Hi there Sweethearts, I can’t believe that we are moving into September and I’m really excited to bring you this fascinating guide for Scorpio man.
So in the Northern Hemisphere we’re moving into fall and the weather gets very changeable, however in the Southern Hemisphere, spring can also be unpredictable and it’s very similar in terms of planetary movements which are also rather scattered.
This month, one of the good things, is that Venus, the ruler of his seventh solar house is going direct in Leo, Mercury is direct at the New Moon in Virgo, but Jupiter goes retrograde in Taurus which has some interesting effects, particularly for Scorpio Guy and this can influence relationship understanding and direction.
But don’t worry, as always these guides will help you to navigate your relationship with Scorpio Guy whether you are romancing, dating or married. Remember the planets are always moving, giving us an opportunity to improve things, so it’s important to stay positive about relationships and to always work on them with an understanding of yourself and your partner, as well a deeper awareness of life and its lessons.
Venus goes direct in Leo – 4th of September
Venus is the ruler of the seventh solar house of Scorpio Guy which is the house associated with marriage and long-term relationships, so Venus going direct is much better for those of you wishing to make a commitment, to increase teamwork, and to work closer together as a unit being decisive and progressive.
This indicates an excellent phase for bonding, for greater affection, warmth and loyalty between you. Trust is absolutely essential right now and it’s a deal maker or a deal breaker. So it’s important for you to show Scorpio Guy that you are someone whom he can rely on for love, support and also practical advice.
Jupiter goes retrograde in Taurus – 5th September
This month with Jupiter retrograde in Taurus, it’s all about patience, moderation and taking the middle road in love. It’s vital to rein yourselves in and not resort to any extreme reactions, sometimes your relationship can be a little bit of a roller coaster ride as with Jupiter retrograde in the solar seventh house, there are highs and lows, and while that can give you a little bit of an adrenaline rush, it can create a little bit of explosive passion. Your relationship could also be quite draining and it’s good not to make important decisions while you’re on that roller coaster.
This is definitely a time when relationships can become more fulfilling and there can be a deeper understanding developing between you, so sometimes some of the ups and downs contribute to a steeper learning curve and it can actually be quite rewarding in a relationship.
New Moon in Virgo – 14th September
Scorpio Guy is fairly confident and outgoing which enhances the dating experience, he’s quite fun to be with, but he’s also very independent and so it’s a case of him spreading himself around as he likes to spend time with friends and he likes to spend time with new dates as well, so you’ll have to fit in around his very hectic and busy schedule. Remember, right now he’s in a ‘call a spade a shovel’ mode, he’s slightly less diplomatic and therefore he’s likely to be quite direct with you. He’ll say what he means and mean what he says, but this is actually quite a good thing for those of you who like straightforwardness and to know where you stand in a relationship.
This is a great time for the more unusual relationships because he doesn’t care what other people think, he’s far more likely to go with his heart, rather than go after ‘the Right’ appearances when it comes to relationships. So in order to catch his eye, you have to be a little bit daring and reflect his high energy and eagerness for something a little bit more different, even controversial.
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Mercury goes direct in Virgo – 16th September
This transit is extremely helpful as it represents a period of stability in your relationship with Scorpio Guy, it’s a time when you can plan together and have constructive conversations in quite a measured way.
There’s definitely the opportunity for recently formed relationships and dating to get more serious and deeper. Scorpio Guys do have a more distinct sense of what they like or dislike right now, which certainly helps give definition to a new relationship and favors new relationships with earth and fixed signs.
Existing partnerships and marriages can feel stronger and more meaningful, especially as events are likely to occur which require you to work as a unit. What you have in common is more important right now than what separates you and that’s a really good feeling.
This is an excellent period for renewed attempts at communication over difficult topics, you and Scorpio Guy can work on the weaker points that have previously hindered understanding.
You and your Scorpio Guy will benefit emotionally from a greater sense of security and improved trust, which means it is now possible to resolve drama that’s based on fears and irrational anxiety about the future.
Theme of the Month – This month is a very positive one in all love relationships but it’s also quite constructive, with a feeling that things are going in the right direction. What you put in you get out, so it’s vital for you to maintain a really buoyant and happy overtone. Sometimes you can make all the difference to a situation simply by injecting a creative approach and not being pessimistic or overly cautious.
Do: The new moon phase extends from the 14th of September to the 29th of September this waxing phase is the perfect fortnight for new initiatives, setting plans, establishing goals, starting anything prospective and being proactive.
The waxing phase is great for renewal in marriage. This is an excellent time for turning over a new leaf as a couple and devising new exciting goals together. It’s a time of healing, better communication and renewed commitment to your journey together. It should be a foreword-looking time, not a time to dwell. Great for new business partnerships or getting good advice. Marriage counseling is successful.
Great for financial analysis and investing in business assets or precious metals. Good for making budgets and organizing money matters. Good time to shop around and get quotes.
Avoid: You guys should be careful with decisions regarding children as you should be compassionate and avoid being too hard, this is not a time when tough-love or severe discipline work.
Week 1 – Plain Sailing
This is a great time for your relationship to settle down and if anything has been troubling you lately, you should be able to smooth over those differences now.
Positivity is absolutely essential in long-term relationships, it’s vital for you to show Scorpio Guy a buoyant, proactive side of yourself. Thus when he has ideas, act supportive, show enthusiasm and be warm as everything in terms of love and romance right now is about giving wholehearted responses. He knows when your heart is not in something, so don’t be vague or distant if you want your love life to burn bright.
It’s always important to pay attention to your mindset because a positive attitude is absolutely vital and it’s also important to have boundaries and to resist either excessive people pleasing, or the same time, trying to move the relationship too quickly in a direction against the other one’s will. It’s always important in September to be considerate and to bring each other’s needs and desires into balance.
Week 2 – The Big Dipper
Right now relationships with Scorpio Guy require a certain amount of daring, sometimes you have to just go with things and get on board. It’s very important not to behave as a wet blanket, so sometimes, although some of his actions can seem a little bit impulsive or reckless, and of course you don’t want to be doing anything crazy, it’s still important to go with the moment, to embrace a bit of spontaneously and excitement. Invite into your life new elements that can help you to understand your potential.
This is a time when quite a lot of passion and intensity bubbles to the surface, but there are not too many grey areas, which is great, this removes a lot of doubt. Scorpio Guy is really impatient right now and so sometimes you have to give him a long rope and see what happens, have faith in him, show him that you believe in him and you trust him, and this will do the relationship the world of good.
Week 3 – Tender is the Night
During this week, it’s vital to be sympathetic and compassionate. It’s important to be a trusted confidant of Scorpio Guy.
So what does Scorpio Guy really value in life? He values his privacy and confidentiality, and he wants a partner whom he can totally trust and bring into his confidence. So it’s important for you to show him that you are that person, you must demonstrate that you have his back, that you are in his corner and that you keep faith with the relationship, even when times are tough.
During this time, he may demand more of your attention and it’s probably a good idea to be a little bit of cautious about spending time with your male friends or friends that he doesn’t particularly like. His social life and your social life can clash right now, and so sometimes, it’s better for you guys to do your own thing in your own magic bubble. This is certainly a great time for romance, so if you want to book any theater trips or concerts, he’d be up for that.
Alternatively, there’s nothing wrong with a bit of good old-fashioned romance, like a lovely meal and a candle-lit dinner at home, he’s definitely interested in some “afters” as well. Remember to take it slow, romance should be totally escapist and relaxing.
Week 4 – Hungry eyes, one look at you and I fantasize
Mars has been in Libra all month which has meant that his more emotional, intuitive and sensual side has been activated, making him more receptive to deeper understanding in relationships, and also quite thoughtful and sensitive. This week on the 24th, the Sun moves into Libra, and that brings a different vibe to the relationship, sometimes he can be a little bit passive and this is not the best time for spending a lot of time with other people or attempting very practical goals or for introducing activities that involve your public life or increased stress.
This can be a time where he almost likes to retreat, gather himself and have some time to think. It’s important not to disturb him when he is trying to have one of those Scorpio moments of solitude. As you know, Scorpio is a loner, he benefits from his own company and he does like to mull over things. He can be a little bit broody right now, if anything’s happened recently which he’s unhappy with, he may let it fester however it’s his way of dealing with things.
This is certainly a time of the year where he is more likely to fall into negative thinking or entertaining disturbing thoughts in his head. He can feel a little bit but anxious, so it’s very important for you guys to keep up healthy routines in terms of eating and exercising. Right now, it’s all about knowing how to relax and release, encourage him to let go but nothing can be gained from applying pressure right now.
This is a really a good month for relationship bonding and making breakthroughs in a relationship, but the level of teamwork and trust you have in each other will be tested. It’s important to be a wise confidant, someone who is a shoulder to cry on and a supportive influence, but not necessarily someone who is pushy and domineering. This is not a time where he likes to be pressured into anything specific.
He is in a more romantic, dreamy frame of mind and so romance is definitely on the cards, alternatively sometimes he can invite in negativity through having unhelpful cycles of thought, so it’s important for you to stay upbeat and to remind him of the positives and to maintain the brave new directions you are following.
Don’t let him lose motivation, at the same time encourage him to do things at his own pace.
Wishing you love and luck with your Scorpio Man,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,