Ah, the Scorpio man. A little goth? Yes, often. Deep? Check. Exciting? Absolutely. He’s nothing if not attention grabbing. No one can ignore the Scorpio in the room, even though he might wish he could fly under the radar.
If you want to level up your relationship, I have some solid techniques to make the Scorpio man fall for you super-fast! As a Relationship Astrologer, I’ve seen it happen again and again, so I know for sure that these can work for you!
Step over to the dark side for a while, and learn all about what will blossom the relationship with your Scorpio into something that you never dreamed possible!
5 Ways To Blossom A Relationship With A Scorpio Man Into A Full-Fledged Love
1. Have Deep Conversations
A Scorpio doesn’t reveal this to everyone, but he’s incredibly deep. He’d rather the average person misjudge him so that he can lie low (smart guy!). Despite what others perceive of him, it’s a never a good idea to underestimate how intelligent the Scorpio is!
Scorpios have a vibrant mind that keeps them interested in the parts of life that people don’t talk about as much. As a result, they really want to talk about the ‘darker’ aspects of your personality. Your insecurities, fears, and illusions are all on the table! The Scorpio is the psychologist of the Zodiac, as we well know.
The Scorpio won’t do well without meaningful conversations about real issues and real emotions. He needs and desires conversations of that potency. If you can accommodate him here, you will make him feel as if he has no choice but to fall for the one who is getting so real with him!
2. Make New Plans
Scorpios are opposite Taurus on the Zodiac wheel, meaning that their personalities are largely opposite. Consider how Taurus likes to be able to predict their future, know what’s next, and know what to expect – and then you’ll know that Scorpio doesn’t want any part of any of that!
Scorpio needs new sights, sounds, and smells around them to feel stimulated. They need to really dig their teeth into life. This is important because they rely on new and intense experiences to make them feel satisfied with their lives. Too much boredom is like a death sentence to him.
If you can be the one providing him with this new and interesting experiences, then he’s sure to fall in love with you faster than he ever would have otherwise. Showing him new things that he hasn’t done before and breaking the pattern of the same-old-same-old is a sure way to endear him to you for the long term.
3. Keep The Bedroom Poppin!
The Scorpio man is among the most sexual people in the Zodiac. Scorpios love pushing the envelope and going to the edge of what they expect from themselves (and pushing others to the edge of what they expected for themselves).
The Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, and though Mars is the planet of the act of sex, Pluto is more indicative of the psychology behind sex. So, whatever happens behind closed doors with the Scorpio, the two of you should be connecting on a mental and emotional level. Both parties should be willing to be made slightly uncomfortable!
I recommend gently probing the Scorpio to find out what he feels is fun or desirable in the bedroom. I’m betting you’ll be totally surprised about the answer you get. Keep an open mind and open heart during the acts that you two try out and you’ll be sure to have the Scorpio wondering, “where have you been all my life!”
4. Be Honest
Scorpios don’t necessarily like this about themselves but, they love relationships. Actually, they can’t get enough of them! They’re the easiest sort of intensity to come by in life, since the two people either have to get emotionally raw with each other, or watch their relationship crumble into obscurity. It truly is sink or swim type of situation, and Scorpios appreciate that.
This emotional rawness is like a drug to the Scorpio. He really appreciates hearing your feelings and the truth of how you feel – even about him. He won’t get mad and react, because doing that would make you feel like you can’t talk about this stuff with him anymore, and he never wants these talks to end!
I encourage you to think about googling questions to ask each one another, that force the other a little outside of their comfort zone. Just make sure to respect the Scorpio man’s secrets and privacy (to a degree), because he’ll get uncomfortable and clam up if he’s feeling forced to lay everything on the table.
5. Sprinkle In Some Dark Humor
Of all the signs in the Zodiac, a Scorpio appreciates dark humor the most. They are pretty in on the cosmic joke that is life, and all you can do when you’re in the know about the nature of life is to laugh at it! Wise Scorpio can teach us all a few things about relating to the darker side of life.
If you can find the humor in the death, cheating, prostitution, and taboo topics in general then the Scorpio is going to feel right at home. If he feels that he can make jokes about the parts of life that make us a little uncomfortable then he will feel as if he can be open about anything with you.
Understanding his sense of humor is going to make him fall for you quickly, because it shows that you’re no ninny about the facts of life. As the Scorpio would say, if we can’t change the ‘bad’ parts of life, then we should at least be able to laugh about them!
The Scorpio basically needs a few things to find those warm, loving feelings from you. He has to know that he can talk about the not-so warm and loving parts of life with you. Scorpios have intense moods, and he’d like to know that you’ll be in the trenches with him rather than waving from up above without a speck of mud on your shoes!
He needs to have a lot of ‘realness’ in the relationship. No fake stuff here (perish the day!), the Scorpio needs to be stimulated with only 100% Grade A truth. If he gets that from you then he’ll automatically be captivated by you and more likely to fall in love with you.
And if you can have a laugh at the areas of life that everyone has told you that you can’t laugh at, then you will endlessly impress the Scorpio. He’ll be pleased with your limit testing ability and he might even think to himself, “hey, this is a girl that I think I can fall in love with!”
Have you ever been in love with a Scorpio? What did you do to take your love to the next level? Share with us in the comments what it! We’re dying to know!
If you want to know all the ins and outs of attracting a Scorpio man, then go ahead and consider picking up my book Scorpio Man Secrets to get the full picture on how to draw him to you!
And if you feel like you need some private guidance on your relationship, I’ve still got a few spots open for my ‘VIP Consultation’ service that you can book here to get instant clarity and guidance. You can book your private consultation here.
Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,