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First Date with a Scorpio Man: Do’s And Don’ts

If you’re really interested and turned on by a Scorpio man but wonder what you can do to make sure your first date will go well, you’re in luck! I have some amazing information to share!

It would definitely help you to keep reading and find out exactly what should be done and what to avoid when it comes to dating a Scorpio man. Here are things to keep in mind:

How To Date A Scorpio Man

There are a few things to know before going on a first date with a Scorpio man. There is this misconception going on for too long when it comes to Scorpios. In the ancient Greek mythical story about the Persephone and the god of the underworld Hades.

Persephone was kidnapped all of a sudden and taken straight into Hades’ dark kingdom. And then many other things started to happen.

And although this myth is the essence of the Scorpio’s way of doing things, don’t be so afraid, because, in reality, things look a bit different. Scorpio is all about passion, focus, and determination with the zest of darkness and a lot of sexuality.

However, he won’t show you all of these traits in the beginning, at least not on your first date.

He will watch you instead.

This now sounds a lot scarier, doesn’t it?

If you are ready and willing to go on a first date with a Scorpio man and have a loving relationship, then you have to know the basic rules of his heart and soul. He is afraid because deep down inside each Scorpio feels lonely and desperate to find someone he can trust.

The issue of “trust” is incredibly important for him. On the other side, he won’t settle with just anyone who can be loyal to him. He needs to find his queen.

Going on a first date with a Scorpio man should look like a friendly conversation. Because he will let you do most of the talking while he will sit and feel the magic of your eyes, gestures and many times, he won’t even listen to your words.

He will feel it like music.

During this first date with a Scorpio man will decide are you good enough, in a sense are you good enough to be trusted. And also, are sexy enough for him.

Here are some do’s and don’ts rules to make everything easier for you:

Let Him Lead the Game

When you go on a first date with a Scorpio man, let him choose the place for your first date because he has to feel like he is the protector and provider. However, teach him the first and primary lesson before. He has to “reserve” you at least three days in advance, and he has to appear on time.

Law and Order, Self-Assurance

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To be able to respect you, and this is a significant thing for a Scorpio guy, you must show yourself as a punctual and organized lady with lots of other interests in your life. 

If you are sitting the whole day waiting for any guy to pick you at any time, then you are not the “one” in the eyes of any Scorpio. And you can be used just for fun.

So be very careful and don’t settle for any other ideas he might have. If he is genuinely seeking a special woman in his life, he won’t give up on you just because you don’t want to deal with unorganized guys.

Instead, he will respect you more for that. The truth far outweighs a woman who is willing to be a doormat. He wants a woman he can respect. Show him who you are!

First Date With Scorpio Man, Dress Like a Lady

Yes, you have to be sexy, but this doesn’t mean trashy, except in the case you are interested just in a one-night stand. 

High heels, flattering skirt and a cute top or a classy dress will do the magic, but your outside will be judged more by the way you are walking, standing straight and having soft and feminine gestures.

Just remember, any clothes look gorgeous on a lady with healthy self-esteem, so behave like one, and he will be amazed right from the start.

Here are more things to keep in mind:

Put on Makeup

Not too much, but do it. Men, in general, don’t like too much paint on female’s faces. But Scorpios just love to look at your eyes and lips. So, accentuate them a bit more and take care that your eyeshades, eyeliner, and lipstick stay on the proper places.

There’s nothing more annoying for a Scorpio guy than to look at the woman with the “dirty” face.

Manners, Girl! Be A Lady!

Don’t forget to behave like a lady if you want to be his goddess. Treat all the people you meet along the way with respect and kindness. He is Scorpio, and he will be watching you all the time.

Scorpio man isn’t the type of guy that likes a woman who is rude, loud, or obnoxious. When you’re sweet, generous, and understanding, he’ll be far more turned on by you.

Let him open doors for you, order for you, and basically let him feel like a man when possible. Don’t talk trash about people or gossip when you’re with him. Talk about productive and optimistic things instead.

In fact, it’s a good thing to open up a conversation about hopes and dreams you both have. That allows you two to get to know each other in a very healthy way.

Have Self-Respect While Dating Scorpio Man

And most importantly, talk about your dreams and goals. Scorpio man wants a lady with a sharp mind, someone he can respect and admire.

However, be aware that he will try to test you a few times on the first date, so don’t pretend like you are approving some things which you don’t like.

Depending on his character, some Scorpio men might try to be insulting, while others will try to tease you and make jokes. 

This is a slippery ground for you because in those moments you will have to show what is not fun for you and with what types of tricks you won’t cope at all.

Don’t let him fun over you. If you feel he’s being mean or crass then tell him as much. He needs to know you’re not going to put up with it. Ironically this should turn him on.

He much prefers a woman to put him in his place than a woman who is too timid to correct him. You can also tease him if he teases you. He might actually like it.

first date with a Scorpio man

Tell Jokes On The First Date with Scorpio Man

If you made him laugh at one point, then you can consider that you have done a great thing. From that moment he will open toward you, and if he starts to talk, now you will have to focus and listen.

Being a good listener will be your plus in his eyes. This is generally the green light that you have passed all of his tests, and he is ready and willing to take this relationship up to the next level.

There is nothing like a woman who is witty and very funny. What man doesn’t appreciate this? Surely Scorpio man will. This is a really great to date a Scorpio man.

If you don’t know any good jokes then perhaps you can talk about a comedy show, movie, or skit you watched lately that he should take a look at. He will appreciate your enjoyment in humor.

Conclusion on How To Date a Scorpio Man

Remember to respect yourself ladies! No, no, no! Don’t go to bed with him on the first date if you want this to last. 

After the year is over be ready for a short kiss, but only if he makes the first move and leave him wanting you more.

And don’t text or call him after, because this is the crucially important phase for him. 

He will call or text you tomorrow or in the next few days. And if he does, then you should know that he is planning something more devoted and more profound with you.

When Scorpio man indeed falls in love, this love can transform you, heal you and uplift you. So, show him how much you appreciate him in your life, and you will be his queen forever.

Speaking of appreciation, did you know that drop dead gorgeous actor Ryan Reynolds is a Scorpio man? Hot! Hot! Hot!

Have you ever been on a first date with a Scorpio man? What was it like? Tell me all about it!

Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (don’t worry, it’s anonymous).

Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and astrologer,

Anna Kovach



    • Hi Morgan! I’m glad you asked this question. The difference is that when you first meet up in person, you still essentially meeting for the first time even if you’ve talked for a long time long distance. Talking over the phone or via social media only allows you to know so much but chemistry is something that has to be figured out in person. So when you do finally meet in person, you figure out whether or not you are physically attracted to each other via holding hands or kissing. Making out is a great way to figure out if you’re going to be compatible totally or not. The no sex thing is just to make sure that it’s not all he’s going to want for the long term. It helps prevent “friends with benefits” aspects. You may want to read more on the Scorpio man before you do anything.

  • I had the opportunity to go on the first date with the a Scorpio man. He was a gentle. We shared some laughs and talked a lot. I also experience him looking into my eyes. However, I did text him to make certain he made it home because he had a longer distance to travel than I did. He texted back right away. However, he has been texting me everyday. He has not initiated a conversation by phone since our first date. Its been a week. What should I think. He replies to text right away but I am confused. Can you explain what could be going on? Should I continue…?

    • Hi Sharon!

      If he has something going on in his life then he may be less responsive or initiate less. If he does text you back then he’s not out of this yet. It’s alright for you to initiate or call him first. Show him you want to be with him and that you’re there for him. Tell him if he wants to talk about anything going on that he can talk to you. He’ll appreciate you for doing that for him. Don’t give up until he gets too cold for you to handle.

  • In December 2019, I dated a scorpio German guy twice. He was a gentleman, didn’t let me pay anything and was very funny and sarcastic. The next day he had to go to Mexico but gave me his phone number to keep in touch and we have been chatting everyday since then. Sometimes he used to disappear for two days but after reading all your info about his sign, I started acting different and now I’m the one who stops texting and he texts me instead.
    To be honest, I don’t know if I’m in a LDR with him, eventhough he has told me he wants to come back pretty soon. How do you know that from a scorpio?

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