This is a very positive month with fresh optimism and lots of vibrancy, inspiration, and harmonious energy. It’s Taurus season until the 19th, and Taurus and Scorpio are generally considered to be compatible. The Moon spends a lot of time in the earth and water signs throughout the month as well, which is very calming and motivating for the Scorpio man. He enjoys the peaceful and down-to-earth, yet equally ambitious and level-headed vibes of May. Read on to find out the best ways to attract him!
How To Attract A Scorpio Man In May 2021
1. Stay Cool
It’s all about embodying a serene and cool vibe this month. The same piece of advice has been given to many of the other signs, yet it is truer for Scorpio than most. This is because of the natural compatibility between Scorpio and Taurus, the Scorpio man shines and thrives more in Taurus season.
If you want to win his heart or at least catch his attention, be as Zen and down-to-earth as possible. Show your intelligence and wisdom, you don’t have to play weak or small, just do so in a way that is modest and “cool.” A cool, calm, and collected demeanor leads to victory this May.
Taurus is deeply sensual and romantic too. Think about how you can embody and project these in a unique way. What sets you apart from other admirers and women or ladies? Scorpio is highly sought after. He’s magnetic, intense, and emotionally intelligent – vulnerable as well.
When the Sun is in Taurus his passion and intensity is amplified, simply because Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty, love and sensuality. It’s all about pleasure!
Consider giving him little gifts, like a rose or CD. Music, art, nature, holistic health, spirituality, and metaphysics and the occult are all key themes for May. Appeal to his love of romance, intensity and spiritual connection…
2. Show Your Artistic Gifts
It’s a Lunar Eclipse month! On the 26th there’s a Full Moon and Lunar Eclipse in idealistic, visionary and philosophical Sagittarius. This is lighting up all the positive qualities of Sagittarius specifically related to their immense creative spirit and visionary gifts.
The Scorpio man is naturally intuitive, imaginative, and creatively gifted, so he is feeling the loving and expansive rays on and leading up to the 26th. Combined with the fact it’s Gemini season from the 20th, it’s important that you be bold and courageous in sharing your talents and strengths.
Scorpio will always seek out some sort of creative, artistic, or musical connection, and this especially true if there’s no intellectual connection. Express yourself, project a great impression and stunning aura.
There is a magic and shimmer (glow) associated with people with musical, poetic, and artistic gifts, and the like, and even more so if you draw your inspiration from the divine or sublime. Don’t be shy to speak in poetry or rhyme. If you’re skilled at your craft, share something special with him. Show him you have talents! This will set you apart from any other potential love interests he’s considering.
3. Think About The Future…
Because the Lunar Eclipse is occurring in Sagittarius there’s a lot of ‘reaching for the stars’ energy. Sag is ruled by the Archer. The Archer shoots his arrow towards the stars, representing Sag’s philosophical, idealistic, and seeking higher things nature. We will all be feeling the effects of this Sag Eclipse.
For Scorpio, being ruled by planet Pluto, he has innate subtle energies and forces of rebirth, spirituality, and alchemical transformation within him. What does this mean? His very nature and character are transformative.
The Scorpio man is very open to the visionary energies available. He is thinking about his future and his future self, his higher self and the parts of him left to integrate or heal to become the best version of himself.
Talk to him about your and his plans. Ask him questions about his future relating to his goals, dreams and ambitions. Also, share your own aspirations and long-term goals. What do you want to achieve in this life? What is your purpose or destiny?!
4. Let Your Ambition Shine
While the Sun is in Taurus, Scorpio will be feeling more ambitious. Scorpio’s ancient ruler is Mars, the planet of action, vitality, and passion, in addition to life force and assertiveness that often leads to the confidence to pursue our goals and dreams.
May is a powerful month for connecting with this man on an intellectual, psychological and charismatic level. If you have a shared mission, a soul resonance with similar soul gifts, and any skills and abilities or talents that you sense would be amazing to join together, one day – let your true self shine. Self-esteem and confidence are incredibly sexy when he is feeling so ambitious and connected with his talents.
The Scorpio man is naturally resourceful and business-minded. He’s quite happy to pursue financial prosperity and/or material success, or choose a more creative and imaginative career.
Either way, having goals and aspirations is important to him and there is a possibility of a great connection here. If you need a psychological boost, you can wait until the Sun enters Gemini on the 20th. This really brings cerebral and mental-intellectual gifts to light. Gemini is witty, bright and highly communicative too – qualities Scorpio can appreciate!
5. Be Patient
One negative thing to watch out for this month is the fact that both Scorpio and Taurus are fixed signs with some similar ‘follies.’ Both these signs can be extremely stubborn, jealous, and possessive! This man may fall into some of his own darker traits based on the Taurus Sun.
Be patient and keep things light and positive. Optimistic, light-hearted, and honest energy is valued this May. Scorpio is beautifully loyal and honest, more so than most signs, therefore you may want to find ways to show your loyalty and honesty too.
You can help to combat the tendency he will have to fall into some of his darker traits with showing kindness and patience. Any aggressive, hot-headed, or overly willful and fiery energy will somehow feed his negative attributes. It will bring out his inner ‘Martian’ character, his inner warrior relating to Mars, because he is still impulsive and instinctual.
Through patience, grace, and gentle qualities you will naturally transform instincts and impulsion to intuitive responses. Intuition is basically instincts but infused in light, divine light, and connected to the higher self.
You don’t even have to overdo it, simply being mindful of his powerful instincts and ancient ruler Mars – and making a conscious mental note to embody patience and serenity at all times – is enough to keep the conversation in the right direction.
There is a wise, generous, talented, intuitive, sensual, and majestic man inside waiting to come out and shine… it just takes someone recognizing his strengths and weakness to bring out his light side!
Read next: 5 Ways to Show a Scorpio Man You’re Serious (Without Seeming Needy)
Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits
May brings a serene and Zen-like energy due to Taurus season. But ambitions and long-term goals are also expanded, due to both Taurus’ practical and grounded nature and the Lunar Eclipse Full Moon on the 26th. Scorpio is quite compatible with Taurus, earth and water blend and merge well together! You can read up on the Scorpio Man Secrets to understand him better.
Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,