Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Scorpio man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Scorpio man or improve your relationship with one in June 2020.
Attracting a Scorpio Man in June 2020
1. Give Him Time to Rest
The Scorpio man is known for many things, but in June 2020, the most important one will be his need for rest.
With the transit Gemini Sun highlighting one of the most sensitive houses in his chart, this is a challenging time for him, and he will need more space than usual to sit and reflect on his thoughts.
If you are a Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces yourself, this is a great time to take a spiritual retreat together or to respectfully choose to give each other more time to learn and explore on your own.
However, all Zodiac signs will find that the Scorpio man is more intellectually aware but mentally distracted. So don’t take it personally if he doesn’t immediately call you back or tells you that he’s “not in the mood to talk.”
The best way to keep his attention during this stimulating time is to just go with the flow and grant him the space that he’s asking for.
With Gemini ruling the twins in Astrology, it’s likely he’ll eventually realize that he’s overreacting a little and come back out into the world before the end of June.
If you want to do something special for him despite his mood swings, get him an inspirational book or send him his favorite beverage to help him relax. Anything that eases the mind and soothes the soul is attractive to the Scorpio man now.
On June 20, the transit Sun in Cancer will enter his ninth house of mental exploration and adventure, highlighting an awakening period for the Scorpio man.
Because Cancer is a water sign, he will feel at ease in this transit and most like himself.
This is the best time to tune in to him emotionally and discover new parts of his psyche and overall personality.
You may find that he is more humorous than you expected, or that he finds your sensitivity beautiful and inviting.
If possible, this is the best time of year to take him to the water. If you can’t get to an ocean, find a creek, a river, or a small lake. Any moving body of water will rejuvenate him and inspire new ideas of self-discovery.
2. Keep Things Private
Out of all the Zodiac signs, Scorpio is one of the most mysterious.
Although there are many tales of the intimate Scorpio man, only those he allows to enter his sacred space will ever get a glimpse of who he truly is.
The Scorpio man is very secretive about his relationships. And with Venus retrograde in his eighth house of Gemini until June 25, his level of secrecy and seduction will rise even more.
To make sure that you don’t step on his toes or cross his boundaries, keep things private for now.
As loving and affectionate as the Scorpio man can be, he isn’t one to respond well to deception; honor his desire for solitude at this time.
By doing this, you not only show him that you are honest and loyal but also that you respect him as a partner and as a friend.
To keep the love flowing, find ways to make your sacred space feel more like home. If he’s willing, ask him questions about his childhood, his dreams, and his thoughts about life in general.
The more you converse with this wise man, the more you will realize that his hard shell is only a defense mechanism. Behind the ice is a sweetheart waiting and aching to be loved.
3. Focus on Building Trust
If you want to get to know the Scorpio man on an emotional level, June 2020 is the month to do it.
With Mercury stationing retrograde in Cancer on June 18, the Scorpio man will be more open to exploring new ideas and beliefs surrounding love.
A traditional family and relationship aren’t necessarily his cup of tea, especially with Cancer in his ninth house of independence and adventure.
However, with time, patience, and the right person, the Scorpio man settles down surprisingly easily.
With Mercury retrograde in Cancer until July 12, this cycle is about building trust and interdependence.
In June 2020, the Scorpio man will be most attracted to the woman who understands his unconventional lifestyle. He is turned off by the clingy woman who doesn’t trust him or disrespects his beliefs.
If you’re struggling with this energy or not sure how to address his needs, be honest with him about it.
It may be helpful to ask him what his needs are directly and find out what he expects from you to continue moving forward.
If you two can find your footing and agree to disagree at times, you’ll find that he is willing to cater to your every need and will spoil you in ways that other women dream about.
The most important aspect of this transit is patience. The more patient and trusting you are, the further you will go.
You’ll be surprised at how far your understanding will take your relationship when Mercury enters his tenth house of commitment in Leo on August 4.
Read next: 3 Questions To Ask a Scorpio Man To Know Him Better
4. Create Something Together
Although the Scorpio man may be more introverted due to retrograde season, June 2020 is still an excellent month to pull him out of his slumber and create something fun and romantic together.
With Mars—the planet of action, sexuality, and willpower—in watery Pisces until June 27, the Scorpio man will be more open to expressing his creativity and sexuality in love and art.
This energy is amplified as Mars is transiting his fifth house of romance, love, and pleasure.
During this period, the Scorpio man is most attracted to the woman who can please him spiritually and sexually.
If possible, you should try creating erotic art, sensual massages, or feeding each other chocolate and fruit in bed.
Just remember that he is more sensitive than usual during this time, so be mindful of his self-esteem.
Make sure that you are considerate of his gifts, time, and creative abilities, especially if he is an artist or maker of any kind.
Overall, if you want to attract a Scorpio man in June 2020, make sure to give him time to rest, keep things private, focus on building trust, and create something intimate and fulfilling together.
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Have you noticed these astrological influences on your Scorpio man? Let me know in the comment section below!
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
Yes my scopio guy doesn’t communicate very good at all very shy. I think I’m just wasting my time with him..
Just when I’m ready to give up on him he messages and is interested again just does my head in.
Lol same??
My Scorpio is all of the above, I been with him for almost 9 years no babies but Everyday it has been like we are on our honeymoon. it’s been like this for more than 2 years all I had to do was understand his ways his style and ego in order for me not to be questioning him or feeling unappreciated.
Just like that everything else fell into place. .. Anna is right about the advice she provides for scorpios.
thank you girl…
I differ in perspective from some of the other commenters; I think my Scorpio man is fantastic at communicating clearly, definitively & openly-*when he’s ready & willing to do so*! This is the key ?
If he isn’t prepared to discuss something or is preoccupied with work, family issues or anything else, I don’t bother even trying to have a heart to heart with him for a few reasons:
1. I respect & trust him & understand that he deserves to process & deal with whatever is bothering him or causing him stress in his own way, his own time. This isn’t a man who doesn’t know himself & what he needs in any given scenario. He gives me the respect & space to withdraw or focus more intently on my job, family, friends etc when I need to, I owe him the same treatment. If the issue is genuinely something that cannot wait, he’s always willing to be empathetic & meet me halfway so if I am able to wait, I try to do so out of care & courtesy.
2.If he’s not in the right place for a talk, we’re both going to get cheated out of the best possible outcome.
3. If I’m too pushy or insistent, I’m more likely to push him further down into his private world & cause an even longer & possibly more tense or uncomfortable waiting period.
4. If I become immature or too self-interested about it, he won’t hesitate to let me know & that’s definitely not something he’s a fan of, in fact he just might make me wait a bit longer just to teach me a lesson & I’m not a fan of his “teaching style” lol
All things considered, my guy is really an amazing catch & I’m grateful every day for his presence in my life. The moment we met, we both knew that something BIG was happening, we couldn’t resist one another and we were 100% ar ease with one another almost instantly. It was just a sense that this was absolutely right, organic & natural. Something that didn’t happen every day. Something that didn’t wasn’t up for debate: our choices were be together or have an empty, hollow ache inside we’d never felt before. 20 mins apart & we were going crazy, we weren’t taking our chances with an actual separation.
And we’ve been together literally since knowing each other for 3 hours-for 8 & a half years now! And not a single night apart. I hope it stays that way always. I’m a lucky lady ?❤