So you’re dating a super sexy Scorpio man that you cannot get enough of. Maybe you just met one and are wondering what turns him on. Perhaps you’re even wondering what may turn him off. Here is a mixture of both for you get more familiar with.
Being Mysteriously Delicious
The Scorpio man himself is very mysterious which in some ways makes him very sexy. This is something he also looks for in a woman. He will be more drawn to a woman who doesn’t give the game away.
Be the type of woman that doesn’t want to talk about personal business in the first few dates. Make it something he has to work for. It’s a challenge for him and that will be exciting.
Give him just small bits of information he can bite off of until the next time he’s with you.
Your Own Brand of Style
He isn’t into a woman that feels she needs to look like everyone else. He will prefer that you look feminine and beautiful for sure. If you have your own flare; show it off to him.
If you’re the type of woman that is into fashion but like to make your own version of it; definitely let him see this. It will make him feel exhilarated.
This man will desperately want to see your legs. Thigh high stockings are preferred as well if you feel comfortable wearing them. Darker colors are his favorite.
Showing Your Interest
This man will absolutely respond well to you doing things for him to show him that you are interested in him. Doing things like bringing him a coffee will make him take notice of you.
If he drops something, pick it up. If you’re out and about and he doesn’t drop anything; improvise. Drop a business card and drop it near him. Pick it up and say “I think you dropped this”. He will of course say it’s not his.
At that point; you can say “Oh sorry, I thought maybe it was yours, what a shame, I was hoping it would help me start a conversation with you”. This will floor him and he’ll be turned on for sure!
Show Him Your Excitement In Life!
Since the Scorpio man is passionate about his life; he’ll want to see the same quality in a mate. If you’re trying to get to know him or are even dating him; show him that you’re also passionate.
Talk about things you love and want to do with your life with pizzazz. The enthusiasm he feels coming from you will make him want to do whatever it takes to help you achieve that goal.
Tell It Like It Is
I’m not saying don’t use a filter but its best that you are candid with the Scorpio man. He prefers women who can tell him the truth rather than try to sugar coat or lie about things.
If his tie doesn’t match his suit; tell him that it may look better if he uses a different color. He’ll appreciate your honesty and decide to dive deeper to get a better understanding of who you are.
Trying to Control Him
The Scorpio man doesn’t want to be told what to do. The way he sees it is; he’s already got parents and he doesn’t need to be guided by you or anyone else about his life.
If you would like to suggest a helpful hint; you can do that. Telling him what he needs to do or should do could get you walked out on. He isn’t into any woman that wants to control his life. Tread carefully when trying to get him to do things.
No Movement In The Relationship
When the Scorpio man feels that things have become stale or aren’t working well; he’ll be ready to bail out. You may want to do some work to keep him engaged or excited to avoid things from becoming stagnant.
He always wants to find ways to improve his life and his relationships. If you can meet him halfway and try to implement fun in the relationship; he may stay actively in it and things can continue moving along nicely.
Possessiveness or Jealousy
I know this sounds really weird considering HE himself is this way. He will not tolerate you being this way with him. He feels he should be trusted and that you shouldn’t question him.
So though he may have these qualities; it’s a matter of “do what I say, not what I do” with this guy. If you really want the truth, ask him and watch how he responds with his eyes. It will tell you everything you need to know.
Withdrawal of Sexual Activity
The Scorpio guy is very sexual. If you get pissed off at him and decide to withhold sex; he isn’t one to deal well with this. It may work once or twice but after that he will see it as manipulation.
If he gets to that point and sees what you are doing; he will drop you like a bad habit. Be careful and try not to withhold sex unless there is a really good reason. If there is; talking it out is usually best.
Scorpio men are able to blend in and have a good time no matter what crowd they are with. It’s not that he can’t handle someone who is more introverted; it’s that he doesn’t understand it.
If you act shy around him or anyone he knows; he’ll figure that maybe you’re just not that into him or not into whatever it is that you’re out doing together. This will definitely turn him off fairly quickly.
The Scorpio man may seem confusing or “hard to get” sometimes but if you really get to know what he’s all about; you’ll be able to vibe with him better. Click here to learn more about him today!
I hope this helps give you a bit clearer picture of what he’s into and what he’s not into so that you can start working your mojo on him!
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,