see you and not taking no for an answer. Scorpios, once they are interested in you, will stop at absolutely nothing to have you.
They are ruled by Mars, the planet of lust and desire, after all – and what a Scorpio wants, a Scorpio gets! Do you want him to hold onto you? If so, enjoy it and let yourself be pursued. Make him work for you a little bit – he does tend to like that!
But never, ever allow toxic behavior to take control, and back out if he starts acting anything like a stalker!
Are you interested to know more about the Scorpio guy? Check out my Scorpio man secrets website right here and find out what makes these mysterious men tick!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
What if you make him work for it and he just let’s you go?
Why does he seem so cold and selfish. Almost or is narcissistic. Kind of psychopath?
So Scorpio guy didn’t treat me well at all when we got together in Oct & Dec & I called him on it last week & again today when he texted me. I told him that he disrespected me & was sexually pushy. He hadn’t seen it that way & suprise, this “text only” guy phoned me while I was replying to his last text. He moved out of the apartment above me today but now wants to see me again. I told him that he had to respect my boundaries if anything was to happen between us. So now he feels badly about how he made me feel?? Arrrrg Frustrating Does a strong sexual attraction with these guys ever turn into emotional attachment? Cause he hasn’t been able to walk away & stay away since last January when he moved upstairs?
MINE IS AN ASSHOLE, HE CREATE DRAMA, ACT SICK WHEN HE IS NOT, CRY LIKE A BABY, AND THEN TELL ME ITS ALL MY FAULT. SEE NOW I WOULD HAVE BEEN CONCERN IF I WASN’T A SAG. SO I DON’T GIVE A FUCK. I TREAT HIM LIKE THE PERSON HE ACTS LIKE AND HE GETS IN HIS FEELINGS AND THEN I PUSH HIM AWAY. THATS WHEN HE COME UP WITH SOM MESS ABOUT NO FEELING WELL, OR IF THAT DON’T WORK HE TELLS ME THAT HE CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT ME. YEAH RIGHT. SO I PLAY MY HAND AND TELL HIM I GOT A NEW PERSONAL TRAINER, AND BOY DID THAT PUT HIM BACK WRAPPED AROUND MY FINGERS. I TOLD HIM IF HE FUCK AROUND HE WILL FIND OUT.
Dear Kenzie,
There are some obvious and troublesome differences that Scorpio and Sagittarius will have to negotiate with sensitivity and a willingness to compromise. Scorpio needs security and demands committed loving whereas Sagittarius hates being hemmed in and demands complete freedom.
Scorpio will criticize Sagittarius for lacking direction, focus, and commitment and Sagittarius will think Scorpio is a paranoid control freak. When you argue or disagree things can quickly get out of hand, leaving you both feeling hurt, confused and decidedly turned off. Be careful when navigating his waters!