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3 Things (Almost) Every Scorpio Man Wants In A Relationship

The extreme and intense energy of the sign of Scorpio has specific needs and wants in a relationship. So today we’ll talk about things every Scorpio man wants from a relationship.

To get to the heart of the Scorpio, understanding what makes them feel passionate and happy with their partner is essential to the strength of the relationship.

Transformation, rebirth, and discovery are the top three influences of this Zodiac sign’s life. Take a moment to consider how these play key roles in the needs and wants of a Scorpio in a relationship.

1. Transformation With Scorpio Man Relationships

Everyone goes through stages in life. While we all understand and respect this inevitability, this sign is the most sensitive to this natural life occurrence.

Change comes as a wave of a tsunami for these people. They hop on it with a surfboard and ride it all the way out. They aren’t afraid to take life by the horns and live it out!

They Want to Evolve in their lives and as a man. They will want the same thing to happen in their relationships. They want things to build and become strong. Scorpio man desires change and growth.

These guys expect change and they want to know that you will successfully go through them with him

He wants a partner who is just as sensitive as he is to making any necessary adjustments as time goes on.

They love to learn and they consistently take the time to educate themselves in different ways. If you can do the same, he will have a partner in crime and there is nothing that would make him happier than having someone by his side with the same desires.

They Want to Improve, Scorpio man wants to be his very best but to do that, he needs to always keep learning. Evolving into a better man is his goal.

There are many areas in life where this guy is looking to enhance something. One major area is his temple – his body.

Diet, fitness, grooming…all of these are important to him as he wants to make sure that he maintains his youthful image and physique. He’s one of those men that wear cologne or aftershave.

He smells fantastic much of the time which is part of his lure. Scorpio man wants to look and smell his best when he’s around other people and especially around the lady of his life.

They are always looking for the fountain of youth. Another way they do this is by having fun. They look for ways to improve the joy in their life. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself on a new random adventure with a Scorpio.

Scorpio Wants to Succeed. He knows he has to be better today than he was yesterday. He lives by this principal.

In order to succeed in life, one must constantly grow and evolve. They embrace this process because they know it will help them reach their goals. The right woman for him will also be driven.

These guys are extremely goal-driven. They want to go above and beyond their own goals and dreams and to do this they get extremely invested in their careers. 

Someone who understands this desire and supports his dreams will gain favor in his heart. Trust me when I say he will do the same for you. He’s optimistic and burns for success!

2. Rebirth And New Beginnings

A Scorpio guy carrying a girl on his back - what scorpio man wants in a relationship

They Want to Start Over if things have gone awry. What do Scorpio men want in a relationship? He wants for things to always be new and lively with zeal.

This sign has this insatiable desire to have a fresh start – over and over again. As bizarre as it may sound, they need to go through this regularly. It can be compared to shedding old skin or going through a cleansing. You’ll see this in a relationship with them.

They will say things like, “Let’s just start over,” or “Let’s start fresh.” It makes them feel better to push this reset button because it makes them feel like they are in control of their environment and emotions.

Scorpio man also wants the past to be let go of. Moving forward is very important to him. He can tend to hold a grudge if he isn’t careful. He needs motivation to let go and move forward.

All old negative energy must be put rest immediately for the Scorpio. Should you run into an argument or somehow touch his dark side- if he cares about the relationship, he will hit the reset button.

He will want to throw that day out with yesterday’s trash and he’ll want to get a clean start with you. While he’ll actively make changes to keep the energy positive, he takes mental notes for a preventative measure.

You might actually find out that your Scorpio man loves to meditate and do things like yoga. It’s a way of finding inner peace and for letting go of what no longer works. Perhaps you can give it a try!

3. Discovery Of Self And With Relationships

Young couple in love have fun - what scorpio man wants in a relationship

Your Scorpio wants to know everything about you. He wants to learn what makes you tick, what makes you passionate, and what makes you who you are in your life.

Even though he can be cold and distant at times, he is passionate about learning everything there is to learn about loving you.

Interestingly, they need for you to relax and simply enjoy your time spent with him. They want to explore your mind, body, and soul in so many different ways. They will take their time with this, so be patient.

Scorpio man is always trying to dive into new topics instead of staying stuck in the “norm”. He looks for more exciting things to learn and better his life with.

These guys need to consistently explore the unknown. To play a part in their world they would want for you to have the same curiosity.

They would want to be a detective or scholar as they are so that you can both have juicy, new, interesting topics to enjoy and discuss. Be as mysterious as you can so that he has a mystery to unravel.

This side of them is often underrepresented because they can be extremely mysterious. These guys dive deep, uncovering all sorts of unknown facts and random bits of information.

Sitting back and casually discussing important topics of your life will help him to open up about his. The more you two talk and get to know one another, the more invested he will be.

Signs A Scorpio Man Wants A Relationship With You

There are a few things you should look at if you’re trying to determine if a sexy Scorpio guy wants a relationship with you. He is flirty but there is more!

In fact, you should keep your eyes and ears open. Here are some definitive ways he will show you that he wants a relationship:

  • He observes you
  • He asks you lots of questions
  • Scorpio man will listen to everything you say
  • He may keep in contact frequently
  • Compliments and going out are his way of showing you he likes you
  • Gives you suggestions of how you can improve yourself or your life
  • He becomes protective or jealous when other men are around

These are just some of the signs that will reveal to you that a Scorpio guy wants to be more than friends with you. Be sure you react in kind so that he knows you want him too.

Be very clear with your intention. Let him really get to know you and most importantly, don’t ever try to rush him. Taking your time is healthy for the both of you.

Conclusion to What A Scorpio Man Wants In A Relationship

There’s nothing more enticing and sexy than someone who acts as if they’ve discovered gold by encountering a Scorpio. They want to feel special as if they’re a diamond that has been uncovered by you. This makes things exciting for them.

Every sign has a specific hot button and for these guys, theirs is pushed when you treat them like a gem. When you verbalize that you feel honored to have met him or you cherish his presence in his life, he feels wanted.

Speaking of enticing, did you know that spicy actor Dylan McDermott is a Scorpio man? Sure explains a lot doesn’t it?  Boy he sure is an irresistible guy that would be hard to walk away from.

Click here to learn more on how to decipher a Scorpio man and other interesting stuff!!

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



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