It’s fascinating that some signs have two ruling planets, a modern one and an ancient one. Scorpio is one of those signs. Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, a watery planet of rebirth and transformation. But this spiritually intense sign also used to be ruled by Mars, the planet of war, aggression, lust, action, and masculine sexuality.
So, the Scorpio man has his foot in both worlds, for want of better words… On the one hand, he is able to thrive in business and attract wealth, prosperity and resources to expand his success. On the other, he is imaginative, intuitive, soulful and emotionally deep. Spiritual and somewhat shamanic too (“otherworldly”).
How To Attract A Scorpio Man In April 2021
1. Self-Esteem Is Essential
First and foremost, you’ve got to have some pretty strong self-esteem to attract a Scorpio man in general, but this especially true during the month of April. April is Aries season and Aries is one of the most self-assertive and self-assured star signs. They’re fiery, independent, and know themselves, even when they’re slightly in denial or self-deluded they still have utmost confidence! This is incredibly attractive.
Scorpio used to be ruled by Aries’ ruling planet, Mars. Mars shines a light this month which says, “be bold, shine among the chaos, and speak your truth.” The Scorpio man appreciates a woman who holds herself in high esteem with self-confidence and independence as her motto.
Regardless of any insecurities, you should still project an air of self-esteem. If you’re naturally quite empathic or ‘yin’ in nature, i.e., receptive and passive, emotional and sensitive, you can still be confident and charismatic.
Let your self-worth shine in the way that feels right for you. If you’re a fire or air sign, be bold and brilliantly self-expressive like Aries. If you’re water or earth express yourself in a way which compliments your essence, and your favorable qualities.
Magnetism is incredibly powerful – you don’t have to be electric or zestful to be charismatic. As long as you act and speak with confidence and an inner strength in alignment with the season, you will attract his attention.
2. Speak Your Truth, Even If Your Voice Shakes…
At some point in your life, you will have spoken to the point of your voice shaking. You may just find this happening at some point! Scorpio is an extremely intense sign. The Scorpio man can evoke emotions and inner sensations you forgot about, or that you didn’t know were there. He stimulates depth of feeling and showing up for yourself. Something is sparked within that allows for freedom, and intensity.
It’s important you speak your truth, beliefs, opinions, perspectives, philosophies, and feelings no matter how strong a resistance you feel. This could very well be an internal block you’ve been holding onto for some time being released. Scorpio does this, as his ruling planet is Pluto and Pluto is all about rebirth and transformation. At the very least, you will be on his radar. He notices people who speak with intensity and soul, people who aren’t afraid to speak even when their voice shakes.
3. Modesty Wins
In spite of all the above advice, it’s important to stay humble and down-to-earth this month. Scorpio will always be a water sign at the end and start of each day. With this fact is the reality that he is sensitive and full of empathy. Emotional wisdom and emotional intelligence, in addition to altruism, flows through his veins like the sun and moon spin in harmony to provide day and night…
The point is, don’t try to be brash or flamboyant at the extent of losing all sense of humility. April is a month for chilled vibes and relaxation regardless of all the high passion energy. Be assertive yet stay spiritually attuned and aware. Embody grace and humility, or simply be chilled with an aura of inner contentment – imagine you’re at a festival or on the beach! Life is a blissful dream. From this space, awesome conversation and connection can arise, things the Scorpio man adores.
4. Let Him Know You’re Interested
In other months, it might have been useful to play it cool… stay reserved or receptive, don’t go over-the-top or be too obvious. This is not the month. You can still be chilled with a peaceful aura and demeanor, and tell him you like him simultaneously.
Tell him with your words, with your eyes, with your body and with your expressions. Show him you’re into him, that you find him sexy or attractive, and anything else you wish to convey. Think outside the box as well, get creative with your flirty “I’m into you” tactics!
Something a bit more obvious is called for this month. The Sun is shining strong and feels comfortable in Aries. There’s also a New Moon in fiery Aries on the 12th, so this is a great time to plan a date. IF you can’t do the exact date, 2-3 days before and after the New Moon is ideal.
5. Be Fearless, Yet Honest
Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac, which means ‘number 1.’ The energy of April is self-initiating, self-starting, and all about new beginnings. There is a wonderful fusion of light and dark this month, i.e., shine and shadow. Scorpio sign is very empathic and understanding, however he is also self-aware. He knows he has follies and flaws, and equally understands how everyone has flaws or “shadow personality traits.”
Yes, he is determined, and likes beautiful and attractive women and people – but this doesn’t make him superficial. He is generally authentic and attracted to depth, soul, and inner beauty and talents. So, self-honesty combined with honesty with him is significant to win his attention. You can be bold and fearless, take risks in communication and flirting or conversing style, and you can let your sensitivities show. There’s a good balance of yin and yang.
Honesty is basically transparency. It’s being 100% yourself in social situations, so people see the real you. Obviously, there are certain things in alignment with public persona and self-image we don’t want others to see, such as weakness, shyness, arrogance, egocentricity, self-centeredness, dullness, etc., etc…. But, all in all yin and yang is balancing (and accepting) the light and dark aspects of ourselves.
The Scorpio man has been on an eternal journey to the depths of his spirit. He knows himself and human nature. Merged with his powerful intuition, he will know when you’re being fake or trying to be something you’re not. If you feel up, be up and enthusiastic. If you feel sensitive and real, raw emotions – let the energy flow. It will pass and he will respect you more for being authentic.
Read next: 5 Turn-Offs That Make a Good Scorpio Man Leave a Great Woman
Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits
The Full Moon in Scorpio on the 27th marks a sense of completion and a new lunar cycle. This is an excellent time to secure a commitment or bond, or simply evolve your relationship on some psychological, emotional, physical or spiritual level.
If you’re still getting to know him, share something inspiring or relating to your talents and amazing success on social media that you know he will see. Keep it rooted in creativity, positive intentions, inspiration, or aspirations and dreams.
Remember you can read up on the Scorpio Man Secrets to get a clearer picture of his unique traits.
Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,