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What Do Scorpio Men Love To Hear?

Are you finding yourself interested in a scrumptious Scorpio man and wondering what types of things you can say to him to get his attention? You’re in luck! Here are some key things that Scorpio men love to hear.

Give Him Compliments

Scorpio men love to hear compliments on their appearance. He works hard to look as sultry as he does. He has a natural glow that he was born with but he’ll always till try to look his best. It shows!

Tell him how hot he looks, how beautiful his eyes are, or how enchanting his smile is. He’ll eat it right up. It will be very hard for him to resist compliments on this. You can even talk about his style or fashion.

Stroke his ego and often. It will put you in his “let’s keep her” list. It may even push you to the front of the line and win him over entirely. Give it a shot and see how it goes.

Every man likes to feel confident in who they are and of course, that’s helpful when you have a woman who is willing to boost that confidence up with and for you.

Talk about Your Dreams in Life

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One of the things that turn a Scorpio man on is you talking about what you want to achieve in life. Scorpio men love a woman who is ambitious and trying to forge forward toward success.

He’s all about getting after that sweet nectar of success himself so to hear you talk about yours will definitely get his attention. He loves intelligence and the willpower to achieve one’s goals.

When you do this; try not to talk about yourself too much because then he’ll start to feel as though it’s all about you and nothing about himself. Find a nice balance and then ask him questions.

He’ll be happy to share his own goals with you if you’re up for discussing them. This is the type of conversation that gets his motor running because it speaks to the deepest recess of his creativity.

Talk About Common Traits

When you’re getting to know the Scorpio man, ask him what he loves in life, ask him what turns him on, ask him what his favorites are, etc. You can share what yours are and point out the things you have in common.

It’s better if you point out commonalities than differences. When you point out differences, it brings the mood down and may make him think you’re not compatible enough.

Be careful and try to highlight the strengths of what could be between you with the things that you see eye to eye on. Talk about life values and integrity. You can talk about how you were raised as a child.

You can talk about what you ultimately want for the future and what you believe is best for it. If he doesn’t volunteer his own information; ask him what it is he wants and believes.

Talk About Your Adventures

This is another topic that you’ll want to approach but try not to overdo it. The idea is to let him know you’re independent and have adventures without the need of a man.

So talk about trips you’ve made with friends or alone. Talk about the things you really love to do as in hobbies, crafts, traveling or whatever it is that you really are into in life.

Every now and then stop and ask him questions. If you’ve been to Switzerland; ask him if he’s ever been or would ever want to go. See what I mean? You’re making it a two-way street while telling him how fun you are.

It’s also good to let him know that you are an individual that doesn’t NEED him. This will make him feel more confident about you and what type of relationship you can have.

He isn’t into clingy or needy women. The more you let him know that you’re not this way, it will help you get to him easier and help the two of you grow something solid for the future.

Talk About Your Friends & Family

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Scorpio men love to hear about family and is looking for a wife and future mother for his children. Family is important to him. When you talk about your own family and/or close friends; he will see who you really are with them.

Seeing how you feel about them and how close you are or maybe not, he’ll get to know you a bit more. I wouldn’t tell him everything though as if you do that he’ll get bored and feel he knows all he needs to.

Just like with the other topics, you’ll want to ask him questions after you’ve talked about your family. Ask him how many siblings he has, how he was raised, and how he wants to raise his kids when he has some.

Flirt With Him!

Aside from complimenting him, the Scorpio man wants to flirt. Go for it! If you can throw in a sexual innuendo in there, you’re golden. He is a very sexual man and he needs to know if you are a sexual person as well.

There is nothing more of a turn off than trying to get to know someone who is a bit of a prude. He’d rather put a fork in his eyeball than be with someone who isn’t into sex.

You don’t need to go overboard with it. Just light flirtation will do the trick. Just letting him know you’re into him and are very much drawn to him will allow him to open up with you.


I hope that this article helps you achieve greatness and success with your Scorpio man.

If you still feel like you maybe need some more understanding, click here to find out pertinent information about the Scorpio man.  Figuring him out can help you achieve the best results.

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

19 thoughts on “What Do Scorpio Men Love To Hear?

  1. I’ve been interested in this guy who’s a Scorpio for about over two years I told him how I felt and he was like why didn’t you say something sooner!! I’ve haven’t repond cause I don’t know how to answer it..

    1. Hi Passionate! It shouldn’t be that hard though. If you told him and he asked why you didn’t say something sooner, it may because he’s liked you this whole time. Then again it could also be that he got involved with someone else in the time that you liked him. There is no harm in just telling him that you were thinking that he was out of your league and that maybe you wouldn’t be receptive so you waited. Now you figured you would go ahead and tell him to see what happens. Good luck sweetheart!

  2. Very good points. The shared values point is key! And loved the tip on needy… I don’t like that either.
    Question:Why can’t we save this article to pinterest? I keep trying but it wont let me.

    1. Hi River! I’m glad you enjoyed my tips. I try my best to help as many women as I can. Scorpio men can be difficult at times but they’re also extremely passionate and can make for an incredible life partner to the right person. As far as your other question, I’m not savvy with pinterest. Sorry.

  3. I have been seeing a Scorpio man on and off for 5 years. He just cannot commit. When I get fed up with his on and off relationship, I stop talking and seeing him. He goes silent for a month or more, then texts or calls and just wants to check in. We try getting together again and 2 weeks later he disappears or ignores me again. It is a vicious cycle. He tells me he loves me in many special ways….whatever that means. It drives me crazy because I fell in love with him. I can’t deal with the disappointments over and over again and if I try to talk to him about it, he turns it on me and saids i blew him off which is not true. I haven’t seen him in 8 mo but he still calls and sends a text always on a Sat or Fri evening. I haven’t responded. What do I say to him? I still care but I don’t want him to take advantage of me. Please give me some advise what I should say to him.

    1. HI Anne Marie! If your Scorpio man cannot commit then that’s one of those things you have to either accept or let go of him. Which feels like the best option for you sweetheart? Trust your intuition. If you haven’t seen him in 8 months then he’s not really committed to you like you are to him and you should probably just tell him he needs to step it up or you’re moving on. Don’t threaten though. You have to follow through if he doesn’t step up. Do what is best for you and your life honey!

  4. I met this Scorpio guy last year December, he asked me out for about two weeks then I finally gave in.he was so nice and lovely,he wanted to see me all the time,visit me at home and work.even asked to married me but I refuse and asked him to give me a year to think since we just met.but ever since he traveled back,everything changed, when ever I called he don’t pick. he mostly call me but never replied to my text.I don’t feel the love any more and when he call,we don’t have anything to discuss about, everything is boring. Please help me out I love this guy

    1. Hi Santy! He sounds like one of those types of guys that prefers calls instead of texting. There is nothing really wrong with that but it may be less convenient to you. If you aren’t feeling any love when you talk to him though, then it may be time to let go and move on. That’s especially true if it’s boring. Scorpio man isn’t typically boring unless he’s not giving his best. Tell him how you feel and then ask him how he feels about it and what he wants. Maybe you two can salvage it. If not then you’ll have to consider moving on.

  5. Hey Anna I’m interested in a scorpio guy actually he’s really weird i really like him we’ve been talking for 2 weeks now the first week he was passionate always starting conversations now the second week he never starts i started but then I feel like there’s nothing to say how should I deal with him why doesn’t he start I’m a Capricorn and i hate to start conversation and what should I say to him once we’re talking to make the conversation interesting

  6. Hey Anna thanks for the scorpio tips it as been of help,my sis is now enjoying her relationship with her scorpio boyfriend. But her bf ( scorpio)is kind of afraid to get married because of my sis (Libra) stubbornness.

  7. I have been dealing with a Scorpio man for 8 months now. He approached me. He flirts like crazy… He is in constant contact with me 14 – 16 hours a day 7 days a week for 8 months now. We talk about everything and have a wonderful friendship. He is relentless in the flirting. I have never had a man pay so much attention to me… But only in texting, video calls, and phone calls. We did spend a weekend together after we had been chatting for 3 months. But ever since that weekend he has never asked me to spend time with him and if I ask him… He always has excuses why he can’t. I do know for sure that he is not seeing or involved with anyone else. I have become so confused and frustrated with the situation and have tried discussing it with him many times. He tells me he is “broken”, doesn’t know what he wants or too busy… But he is still in constant contact with me at all times and the flirting never stops. Last week I ended it with him because I finally had to give him an ultimatum… Either spend time with me or leave me alone… He chose to end everything… But this same thing happened about 3 months ago. I didn’t hear from him for a week… But then he contacted me and everything continued as before. I don’t understand why he puts so much effort into this “cyber relationship” but simply refuses to physically spend time with me. I can’t take it anymore. I like him alot but I need more from him and he says I deserve someone better than him. I don’t understand why he is so hot and cold. Can you explain this to me please?

    1. Wow I must have the same guy or his brother. So hot cold relationship? Never know where you stand. He says he loves ya then gets moody about something stupid they say or do but it’s our fault and we need to grow up and stop being insecure when they are the cause of most of it,

    2. Wow!! I’m just blown away by the stories here! Sounds like a guy I dated this last year!! I have been “involved” with a Scorpio man named Dan M. for the last year. It started out amazing and he was sweet, romantic, caring, had me meet his parents twice, his daughter, his friends, gave me drawers in his room, a closet in his bathroom and was very much taking care of me and my son.
      He also told me he loved me all the time… It was a dream until I needed clarity on where we stood. He did some of the same things mentioned in these posts about 5-6 months in and preferred to call, sometimes wouldn’t respond to texts, would get mad when I tried to establish boundaries and also tell me I was “insecure” or silly when I found out he was texting and talking to his ex girlfriend. He has taken me for a huge ride over the last year! I broke up with him twice…but he always came back texting, emailing and messaging me in every way possible. So, I thought maybe there was really something there? It was pretty much like torture. When I would finally agree to see him, we’d have an amazing time and then, Pouf, he’d disappear again for a month, then contact me again. It was crazy! I’m done with his total madness but he continues this behavior to this day trying to get me to see him and then takes me for a trip down memory lane. Telling me how amazing our time together was! ?????
      Why do Scorpios act in this insane way?
      I’ve never experienced anything like this in my life!!

      1. Hi Marie!

        I am so sorry you had to go through that sweetheart. That push and pull is just awful. I’m glad you figured it out and showed him the door. I will say this, for a Scorpio man, it greatly depends on other things in their charts. The main things that have to be looked at are the Moon, Rising Sign, Mars & Venus. Those are the best facts to really know a Scorpio guy and if he’s reliable or a flake. Don’t totally shrug off the sign because some of them can be very different. Next time you can ask for their birth information and then have their chart looked at. It will save you the trouble or it will show that he IS different and better. I wish you all the best sweetheart!

    1. Hi Priti!

      Yes this should help you but hey, if you need more tips or education on Scorpio men, I can help! Check out my book on Scorpio Man Secrets. There are many hints, tips, and tricks you can use to get a Scorpio man’s attention. I wish you all the best!

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