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Your Match: Scorpio Man and Scorpio Woman Love Compatibility

There is an explosion of sexual tension and dramatic emotion when Scorpio man and Scorpio woman hook up. Of all the signs of the Zodiac, Scorpio is known for sizzling sexual energy and intense relationships, so Scorpios are great for short-term flings as well as attractive partners for enduring, long-term bonds.

Scorpio Man and Scorpio Woman Chemistry

With Scorpio, the emotional temperature is always rising and that isn’t sustainable when neither of you is programmed to cool things down. Control is important to Scorpio, so both of you thrive when with someone who is more yielding or adaptable. Together you can get engaged in an eye-for-an-eye fight to the death that leaves you both wondering what went wrong.

The truth is, although you are so similar, you don’t understand each other at all. Both of you are prone to be jealous and demanding, and you are both so intense that small gusts of wind become destructive hurricanes very quickly. When things go wrong, you both blame the other, and with neither of you knowing how to bring things back to earth, this relationship can crash and burn very easily.

There are amazing elements that are heightened when two Scorpios tangle. You are both highly sensitive and deeply aware of all the underground currents that ripple the surface of even the shallowest pond. You can share the extreme passion, and a lifetime fascination with each other, but since you are so similar, there are very few chances for growth or real familiarity.

The Scorpio Woman

Scorpio Man and Scorpio Woman

As a Scorpio woman, you are passionate, intense, obstinate and highly imaginative. Your sexual intensity is the stuff of legends but you rarely reach the depths of emotional closeness you crave because you fear betrayal and loss of control. Unable to fully trust another soul, you break things off before you get hurt, and you often storm out long before a relationship has time to deepen and mature.

If you feel betrayed you are more likely to return the favor than to turn the other cheek, and with another Scorpio the two of you could get caught up in an endless match of tit for tat. Because your feelings run so deep, and you never take them lightly, you get offended easily and small misunderstandings become lifelong hurts.

You need a relationship that lets you show off your fighting spirit and express your wild flings of fancy. Domestic bliss is never on the top of your list, although in your weaker moments you long to feel safe and to be understood. In a relationship with a Scorpio man you will constantly be kept on your toes and while that may be fun for a while, it will eventually leave you feeling exhausted and confused.

The Scorpio Man

A Scorpio man can be summed up in one word: intensity. In his watery plutonic world, there are no half measures and nothing is just nothing – everything is significant. A Scorpio man is very appealing to women because he is emotional, forceful, insecure, intriguing and strong. He is also difficult to understand for all the same reasons.

He can often present a calm, almost detached, face to the world, but under that veneer, you can be sure there are churning emotions and tangled thoughts. Never underestimate a Scorpio man, even when he seems relaxed he is always scheming, deliberating and taking notes. No detail escapes his naturally suspicious mind. He loves to probe and he will watch you carefully to sense your weak spots so that he can exploit them when the time is right.

Romantic and passionate, Scorpio men marry more easily than many other signs because they need deep and strong connections. They are also more likely to cheat because they get bored in long term relationships and are tempted to find excitement elsewhere. Because they are capable of it, they suspect everyone else of cheating too. Even if they have no reason to doubt a lover, they will find reasons to be wary or question their lovers, simply because they love the drama.

What works between you two sexy Scorpios?

Compatibility with Scorpios is not easy to predict because this is the most complicated and misunderstood sign. Two Scorpios can become very good friends and in a short term affair, you both get the intensity and fireworks you love.

If you know yourself as a Scorpio you could find great happiness with another Scorpio, and when two Scorpios click the prospect of marriage is never far off. You are both highly intuitive and highly competitive, which means you can have fun together as long as you can find a way to inject some lightness into the complicated deep bond you share.

Scorpio Man and Scorpio Woman

What to watch for (if you don’t want to burn your relationship to the ground)

Two Scorpios who start to doubt each other are in for a very bumpy ride. Both of you are given to jealousy, rage, and irrational possessiveness. You could exhaust or even destroy each other in a battle for control.

Levels of competition and resentment could be so high between you, that the grand love and explosive passion you share get killed and your relationship is held together by insecurity, fear, and mistrust, which I’m sure you agree, is not a great place to be.

The Score…

A Scorpio-Scorpio love match can be intense and amazing, especially at first, but unless you both work hard at controlling your negative qualities, these will overwhelm the positives and leave you bitter and hurt.

Because they are so intense, both men and women born under this sign are generally better off with someone who can balance their need for deep connection with some chilled out, more sensible and sustainable love.

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  • I don’t think 2 scorpions are the same. You have to account for the placements of their Moon, Venus, Mars and Mercury in their charts. They can definitely create balance if the intention and maturity is there.

    • I agree it that it can work if the balance is well rounded. However if it is one-sided a Scorpio/Scorpio flame can definitely be put out quicker than it caught aflame.

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