Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Scorpio man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Scorpio man or improve your relationship with one in October 2020.
Attracting a Scorpio Man in October 2020
1. Give Him Alone Time
After a busy and socialized September helping and assisting others, the Scorpio man is looking forward to spending some quiet time by himself in October 2020.
From October 1 until October 22, the harmonious Sun in Libra will transit the Scorpio man’s twelfth house of ending and solitude.
In astrology, the twelfth house rules isolation, separation, and introspection. It represents the wisdom and soul-enlightenment that comes from spending time with oneself in reflection.
During this transit, the Scorpio man is looking for a partner who understands his need for isolation and doesn’t take it personally.
Because of this, he is most attracted to water or air signs in October, as they are naturally more sensitive and intuitive to others’ emotions and thoughts.
Instead of nagging him constantly for more attention, let him know you’re thinking of him and wait patiently until he responds.
By doing this, you give the Scorpio man the space he needs, and in return, he will start to pursue you. He is intrigued by your mannerisms and kind-heartedness.
If looking for non-invasive ways to spend time with the Scorpio man, avoid asking him to go near large crowds or noises. Opt for private and intimate experiences with just you and maybe two other people. No big group dates!
Maybe you suggest a walk in the park or a kayak ride on the lake — anything that inspires rest and spiritual connection.
Because the most important thing to focus on in October 2020 is that the Scorpio man needs his space, and disrespecting his boundaries won’t help your cause. You will only annoy him and push him away.
On the bright side, you’ll start to see the Scorpio man return to his normal self around October 22 when the Sun moves into Scorpio.
During this transit, the Sun will illuminate his first house of self and identity in Scorpio, which brings a time of excitement and reawakening.
2. Be a Leader
In astrology, Venus says a lot about what the Scorpio man will want and need out of a relationship.
Venus shows what he likes, the way he approaches relationships, and the way he gives and receives affection.
Venus also represents the type of woman the Scorpio man is attracted to and his emotional relationship to material possessions and money.
And with Venus in Virgo highlighting the Scorpio man’s eleventh house of community and purpose from October 2 until October 27, October 2020 is a season of service and leadership for the Scorpio man. He is ready to be a positive role model and voice of influence for those around him.
Because the eleventh house deals with team and group leadership, the Scorpio man is most attracted to the woman who is a leader and not a follower. He wants someone well-spoken and highly knowledgeable — who is not afraid to share her truth with others.
For example, if the Scorpio man is involved with the youth program at church or volunteers at the community center every Saturday, tag along and offer to assist.
If you are good with planning and organizing, this is even more of a turn-on to the Scorpio man. He wants someone who can bring more order and flow to his life.
Another fun suggestion would be offering to teach a class or short lesson together, especially if you work together or share a similar hobby or craft.
If you do not feel comfortable taking a more prominent leadership role in the community, take one in an area of your home life or your relationship.
Show him that every once in a while, you have the ability to be the boss.
3. Keep Things Light
When it comes to how the Scorpio man perceives and processes relationships in October 2020, he is more introspective and sensitive than usual.
Because from October 13 until November 3, Mercury, the planet of thought, is retrograde. And when Mercury is retrograde, communications slow down. It is more difficult to get your message heard.
If you think about this from the Scorpio man’s perspective, Mercury retrograde is a rather emotional transit, especially with the first two weeks occurring in his sign.
With Mercury retrograde in his first house of self, the Scorpio man needs more time to process his thoughts and desires.
So, to prevent overwhelming him and pushing him away, keep conversation light. Don’t push too hard or dig too deep. Only take it as far as he wants to go right now.
4. Get Him Away From Work
If you know a Scorpio man, you know he can be an extreme workaholic, especially once he’s found his groove.
But in early October, see if you can get the Scorpio man to pull away from his desk for more than five minutes for a fun date. He needs a change of scenery!
With Full Moons being a time of celebration, and Aries being the sign of new beginnings, the October Full Moon in Aries is the perfect time to break the Scorpio man away from work and celebrate all his achievements from the past six months.
If looking for activities, I suggest doing something physical that encourages him to move his body and burn off any lingering stress from work. Perhaps you could go dancing, rock-climbing, hiking, or get adventurous and bring out the old roller skates!
If feeling less active and more calm, treat him to a nice dinner and night out at the museum or comedy club.
Try your best to remind him that life is more than just meeting a goal. Show him that he is loved.
Read next: 5 Turn-Offs That Make a Good Scorpio Man Leave a Great Woman
Final Thoughts
Overall, if you want to attract a Scorpio man in October 2020, I suggest you give him some alone time, be a leader, keep things light, and get him away from work.
October 2020 is a month of healing and restoration for the Scorpio man, so just remember to be patient. Remember that he’s a little stubborn so it takes him some time to open up. But you can get there if you take my advice.
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Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
