Do Scorpio Men Cheat? All About Scorpio Man Cheating Signs

Do you constantly worry that your Scorpio man will cheat on you, even if the relationship is going well? Do you wonder whether it’s inevitable that even happy couples will end up cheating? Do Scorpio men cheat in the end?

One of the most popular and coveted signs of the zodiac has everyone at the edge of their seat when it comes to love. Falling for a Scorpio man sets you up for a path of ever-evolving mystery and shocking discovery.

These guys have intensely insatiable cravings and in order to understand if they are trustworthy and loyal, you’ll need to know what lies beneath. 

You must have heard this time and time again: Scorpio men are so loyal and loving, but you still have your suspicions. Could this guy be too good to be true? Why would a Scorpio man cheat on his wife?

Scorpio sign is the most famous astrological sign regarding some transformational and deep inner psychological processes, but can you trust him completely when it comes to love and commitment? Let’s find out.

Scorpio Man Cheating — Do Scorpio Men Cheat?

Scorpios are famous for their ability to make a drama if they belong to so-called “lower” types of this sign. Or, they are known as ruthless figures when it comes to creating the empire or crashing their enemies if you are dealing with the “higher” types.

If you are dealing with the “lower” type, you will know this by his constant self-destructive episodes, which create the energy of drama all around him.

This Scorpio man will be capable of the misuse of all sorts of chemical substances, from medications to illegal ones. Also, he will often involve himself in the battles already lost regarding his career, social circles, or family.

And this will be a surefire sign for you that one day he might even try to cheat on you, simply because he needs some variety in his dramatic repertoire.

The show must go on, you know that saying. So, if you want to keep the sanity of your mind, no matter how strong your feelings are for this person, try to pull back and think thoroughly about whether you really need to build your future with someone so unstable.

Are Scorpio Men Cheaters?

Will a Scorpio man cheat on his wife? Yes, he will. If open communication is lacking and trust is not being built at the desired level, the Scorpio man may look for appreciation elsewhere.

It takes two to save a marriage and to work together to maintain a strong relationship, so will is required from both ends. If he sees he is the one making an effort, a Scorpio man will engage in infidelity, unless he has left with a single shred of decency.

Categorically, Scorpio men tend to cheat but are not labeled as cheaters.

They are capable of making a mistake; after all, they are humans. If they see that they are not getting what they want from their partner, they will most likely cheat.

Why Would A Scorpio Man Cheat On His Wife?

The first thing you have to figure out is how serious your relationship is. Has he taken you to meet his family or hang out with his close friends? If he has, then he is serious, and you may not need to worry.

If he hasn’t included you in his “inner circle,” then he may not yet be serious enough about you, which means he could also possibly still have a wandering eye. That could lead to him seeing other women.

So it’s really important to know how serious things are between you. Typically, if he fully commits to you, he’ll remain loyal. If it hasn’t been discussed, you need to have that talk with him.

From the get-go, you need to make it clear that you aren’t into dating other people and want exclusivity with him. If you do not, he’ll assume it’s alright to see other women.

Remember, a Scorpio man won’t commit to anyone unless he’s in love and wants to have a future with you. That means that if he already has a commitment with a partner, having sex elsewhere doesn’t have the same meaning.

Clearly define where you are and where you are headed. Only when he completely commits to you will he remain faithful. Until then, there is always a chance he could wander.

If you’re struggling to find the right words to make him feel cherished and want to share his feelings with you, I strongly recommend checking out my 100 Magic Phrases for Scorpio Man. It will set you on the right path with your Scorpio!

How To Know If A Scorpio Man Is Cheating On You

Always watch your Scorpio man’s actions. Words are just words. He can tell you anything but if he doesn’t back it up with his actions; then you know who he truly is.

Will your Scorpio man cheat on you depends on many factors. You can also see that if he DOES line his actions up with what he says; then he is likely the type that will absolutely remain loyal to you. Give him a fair shake and watch how he acts after he says something.

If he comes up with excuses or you can tell he’s not being truthful; he likely also has a tendency to cheat. However, he seems to always come forward with the truth and shows you how much he cares; he is likely loyal.

This can be said about just about any other person on this earth. Cheating is something that is developed. Anyone who says they were born with the gene that causes them to cheat is full of themselves.

4 Clear Signs A Scorpio Man Is Cheating

There are definitely some surefire signs you should look out for if you’re involved with a Scorpio man, whether it’s long-distance or short-distance. The distance may only give him a better advantage because it’s harder to get caught.

You have to be quite aware and observant of all the things he does… You might think something is a sign and totally miss something else.

Well, the next segment of this article will give you the signs that you should pay attention to when it comes to things he may do that would indicate that your Scorpio guy is, in fact, cheating on you.

Lack Of Sex And Intimacy

While Scorpio men can be faithful; they also seem to need to get their “fix” on when it comes to sexual release/pleasure. If he isn’t getting that; it could cause him to look elsewhere.

He doesn’t mean to be unfaithful but when he’s unsatisfied; instead of leaving the woman, he’ll just step out and seek his sexual needs elsewhere. I’m not saying they are all this way though.

Each Scorpio man is different and each relationship is different. It’s going to really depend on how satisfied and happy he is within his relationship to you as to whether or not he may stray.

This man requires some intense sexual release. It doesn’t make it right that he would seek it somewhere else but it’s just part of his character that could make him a bit flawed.

He Keeps Looking At His Phone

If you catch him on his phone constantly and smiling, who is he talking to? Get him to show you. If he doesn’t, he’s hiding something or someone. These are all pretty big red flags.

Don’t fool yourself either, because a Scorpio man will still have sex with you even if he’s having sex with someone else at the same time. He doesn’t want you to suspect anything. He thinks he can fool you by still being intimate.

You’ll notice the difference in how the sex feels with him if he is cheating. He won’t be nearly as attentive; he’ll seem spaced out, or just not really as into it as he normally would be.

It is important for him to keep up appearances. This is especially true for the Scorpio men, who seem to have Gemini placements in their charts. It is a lot easier for them to be duplicitous and unfaithful.

Cheating for a Scorpio man is uncommon, but those who do participate in it usually have some other planets in Gemini, and this is what makes it so easy for them to lie.

He Keeps Avoiding You

If he comes home from work or from wherever and immediately hits the shower without giving you a hello kiss, something may be up. Unless he’s been doing outdoor stuff or something that’s made him very sweaty or stinky, something is wrong.

If he doesn’t share how his day was and is not interested in expanding his horizons with you like he usually doesn’t through meaningful conversations, then something is up.

He is feeling guilty, and this is why your Scorpio man is displaying cold behavior. He doesn’t want you to pick up on anything, and the less time he spends with you, the easier that is for him to do.

Negative feelings are very intense for a Scorpio man to feel, and he literally thrives confrontation. He is probably acting this way so that you will be the bad guy and end up breaking it off with him.

He Gaslights You When You Ask

Your Scorpio guy isn’t talking to you like he used to and you have no idea who he’s spending hours away from home with, so you mention your concerns to him… pay attention to how he responds. 

Scorpios are very good at manipulating, and part of that can be knowing how to turn words around and reframe situations to benefit them. They can be so good at it that you come out looking like the bad guy for having concerns! 

If he attempts to make you look bad rather than being forward about where he’s been, then you know that your original concerns were close to the truth. A Scorpio man can spin a situation to look like it was always you who was the crazy one. Don’t let him get away with this!

You may also want to read: Is Your Scorpio Man Using You? Surefire Signs He Just Wants To Be Friends

What To Do When A Scorpio Man Cheats On You

If you can say with assurance: ‘My Scorpio man cheated on me’, then, as a woman, you must decide if what he did was forgivable or not. Was he doing it just for sex because you weren’t giving him any? If so, then maybe you can work it out with him and see to it that he’s satisfied and won’t look again.

This will require him to admit what he did and for you to forgive him. Communication is a huge make-or-break factor for the two of you. If you two can talk it out and perhaps even try counseling, then there is still a chance.

You’ll have to keep him happy all the time, though, so that he doesn’t feel as though he needs to stray again. Is that something you can live with and work to aspire to? Is he really worth that effort?

If he cheated with someone he actually developed feelings for, it may mean he doesn’t respect or love you anymore like he once did, and he just hasn’t admitted it to you.

He may be in limbo, trying to figure out if he wants to actually stay with you or call it quits. You’ll need to decide whether to stay with him or ask him for another chance to work through it, but honestly, would you stay with him after he had an affair?

Whatever the scenario may be, what to do when Scorpio man cheats on you? You simply need to decide if you’re willing to forgive him. If you know you can’t, it may be time to let go. If you can, you need to put your foot down and tell him no more of that. Only time will tell if you can trust him again or not.

What Happens If You Cheat On A Scorpio Man

Scorpio man is led by intense emotions, this is the language he gets. If you’ve been asking yourself what happens if you cheat on a Scorpio man, well, he will never forgive you. He will shut you off completely. A Scorpio man is rarely unfaithful, but if you cheat on him, he will hardly forgive, or not at all.

If he finds out you have been unfaithful to him, without arguing, without shouting, no excuses, he will remove you from his life like a doctor who surgically removes bad tissue from the skin. He will heal on his own, but without you.

Let me clarify: He won’t take it lightly. If you are living together, he will most likely throw all your stuff out the window, silently. However, if you are cheating on him, you have to make sure he never finds out, otherwise things could blow out of proportion. So, be very careful, because the Scorpio man is not someone you want to mess around with.

You may also want to read: When A Scorpio Man Stops Talking To You Or Ignores Your Texts

How To Get Over Infidelity And Heal From Cheating

My first suggestion for you is that you make a decision about what you want. Decide whether or not you want to stay with him and work on forgiveness, or if you need to move on from a break up with your Scorpio man. 

Neither of these choices are easy, but they are both definitely necessary in your process of healing. If your Scorpio man does cheat on you, how do you forgive him? That’s going to rely on you and how much of your time you want to give to him. Was it a one-time deal or has he done it multiple times?

With some, if they’ve done it once, they’ll do it again. You know what they say: Once a cheater, always a cheater! If they think they can get away with it, they’ll do it as often as they like. My suggestion is, if you catch him, tell him and deal with it right away!

Even if you don’t have proof to present to him, tell him of his actions and tell him you’re done with it. If you need to, you can always seek out counseling or mediation to help you with your Scorpio guy.

Not all Scorpio men cheat nor do all of them that do it once, continue to do it. There is such a thing as a mistake and he could make one or have made one. If he truly still loves you though and wants to make it work, he’ll agree to whatever it takes.

Make sure he follows it and make him prove to you that he’ll never abandon you or betray you ever again. Naturally, you’ve learned the signs to look for through all of this so you won’t be fooled again.

Stop Crying Yourself To Sleep About Your Scorpio Man…

It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Scorpio man who won’t commit.

I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Scorpio guys.

I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her. She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.

As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that. But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him.

Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.

How could she just give up on that?

But it wasn’t easy.  It took a LOT of work.

She had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language.

And it worked!! 

So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Scorpio man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…

>> Go here now and learn to speak your Scorpio man’s love language.

Sending you love,

Your sister and relationship astrologer, 

Anna Kovach