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3 Main Reasons Why A Scorpio Man Ignores You after an Argument

Would you like to know why a Scorpio man ignores you when he’s upset or angry with you? Did you get into an argument and he decides to ghost you or go cold? Why would a Scorpio man ignore you at all? Keep reading for reasons he may be chilly toward you:

1. He’s Really Angry And Needs To Calm Down

This can happen with any sign but it’s possible that your hot-headed Scorpio man is really angry with you for something that was said in the argument or whatever it was that led to the argument.

If he is really angry then clearly the Scorpio man ignores you because he has to calm down first and foremost. He knows that if he doesn’t that he might say something he doesn’t mean or he may be a little too honest.

Whatever the case may be, if he’s angry, it’s best to give him some time and space to think about things and try to get his head together. He has to decide if he wants to work through it or if he thinks it’s a deal breaker.

Scorpio men are short-fused and can become enraged by certain things. If it involved jealousy, betrayal, or something personal to his heart then he will need time to recover and gather his thoughts.

It may be hard for you to not hear from him for a bit but then again, it’s probably better than suffering his wrath by poking a bear with a stick. Remember that Scorpio has a stinger and they’re not afraid to use it.

It’s better for you to back away, give him some breathing room, and let him think things over no matter how much it may feel like torture to you. He may go totally silent while he does this.

This would mean he won’t talk to you, he won’t text, he won’t respond to your texts or emails and possibly won’t answer your calls either. This is all very normal and as long as you back off, you may find greater success.

2. He’s Hurt and Wounded

Why Does a Scorpio Man Ignores You after an Argument

If the two of you said really hurtful things then he may actually feel as though he’s a bit scared and needs time to think about if this relationship is what he wants and if the fight was even worth it.

It doesn’t matter if he started it or if you did. He will feel as though you wounded him and that person feeling makes him wonder about the relationship as a whole and if he wants to keep it going.

Sadly, Scorpio men sometimes want to run when they’re confronted or hurt so him going silent with you is something that is par for the course. He has to really weigh the pros and cons of being with you.

Keep in mind that even if it wasn’t your fault, he still perceives it the way he perceives it. He will want time to himself to sort things out in his head, mull it over, and hash it out with his own emotions.

Scorpio doesn’t react well to high powered emotional situations. A Scorpio man ignores you fully when he’s truly hurt. He will think you are attacking him no matter what you say. Even if you have the best of intention, he will see it as an ambush.

You perhaps didn’t even start an argument but simply suggested to him how he could improve on something and he takes it as an insult, therefore, he jabs you back saying something really unpleasant.

The Scorpio is a scrapper and so he will fight for himself and what he feels is right even if there wasn’t any malice intent. He’s a reactor and he will react first before thinking it over.

Many times after he takes some time to think, he will actually come back around, apologize if he messed up or will want to talk to you about what happened. If he really loves you, he won’t end it that quickly.

3. He Has A Hard Time Processing His Emotions

I mentioned before that he’s a hot head and tends to react before he thinks. When there is an argument involved, he will be really ticked off or hurt without truly understanding what happened.

Once he actually sits and thinks about everything that was said, he may have more questions for you but it’s best you give him a little time first. When he reaches out to you, he’ll be ready to talk.

Do not push him whatever you do! If you try to get him to talk before he is ready, he re-ignites and the brawling may begin all over again which could lead to a breakup on his part.

Be very careful how you handle the intense Scorpio man. Let him cool down and think it all over. If he wants to stay with you and work it out, you’ll hear from him with questions or perhaps apologies depending on the argument.

Also…

Scorpio men’s feelings run very high.  It doesn’t make him a bad guy but it does make him hard to deal with sometimes. It’s important to respect his feelings and who he is.

If you can stay calm and tell him that things need to come down a notch when he’s visibly getting upset, it will remind him that speaking out of emotion isn’t the best way.

When he feels he can talk to you without things getting escalated, he will surely communicate more often and without getting upset. He requires respect and stability.

This is another reason why he works so well with Earth signs or fellow Water signs. He’s a special breed that needs a certain type of woman to handle him without causing further emotional damage.

Conclusion

Just remember, if you had an argument with your Scorpio guy and he’s gone quiet, it’s necessary for him to put all the pieces together in his mind, cool down, and figure out what he wants to do next. Hang in there!

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



21 thoughts on “3 Main Reasons Why A Scorpio Man Ignores You after an Argument

  1. My Scorpio Ghosted me for hours, days, weeks and months at a time. He broke my heart to smithereens ….I gave up on him.

    1. Hi Aqua! I’m so sorry to hear that you experienced this heart break. Not all Scorpio men are the same so I hope your heart doesn’t harden to the sign. They all have their own quirks and endearments based on what is in their birth chart. Sun sign is only a very basic. My wish for you is that true love comes and sweeps you off your feet!

  2. My Scorpio guy ghosted me, then bad mouthed me to everyone and also went back to his ex-wife and then had sex with her at my friends house after he had sex with me that morning after ghosting me. Now he won’t respond to anything I write because his ex-wife doesn’t want him talking to me. He been talking to her throughout our entire relationship and before we got into a relationship and we were just friends. I want him back and he won’t even talk to me!!!!

  3. My Sagittarius temper and jealousy got the best of me and I lashed out telling him, ‘for reference, if you know a girl likes you don’t treat her like other girls on your list’. Yep, that sent him away. I apologised to him the next day but he hasn’t responded at all. We’ve been talking for 4 months…this is probably the first bump we’ve hit.

    1. Hi Melly!

      Ouch! Actually Sagittarius does have a quick fuse but they also get over things very quickly. The person we lash out at doesn’t always recover as quickly. Scorpio man will need a little time to work past his feelings about what happened. Give him another week or two then reach out to him again saying you miss him and you promise to never let your temper get the best of you again. He needs to know you won’t repeat it. If you want to know more about Scorpio men though, you might want to check out my books on Scorpio Man Secrets.

  4. my man just ghosted me. im virgo btw. i told him that I wasn’t good enough for him…my love is not enough. the next day I texted him…and told him that I felt the emptiness in my heart without him around. he didn’t reply until now… 🙁

    1. Hi riaz!

      Wait, if you told him that you’re not good enough for him then he may think you’ve got some issues. This would be especially true by texting him that you’re empty without him. I know that to some that sounds romantic but to others, this sounds scary. It sounds like a broken person who may very well hurt them. Getting him to talk to you, you’ve got to be more positive about yourself. Be confident and independent. That’s what a Scorpio man likes honey. Learn more about what Scorpio man is by reading my book “Scorpio Man Secrets”. It may help you move forward with him.

    1. Hi Sharon L Jamison!

      Then you should reach out to him again and tell him that you’ve apologized for your wrong doing. Remind him that you are human and make mistakes like everyone else. Tell him it’s only right you two talk it out and see where you can go from here. For more tips to get back in order with a Scorpio man, check out my books on Scorpio Man Secrets. Wishing you all the best!

  5. He totally ignores me after arguing about him asking me for sex online. And at my anger, I told him “If ever I wake up with smaller eyes I will definitely curse at you.”. After that, he never even read my message unlike before. So I told him “I’m sorry and Thank you.”.

    1. Hi Jasttine!

      I don’t think it’s wrong for you to ask for what you want or to tell him what you aren’t interested in. You have to have your own personal standards and if he cares for you, he needs to abide by that. Tell him that you want to talk to him but that you two need to learn how to better communicate with each other. Learn more about the way these men think. Check out my books on Scorpio Man Secrets.

  6. I”ve been in an on and off ,7 year, long distance relationship with my Scorpio man. He was finally moving back home to where we both met and where we are from.I was so excited, He asked me to come out and help him ( though he had two adult sons to help) but my job was under staffed and I was unable to come after telling him I would. He said OK, I’ll talk to ya later and hung up. That was the last thing I heard from him. He ghosted me. He kept me on his Facebook, but now other new woman are liking his post. I explained in a text why and apologized to not being there but never anything mean. I know that would only make him angrier. I love this man..and his family. He just shut me out. He is still in the process of moving across many states. I stopped trying to call and text and left him with a nice hope everything goes smooth and and you love your new job text. Do you think he will eventually reach out?

  7. Dear Anna ! I do have a scorpio boss with whom I argued recently. He thought i was disrespectful by telling him I was not satisfied of the way things were functioning (I said I was REALLY ‘annoyed’ with a higher one of voice to manifest my feeling). He instantly lashed out at me… Total blow out ending by ‘this conversation is over’. Few hours later I apologised by email although i did not really think i did or said anything wrong. I simply realised he was really ego-driven and i would never win this argument. In his reply he said he knew i was very committed to my job but i did go too far which explained why he had to react this way. He concluded by let s forget this and move on but I am not sure I can. I don’t trust him. He is si hard to read; I really feel he hates me and next time in case i would do what he sees as a mistake he would eventually fire me. I like him very much but obviously it is not a hared feeling… Still I don’t know what to do. Please help me.

  8. Dear Anna ! I do have a scorpio boss with whom I argued recently. He thought i was disrespectful by telling him I was not satisfied of the way things were functioning (I said I was REALLY ‘annoyed’ with a higher tone of voice to manifest my feeling). He instantly lashed out at me… Total blow out ending by ‘this conversation is over’. Few hours later I apologised by email although i did not really think i did or said anything wrong. I simply realised he was really ego-driven and i would never win this argument. In his reply he said he knew i was very committed to my job but i did go too far which explained why he had to react this way. He concluded by let s forget this and move on but I am not sure I can. I don’t trust him. He is si hard to read; I really feel he hates me and next time in case i would do what he sees as a mistake he would eventually fire me. I like him very much but obviously it is not a shared feeling… Still I don’t know what to do. Please help me.

    1. Hi Brianna!

      Scorpio men are quick fused. They get angry very quickly and sometimes over stupid small stuff. They are moody as well. With this guy in particular if his ego is that bad then you should really reconsider your relationship with him. If you cannot trust him then that is a BIG red flag telling you that you need to trust in your intuition. I doubt he hates you but he seems to lack respect. That’s on him. He needs to work on himself before he’s with anyone quite honestly. I think you should move on and let him go. There is someone out there who will treat you far better. I wish you the best!

      1. Thank you so much for this honest reply!
        Since our argument he actually has become much more respectful with me giving me exactly what I was asking for during the argument; confusing but this crisis seems to have turned into something positive. I am a taurus myself (I can become infuriated in an intense way).

  9. Sag women here and he’s Scorpio older guy. We have a good relationship other than when its about finances, he gets so angry. In the midst of the argument I may have said somethings to hurt too and asked him to take back his gifts he bought me. He was really hurt and said he’s done and moved out! 😪 I’m now sad, hurt and even tried calling/texting to apologize on my part yet he’s ignoring all communication. What to do???? I love this man

    1. Hi Ladye!

      A Sag/Scop relationship can be difficult at times. Scorpio gets jealous and Sagittarius doesn’t understand what they’re doing that makes them not trust them. Yes, Scorpio can get VERY heated when arguing. Sensitive to being called names or being called out isn’t something they take well. I’m sorry he moved out sweetheart. It may take him time to come back around. He has to work through it and heal otherwise he won’t be able to try again. Give him time and be patient! I wish you all the best!

  10. I told him that I didn’t feel like he was taking my feelings into account. He said that I didn’t have a right to feel that way, then I told him not to police my feelings and that he only cared when it was convenient for him. He told me to go f myself and hung up. We have been together for almost 3 years and this is the worst fight we have had. I haven’t heard from him in a day. We usually talk multiple times a day.

    1. Hi RB!

      He needs a reminder that you two are different people and just because he doesn’t think you should feel a type of way doesn’t mean that you won’t. If he’s hung up on you like this then you need to take a step back. Go silent for a bit and see what he does. He may need time to get himself together. He may be dealing with some pressure or stress you don’t know about and made him snap. Pull back and watch what he does. That will tell you if he’s still with you or if he’s pulling away from you. I wish you all the very best!

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