This coupling is one of the least favorable matches in the zodiac although when they first meet, they may think they’ve met the love of their life.
The initial bond between Scorpio man and Aries woman can be a scorching hot sexual conflagration and a very wild and unpredictable ride, but ultimately Scorpio’s emotional demands will pour water on the adventure in which Aries needs to be the hero and chief protagonist.
Scorpio Man and Aries Woman Chemistry
Before Pluto was discovered and assigned as Scorpio’s ruling planet, both of these signs were governed by Mars – the planet of physical passion, war, and action. This means you can expect a grand and destructive battle of wills between water sign Scorpio and fire sign Aries with no clear winner or loser in sight.
If you are already in bed with a Scorpio man, no astrologer would be surprised to learn that one or both of you are married or cheating on another relationship, as any bond between Scorpio and Aries is likely to be tinged with secrecy and deception. Even if that is not the case, proceed with caution and be prepared to be surprised.
Despite the difficulties you face in making a long term relationship out of the sense of challenge you inspire in each other, this match promises to have all the qualities of a memorable, life-changing and momentous affair that will shake up your ideas about love, life and yourself.
The Aries Woman
Fire sign Aries needs a lot of space and freedom to flourish and their sociable and flirtatious nature along with their need to feel free will enrage the passions of an intensely possessive and irrationally jealous Scorpio man.
Although your own freedom is something you will fight to the death for, you are not as generous when it comes to your lovers, whom you expect to be both faithful and completely centered on you. Always on a mission, you need a good enemy in your path to truly feel alive. You love a challenge and you are always ready to pitch headfirst into an emergency.
Your bravery and impulsive energy can get a bit fanatical, and you often forget to save yourself first, which makes your courage more of a liability than an asset. In love, you can be a bit of a narcissist, with an insatiable need to control and a great love of creating drama and conflict, especially where none exists.
The Scorpio Man
The powerful magnetism of a Scorpio man is often undermined by suspicion, jealousy, and insecurity, which can spill into every area of this driven and very ambitious man’s life.
Scorpio men are the great lovers of the Zodiac who love as deeply as they feel hurt, and Scorpios are very quick to feel scorned and very quick to anger when they feel betrayed.
A Scorpio man will never stay happy in a stable committed relationship because he needs to create and nurture a certain amount of drama and conflict to make it feel real.
If you have super-human patience and are able to get him to lighten up, he makes a wonderful lover for life, and since he is highly sexed and very imaginative in bed, you can expect that side of things to always keep you on your toes.
What Works in Your Relationship
The initial sexual attraction between Scorpio and Aries will feel fated and very strong. Luckily Aries has both the appetite and energy to experiment and explore the depths of Scorpios endless desires.
Scorpio can help Aries feel more grounded and be less impulsive, and Aries is loyal enough to keep Scorpio questioning if the intense jealousy he feels is real or worth acting on. Although romance could be troubled for you two if you team up to work together, your shared ambitions will make you an unstoppable team.
What to Watch For
Both Scorpio man and Aries woman are selfish and stubborn and you both tend to operate with one set of rules for yourself and another (more strict and punishing) set for the rest of humanity.
Fights between you will be protracted, senseless and destructive as you both want to dominate and control and neither of you likes to admit your faults or compromise.
Neither of you likes a partner you can control, so even if you win, you ultimately lose. Unless you really enjoy the make-up sex that follows every drawn-out argument, you may want to get out while you still can.
This is one of the hottest pairings there is and it also one of the most doomed. Both Scorpio and Aries are strong and very passionate people who want to live life intensely and experience the highs and lows of love directly, and because you both seek the upper hand, fights between you will be ferocious and could leave you both hurt and confused.
If you find ways to handle the conflict that will arise like clockwork, you could make a go of it for life, but you will need to have something besides lust to hold your love together.
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