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What Turns a Scorpio Man On Sexually

The real question here is: what doesn’t turn a Scorpio man on sexually? Anything goes for these men! They love kink and trying out new things. Their sexuality is an adventure for them, something they want to explore, and a way for them to express themselves. 

But of course, the Scorpio man definitely has his preferences and things that turn him on more than anything else in the world. Once you know what these things are, you can bet he’ll be coming back for more!

A Scorpio man has an unquenchable sexual thirst. The sex he has in his relationship is high on his list of priorities. If the sex is bad, he might feel the relationship is unable to continue, this is how important it is to him.

So, you have come to the right place if you want to know how to keep your Scorpio man sexually satisfied and turned on. Continue reading if you want to learn more tips and tricks on how to keep your Scorpio man turned on sexually.

Show Your Intensity

How To Turn On A Scorpio Man

A Scorpio man does nothing by half measures. He is an all-or-nothing type of guy – especially when he’s in a relationship with a woman. His relationships need to veer on the obsessive and all-consuming side. 

Before you get involved with a Scorpio man make sure you know what you’re getting yourself into, because if you’re looking for something light and breezy, you have definitely come to the wrong place. 

He almost wants to love his partner to death, and he wants to feel this same kind of intensity from you. So, if you want to turn your Scorpio man on sexually you need to be willing to be super intense and passionate with him.

It takes a lot of vulnerability to be able to feel comfortable enough to go so deep with him, but if you do, it will definitely be worth it. Your Scorpio man needs a woman who is fiery and enthusiastic about loving him. 

He wants you to put all your emotions on the line for him, and be completely open to sharing all your secrets with him. Like I said before, a Scorpio man needs to feel like his relationship is all-consuming. 

So, tread with caution because the way he likes to love is on the extreme side and it isn’t for everyone. You need to be sure that this is something you are ready for, but if it is, make sure he knows he’s the only one for you! 

Give In To Your Adventurous Side

How To Turn A Scorpio Man On

You’ve heard it all before, the Scorpio man is super sexual and likes some deviant behavior thrown in there. He’s the guy that likes to try out anything with a taboo or kink attached to it.

It wouldn’t be surprising if you see a couple of books on certain fetishes like BDSM stacked in his library. He’s pretty much open to anything, especially if there is a bit of a darker undercurrent to the sexual act. 

He’s not just interested in kinky sex for the sake of it, but the psychological effects it has on him. A Scorpio man is really interested in the mysteries of the world and what makes him tick as a person. The more he gets to explore, the greater understanding he has for himself and the way he carries himself in the world.

For him, there is a fine line between pleasure and pain, and that is why he is so interested in things like S&M because he can really test out his boundaries and see how far he can push his comfort levels. It is really a state of mind for him. 

If you really want to turn him on it would be good for you to be a bit more adventurous and open to trying out something sexually you normally wouldn’t. If you’re concerned that this is all the two of you will be doing in the bedroom, then don’t fret!

Most of the time your Scorpio man just really enjoys talking about the possibilities of acting on his kinky desires. He likes to analyze and figure it out in his head, and this in itself is a massive turn-on for him. 

Sometimes just being open enough to try something new is all he needs from you. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than a woman who is closed-minded and shuts down all of his sexual ideas. Be wary not to kink-shame him, because I can bet you will never hear from him again. 

Bust Out All The Sexy Lingerie

What Turns A Scorpio Man On

There is a side to your Scorpio man which is really turned on by the dramatic side of sex. He wants every sexual encounter he has to be absolutely spectacular, so the mood needs to be set. 

Think about investing in some silk bed sheets to make the experience more sensual and erotic than he could ever imagine. Get those candles burning, curate the perfect playlist, and why not throw some rose petals around the bed?

All for dramatic effect, but most importantly make sure to invest in some really sexy lingerie. A Scorpio man is very visual, so it would be best for you to play into that. Trust me, a beautiful lingerie set will push him over the edge.

Think about wearing items made from beautifully textured materials like velvet or lace, in dark colors like black, blue, or red. You can also wear a garter belt, or a choker, basically anything to amp up your vampiness is definitely a win. 

Share All Of Your Turn-Ons With Him

A Scorpio man loves thinking he is privy to information no one else is. He loves mysteries and secrets… That’s why it wouldn’t be a bad idea for you to tell him your deepest, darkest, and especially dirties secrets.

This will work especially well if you pretend to be really embarrassed and shy about what you’re telling him (even if you’re not). But him just thinking that he knows something you have never told anyone else before is sure to leave him panting. 

A Scorpio man just really loves to know that he’s the only person you trust with your proverbial dirty laundry. Having secret information on you is a massive turn-on for him. This makes him feel powerful and important.

Two things that are exceptionally critical for a Scorpio is him feeling powerful and important. When he feels like he is in control absolutely nothing can get him down and this is when he feels his sexiest.

Read next: 7 Ways To Make Your Scorpio Man Feel Loved And Appreciated

Role-Playing With Power Dynamics

A Scorpio man really enjoys exploring stereotypical power dynamics and how he can test them and push his boundaries sexually with his partner. He enjoys participating in sexual acts that most people might frown down upon. 

Anything that is perceived as a little bad and something he shouldn’t be doing is a real turn-on for him. This could be anything from spanking to role-playing as a teacher and student or two strangers. Involving mystery into the fantasy is a really good way to turn on a Scorpio man. Basically, anything that is a bit taboo really gets him going.

He’s an extreme person and looks for these crazy experiences in his sexual life. It’s all about testing himself and his partner. He likes to be in control and will more than likely be the one to enjoy the dominant role in the relationship.

Just make sure that you’re okay with being submissive. It’s important that the two of you discuss your boundaries before engaging in any kind of extreme sexual act. It would be good for you the two of you to come up with a safe word you can use when everything feels a little too overwhelming and hectic. 

A lot of trust is required in this kind of relationship, and as I mentioned before, trust is a massive turn-on for your Scorpio man because he wants to know how far he can push you out of your comfort zone.

My Final Thoughts

Getting into a sexual relationship with a Scorpio man is one of those unforgettable experiences in life. It is definitely going to test your boundaries and make you grow as a person. As long as you’re open to new experiences and willing to go outside of your comfort zone, your Scorpio man will be turned on and satisfied. 

Have you ever been with a Scorpio man? What was your sexual experience like? Did you find he enjoyed taboo sexual acts and how did you feel about it?

I’m really curious to hear your thoughts and opinions so please leave me a comment in the section below. 

If you’re looking for some dirty things you can say to your Scorpio man to turn him on, then check out my link to a list of 27 dirty phrases that will really get him going!

I would love to know if these naughty sayings worked for you. 

Wishing you a lot of love and passion in your life!

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

4 thoughts on “What Turns a Scorpio Man On Sexually

  1. My scorpion lover is the best I’ve ever had and I’m 61!!!! I don’t even tell my friends how good it is

  2. My husband shut down soon as I was going through menopause which is over now and I gained weight which is his turn off. I have gotten up in the morning to come into my living room and my husband watching videos of stick skinny women masterbating and his also. Hes also wearing womens panties and likes to wear bras for his man boobs.. hes so skinny that when he sinchs his belt up it puckers up his waist to show how skinny he is..always comments about fat people and how deskusted he is and I get a talking to also….he hides from me when he changes like he doesn’t want me to see something! I have 8 years of nothing from him just his bad temper and used for tax deductions and discounts on insurance and I cant do my taxes myself or quit working. hes retired and just stays home and reads and sleeps and tells me we will go sightseeing or visiting things I want to see…nope like is a standstill with him. I want to enjoy my last part of my life being loved for me and I need hugs which he gave me when we 1st met…I never forget it warm hu and a kiss on my forehead the 1st day we met….we did alot and did have great sex lots of hours and then dead..nothing …I have had thoughts of suicide but I talk to my Mom and my Niece Emilyn and a special friend that has helped me for the last few months he gives me hug when he can. I just want to feel loved for me and alive again…leave the mental abuse behind…

  3. My Scorpio lover is the best sex I’ve ever had, he’s enthusiastic, he’s tactile, he knows how to please me in every way. He’s by far & away the best kisser I’ve encountered. We’ve done some very kinky things together & our exploration has given me the confidence to ask for more of what I like & I k ow what he wants more of. He’s my kinky bad boy.
    He’s also married but not to me! He has a sexless marriage & I happily fill that void, I can’t exactly put my finger on it but he’s like a drug to me, I can’t get enough of him.

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