What A Scorpio Man Wants In A Relationship

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Transformation, rebirth, and discovery are the top three influences of this Zodiac sign’s life. Here is what Scorpio man wants in a relationship.

The extreme and intense energy of the sign of Scorpio has specific needs and wants in a relationship. So today we’ll talk about what a Scorpio man wants in a relationship.

To get to the heart of the Scorpio, understanding what makes them feel passionate and happy with their partner is essential to the strength of the relationship.

What does a Scorpio man need in a relationship? Transformation, rebirth, and discovery are the top three influences on this water Zodiac sign.

Take a moment to consider how these play key roles in the needs and wants of a Scorpio in a relationship.

What Is A Scorpio Man In A Relationship Like?

In the relationship, a Scorpio man is a passionate lover, and as such, he treats his woman with passion and intensity by engaging in a deep emotional connection with her.

A Scorpio man is honest and highly sensitive when trust is not returned. He will treat you with trust as long as you reciprocate, so note that he won’t settle for a woman who is less than truthful.

At times, a Scorpio man becomes jealous, but this is because he suspects a woman is not fully committed to the relationship. In other words, if you are committed to him fully and completely, he will treat you as his queen.

5 Things A Scorpio Man Wants In A Relationship


If you are wondering what a Scorpio man wants in a relationship, the answer is that he wants to evolve in his life as a man. He wishes the same thing to happen in his relationships—to build a strong foundation.

Generally speaking, these guys expect change, and they would like to know that you will successfully go through it with them. He wants a partner who is just as sensitive as he is to making any necessary adjustments as time goes on.

Scorpio men love to learn, and they consistently take the time to educate themselves in different ways. If you can do the same, he will have a partner in crime, and there is nothing that would make him happier than having someone by his side with the same desires.

Starting Over

This sign has this insatiable desire to have a fresh start over and over again. As bizarre as it may sound, they need to go through this regularly. It can be compared to shedding old skin or going through a cleansing. You’ll see this in a relationship with him.

They will say things like, “Let’s just start over” or “Let’s start fresh.” It makes them feel better to push this reset button because it makes them feel like they are in control of their environment and emotions.

A Scorpio man in a relationship needs to let go of the past. Moving forward is very important to him. He can tend to hold a grudge if he isn’t careful. He needs motivation to let go and move forward.

All old negative energy must be put to rest immediately for the Scorpio. Should you run into an argument or somehow touch his dark side, if he cares about the relationship, he will hit the reset button.

Deep Connection

A Scorpio man wants a woman with introspection. He desires to know everything about you. He wants to learn what makes you tick, what makes you passionate, and what makes you who you are in your life.

Even though your Scorpio man can be cold and distant at times, he is passionate about learning everything there is to learn about loving you.

Interestingly, they need you to relax and simply enjoy the time spent with you. They are eager to explore your mind, body, and soul in so many different ways. They will take their time with this, so be patient.

Sitting back and casually discussing important topics in your life will help him open up about his. The more you two talk and get to know one another, the more invested he will be.

Appealing Appearance

There are many areas in life where this guy is looking to enhance something. One major area is his temple—his body. Diet, fitness, grooming—all of these are important to a Scorpio man, as he needs to make sure that he maintains his youthful image and physique.

A Scorpio adores the fantastic smell, which is part of your scent. He wants you to look and smell your best when you are around him.


Scorpio man is always trying to dive into new topics instead of staying stuck in the “norm”. He looks for more exciting things to learn and better his life with.

These guys need to consistently explore the unknown. To play a part in their world, they would want you to have the same curiosity. He has a different way of thinking and communicating.

They would want to be a detective or scholar, as they are so that you can both have juicy, new, interesting topics to enjoy and discuss. Be as mysterious as you can so that he has a mystery to unravel.

This side of them is often underrepresented because they can be extremely mysterious. These guys dive deep, uncovering all sorts of unknown facts and random bits of information.

You need to be a woman who is interested in mystic things, conspiracy theories, and secrets and likes to talk about them, discover things, do research, and have meaningful conversations. A Scorpio man is all after a curious mind.

3 Crucial Things Every Scorpio Man Needs In A Relationship


The Scorpio man wants to know if he can trust you and if he feels secure next to you. He wants to know that you’re going to stick with him no matter what. This can take time, of course, but isn’t it worth it?

A Scorpio man likes innocence and purity. He needs someone who can help him calm himself when he becomes overly emotional. A Scorpio man is highly attracted to someone with a soft touch who knows how to carefully handle his fragile ego and heart. Loyalty is what he is after.

Whether he’s in a bad mood or in a great mood, showing him that you’ll be there will prove to him that you’re someone on whom he can rely for the long term.


Being in the same place at the same time and dealing honestly with how you feel and who you really are is what every Scorpio man wants. This is pure intimacy.

Scorpio needs physical and emotional intimacy in a relationship. He enjoys cuddling, and naturally, a Scorpio man enjoys sex, but it has to be more than sex. He wants a woman who is magical, sensible, charming, but most of all, enigmatic.

So in order to keep a Scorpio man on his toes, you have to remain mysterious to him on a certain level. Sexuality plays an important role here. You need to be sensible and sexual and carry your sexuality in a very subtle way.


The relationships he forms are intense but have an instant attraction. Women may perceive him as a very attractive man, which resonates with fatal attraction, seduction, and dark sexual desires.

A Scorpio man can easily become possessive and jealous because feelings are hard to control and he desperately needs to be in control. He needs to be in control because if there’s chaos in a situation, Scorpio will stay away from it at all costs.

The nature of Scorpio’s relationships is deep and also resonates with the issue of control because Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, so he likes to be in the lead. He wants control and, at times, can demonstrate his ego struggles.

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Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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