Scorpio men are attracted to genuine, transparent and beautiful people. On rare occasions, you may find a superficial type of a Scorpio man, but know that this will probably result in a short term relationship good for only one thing.
Scorpio men don’t need a whole lot of coaxing, but there are a few things you can do to get a Scorpio man to like you:
1. Have Some Substance in Your Conversation
If you get a chance to hold a conversation with him, make sure to add some depth to it. Show off your world of knowledge and understanding without bragging.
Be willing to get into deep topics and allow him to show what he knows. Before you know it, this discussion could lead into the late night hours by a fireplace. He loves someone who is not only beautiful but has brains to match.
2. Show Your True Colors
Don’t hide stuff and don’t tell white lies. Even though they will come off somewhat secretive, they are still observing you. Eventually, they will share intimate information about their lives, but not in the beginning.
These guys will dig and pry when they find an inconsistency somewhere in your dialogue or in their observation of you. It’s always best to be forthcoming and open so that you can win his trust. You’ll be able to do the same with him as he will start to let his guard down.
3. Don’t Be So Serious All the Time
Show that you know how to have fun! Don’t be so cold and mysterious all the time. They hate that. If he had a choice between a moping wallflower girl and the life of the party girl at a friend’s house party, he’ll more than likely choose the life of the party.
He knows that he’ll have a good time with that type and he’ll feel comfortable with that person as opposed to the wallflower type. He doesn’t want to feel like he has to do a whole lot of work figuring you out at the beginning. So showing how fun you can be is a good thing.
4. Give Him Your Undivided Attention
One thing these guys want to possess is your TIME. They want to know that you have them on your mind and that you are focused on only them.
Because they are big on loyalty, this is very important especially if you are already dating. If you are not dating just yet and you’re trying to get his attention, drop little hints that he’s your focus right now. He’ll start to come around.
5. Let Him Slowly Reveal His Life to You
Don’t try to dig into life so soon. This is a big turn off though it may feel somewhat unfair because it will feel like he’s doing this very thing to you. Sometimes he’s just throwing out deep questions to see how you respond as opposed to wanting to know the actual answer.
As confusing as this may be, remember that he is emotional, sensitive and protective of his heart so they way you say things can affect positively or negatively. This man treasures his personal business and will not easily share everything with you. Piece by piece, new things will be revealed in time.
6. Have Goals
There’s nothing more attractive to a Scorpio guy than someone with ambition and realistic goals. Why? Because he has highly ambitious goals. They want to know that you have plans for your life, that you’re not simply sitting around waiting for someone to come and rescue you.
They are attracted to self-motivated types who share a passion in life. Once you’ve explained your goals, make sure that he can see this in action in your life.
What you say should always sync up with your reality. If it doesn’t he may call you out on it or worse, not. He may just disappear if he sees an inconsistency here as well.
7. Be Proactive
Don’t always sit back and wait for him to initiate. Speak your mind and express yourself. Express your wants, your interests, and your goals.
Be willing to approach him about different topics to start a conversation. Make plans together. If you are trying to get his attention from afar, a simple smile goes a long way.
See how he responds by letting him know that you find him attractive. Don’t be surprised if you leave with his number and an invitation to dinner!
8. Stay Well Groomed
In general, you’ll want to look your best, but when we’re talking about catching the attention of the Scorpio man you’ll definitely want to dress to impress.
Tons of make-up won’t do. A natural beauty who knows how to dress well for her shape, wearing colors that are complimenting instead of taking away from you will grab his attention.
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,