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What To Do When A Scorpio Man Loses Interest

Having a romance with the Scorpio man is a deep and transformative experience for most of the women and therefore the sudden loss of his interest can be shocking and hurtful.

But, let’s look at the possible causes of why he is getting cold and what can you do about.

Scorpio men are really strange types of lovers. The planet which rules this sign is Mars in traditional astrology, and also Pluto in modern ways. And Mars is an angry planet of action, but it doesn’t show off as it does in the sign of Aries.

Here the Mars is in its “nocturnal domicile” of in its night house. His qualities become somewhat dark and strategic in the dark sign of Scorpio.

Pluto is known as the king of the underworld, so while having a romance with the Scorpio guy you can, and probably will encounter all sorts of his mood swings.

And this is why is highly important to understand him before you start the new war to win his heart.

Two Sides of Scorpio Man

First of all, you have to find out is he getting cold toward you because he is really getting cold or he is going through some of his personal phases.

You see, Scorpios belong to the category of the most intelligent signs of the Zodiac, but this characteristic has its own dark side.

Diving Deep Into the Underworld

what to do when a Scorpio man loses interest

Nothing is ever superficial or shallow with Scorpios. However, those traits they possess are often the cause of their exhaustion or even depression. They are famous for their “killing myself” periods in their lives and it might sound weird.

But after each one of those phases, they are being born or transformed as better human beings, at least more mature ones.

At this point you should ask yourself is this just one of his dark phases and if it is just let him be.

You should be present somewhere in behind and from time to time you will have to convince in short conversation, that you love him and that you will always be there for him.

When this dark period of inner transformations ends, at last, he will be eternally thankful that you didn’t give up on him. And this will give a new quality and his total dedication to your relationship.

What if He Really Pulls Back?

This is possible. But you have to be aware of the positive side, that Scorpio guy is not capable of pretending, at least not for a long time. If he starts to get cold, you will see it in every move he makes very fast. So, what can you do about this?

If he made up his mind totally, there is not much you can do to change him. But, if there is still a small chance then you have to act fast.

Do Not Chase or Beg Him

This approach doesn’t work with Scorpios, so don’t waste your time. If you try to convince him about your qualities and the love you feel for him, he will just pull back faster, because Scorpios hate weak or desperate people the most.

So, never ever show him your desperation.

Get Yourself Together

Once upon the time, he fell in love with you. And he must have some good reasons for that. First of all, take care of your physical appearance and also, your health. You shouldn’t look like you are trying too hard or trying to impress him at all.

Just be a classy woman with the sexy body and royal manners. If he intends to lose you, he will quickly realize that he is losing a very valuable person in his life.

Engage in Something New

what to do when a Scorpio man loses interest

Your mind will always be occupied with something. In the moments of love crisis, you will naturally tend to recycle the same old thoughts in your head. And this is one grand mistake.

There is no need to command yourself throughout the day that you shouldn’t or you mustn’t do or think this and that. No, no, no.

If you occupy yourself with something else, your mind will follow. However, sustain from lonely activates, choose just something creative and uplifting and remember that the moments of crisis can ideal for you to finally learn to dance salsa or something similar.

Go to the places where quality free men gather and avoid at all cost, locations with more women and lots of talks. In moments like these, you will need action, not analysis.

On the other side, your sudden and uplifting activities will soon become his greatest wonder and this can be precisely what he needs to realize what he will lose in the end.

Forgive and Forget

The major impact on his decision whether to stay with you or move on will be your good and gentle heart. In a feminine way you can state how much he means to you and how your heart will be broken, but you are letting him go and wishing him all the best in life.

Try to do those lines without any trace of bitterness or sarcasm in your voice and just leave. This will hit him like a hammer and a few days later you can expect his call.

Playing games of love will never be easy for any woman who is involved with Scorpio men because they can sense when something is fake or genuine.

But if you look deep down into your soul, you will see for yourself that these strategies for getting him back are the only ones which work the best.

Conclusion

In any case, with or without him, always seek for the things and activities which are the best for you and your growth, and this will create a high-value woman out of you in the eyes of every man.

Tell me did you have a similar experience with your Scorpio guy? What do you do when a Scorpio man loses interest?

And more importantly, how is your relationship doing after this crisis?

Your friend and astrologer,

Anna Kovach



  • I’m a cancer cusp with gemin june 21. This scorpio and I met in high school through family that go to church together. He took me to my prom and we started a summer fling. I left for college and moved on to someone new. Nearly 8 Years pass and he contacts me. We start to talk again. things seemed fun for 3 months then he disappeared. The following summer he was in an accident so i reached out because I truly care about him. We talked consistently on a daily basis with him contacting me first but that stopped too. This year he has been real distant but one minute he seems interested the next he won’t respond. I feel I’m to clingy and need to much of his attention. I love his attention. Now I’m trying to figure out should I move on again or be more patient this time around.

  • I’m a cancer cusp with gemin june 21. This scorpio and I met in high school through family that go to church together. He took me to my prom and we started a summer fling. I left for college and moved on to someone new. Nearly 8 Years pass and he contacts me. We start to talk again. things seemed fun for 3 months then he disappeared. The following summer he was in an accident so i reached out because I truly care about him. We talked consistently on a daily basis with him contacting me first but that stopped too. This year he has been real distant but one minute he seems interested the next he won’t respond. I feel I’m to clingy and need to much of his attention. I love his attention. Now I’m trying to figure out should I move on again or be more patient this time around. He always on my mind. I really need new things to occupy my time.

    • HI T! Thank you for sharing your confusing situation with me. Yes as a Cancer with Gemini cusp, you are impatient and require lots of attention and security. This is pretty normal. Scorpio isn’t always the best at providing this. He will do this but only when he’s really and truly in love. Otherwise, he does do the hot and cold thing when he’s unsure of someone or isn’t yet ready to settle down. If you can remain on good terms with him, staying in contact, you can try keeping yourself busy so that you don’t want so much of his time. It also may help you to learn more about Scorpio man so that you can getter “get” where he’s coming from. Check out my book “Scorpio Man Secrets”.

  • Am so agree with you dear Anna .
    Let him know how you feel about him . How important he is to you . How lucky you are to have him . How happy you are with him , how respectable & loveable he is & how hard life is without him . Only talk from the tongue of your heart .
    But never beg for his love cuz valuable things never be given to beggars !!!

    • Hi Rosa! Indeed you must always let the Scorpio man know how you feel and also be honest about worries or concerns you may have. Hiding things from him serves no good. Though it’s hard when he isn’t 100% open, he does tend to begin opening up after he’s been with someone for quite awhile. Trust has to be earned with this guy and the best way to get it is through honesty. If you’d like to know more about the Scorpio man, you should read my book “Scorpio Man Secrets”.

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