Welcome to the reading about Scorpio Man!
If you are in a relationship or just beginning a relationship with Scorpio Guy, then listen out. You really don’t want to be missing this reading for May, as with Jupiter, Uranus and the Sun in Taurus, his solar house of marriage; everything is pointing towards the relationship zone for Scorpio guy as an area of life that he is invested in, focused on and very excited about!
This is a month of new beginnings and fresh starts in love especially, and the universe has some exciting opportunities for discussion and resolution. As a Scorpio Guy, he’s known for his intensity, passion, and determination, and traits will come in handy as he navigates the challenges in terms of money and financial affairs.
This is also a time when he is looking for stability but also inspiration from relationships, so it’s important not only to be his lover but to be his guru, his best friend and someone who is a source of enthusiasm and ideas.
This is also a fabulous time to try new things together and have a fresh perspective on life.
Venus is Cancer Sextile trine Saturn (8th May)
This is a very positive aspect for long-distance relationships, and so these can become more stable and satisfying. It’s much more likely that you and your long-distance Scorpio lover can meet up during a leisure trip.
Business travel is likely, but you guys could easily mix business with pleasure.
Business ventures involving education, publishing and promotional activities tend to be very successful for him.
This aspect can also bring a sense of practicality to your love life, and you guys are more focused on building a strong foundation together. You and Scorpio Guy may find yourselves putting in the work to create a stable and secure relationship rather than just focusing on the excitement and passion of the moment.
This transit can also bring a sense of loyalty and dedication to the relationship and you are likely to want to plan for the future.
A more committed and down-to-earth attitude means that he’s willing to work through any challenges that arise.
Sun Conjunct Uranus in Taurus (May 9th)
Scorpio Guy is restless and bored right now, and he needs his partner to show him the way. He knows that he needs change and more excitement in his life, but he’s really not sure how to start, so it’s very helpful if his partner has a positive, insightful approach.
It’s also important for you to be independent and have a lot of interesting pursuits that you are following because, often these open up vistas for him too.
So he may benefit through your friends and your contacts, thus, it is a time to merge your social lives and your work lives.
Not only is it great for you and Scorpio Guy to be chatting about mutual friends, but you should also be talking shop and looking for synergies between your businesses because there may be ways in which you can help him.
Mercury direct in Taurus Conjunct Uranus (15th May)
Mercury direct in his seventh house is an astrological bonus in love as it can have a significant impact on improving relationships, cooperation and communication.
The solar seventh house is associated with negotiations and discussion, and with Mercury, the planet of communication, going direct, it’s much easier to make your point to Scorpio guy and find ways to reach agreement. It’s also a good indicator that the mood is lifting and that the relationship will be lightheaded and filled with banter and chat.
Remember that friendship and positive and friendly exchanges are key to relationships with Scorpio Guy – keep the mood buoyant and remember to put a positive, proactive spin on everything.
Always express yourself honestly, but without spite or aggression, and he’ll listen. This can signify a time of increased clarity and understanding in your relationship.
Jupiter enters Taurus (17th May)
This indicates an extremely fruitful time for marriage and the blossoming of relationships; if you are currently in a relationship with Scorpio Guy this marks the potential for a rebirth of your relationship, for sexual healing and for renewed positive communication.
However, it’s vital for you to lead the way, you need to be the advice giver, an ideas person in the relationship, and you can make all the difference through your attitude, don’t underestimate your ability to influence this relationship and its direction.
This is also a super time to be introduced to a Scorpio guy or to begin a more serious and interesting phase in your relationship. Scorpio Guy thrives in May when you, as his partner, are very proactive and are able to bring new ideas and enthusiasm into the relationship. He’s ready for something new, but he’s not sure how to achieve this and so you can be the beacon of light, the person who ups the ante and opens doors for him.
During May, you can have a positive and dynamic effect on his life or even his dealings with other people.
Remember to facilitate love by being generous and fair, which will encourage him to reciprocate. This is a positive time for him in business, and so let him know you are in his corner and ready to step up and help when required.
Mars in Leo Square Pluto (21st May)
During this transit, he may feel more assertive and determined to pursue new goals, which can lead to clashes with other people, including yourself, who may not share the same level of enthusiasm or confidence as he does.
While this transit can bring about a sense of frustration and tension, it can also be an opportunity for his growth and personal development as he learns to channel his energy in more constructive ways, but he’s going to bang his head and make some mistakes, but that’s how he learns, you can’t always save him from himself.
Theme of the Month – This is a wonderful time for a relationship rainbow event; even if you have been experiencing tension or challenges in your relationship, this is a great time to open up to each other and work on resolving any issues. With the planetary alignments in your favor, you and Scorpio Guy are able to forgive, deepen your bond and strengthen your relationship. The theme is a broad-minded, tolerant and philosophical attitude to love that takes everything forward.
Magic Phrase – “Together there’s nothing we can’t survive.”
Magic Text – “Our future is going to be brighter than ever before, and I can wait for our adventure to begin.”
To Do: Give him advice and be verbally supportive. Offer him support and be a sounding board for his ideas. Encourage debate and help him to see things logically. Help him with any business or travel planning.
Do keep going with an internet or long-distance relationship. Be genuine and be forgiving. Make him see the funny side of things.
Avoid: Don’t bear grudges, don’t be antagonistic. Give advice but don’t play devil’s advocate. Communicate frequently about light-hearted subjects. Be diplomatic but always be honest; no need for sharp criticism.
Week One – Searching for something
This week with Venus square Neptune, there is a sense of confusion and uncertainty in his personal and creative life. Issues arise concerning his transition into a new job or different work experience, conflict over shared finances, and unrest within the deeper aspects of his psyche.
Although this aspect signifies inspiration from a deep psychological level, creativity, self-expression, and good sex, it’s also quite a triggering, challenging aspect, and he may find himself struggling to express his feelings and to connect with you on a deeper level.
This transit can also bring about a sense of uncertainty and confusion deep in his soul, as he may be unsure of your true motivations and desires. This is why you have to be really clear and transparent.
He’s slightly more susceptible to deception and illusions and may struggle to see things clearly. It’s important to help him to be mindful of his actions and to stay grounded in reality during this transit, as he may be prone to making impulsive decisions or falling for unrealistic fantasies.
Week Two – Driving Forward in Love Lane
Scorpio guy may well make the move this week in terms of starting a relationship or beginning a more important and significant phase of your relationship.
The essential ingredients he’s looking for in love are a spirit of mutual respect and personal freedom. The great thing this week is that he’s not inclined to be possessive or jealous, and he won’t stand for this behavior from others either. In fact, be careful because he may choose to leave a relationship that isn’t allowing him to expand as a person.
This is a good time for you both to settle any disputes or legal problems you have had with your respective exes or with other people and contacts.
Forgiveness is key, and the sky’s the limit in terms of the relationship
Week Three – An Open Book
During this week, he may find it easier to communicate his thoughts and feelings to you, and this can be very welcome as he’s often quite secretive.
Encourage him to be proactive at work as his words and ideas are more likely to be well-received, and he can impress clients with his take on events.
It’s a great time to have conversations that may have been put off for a while or to resolve any lingering conflicts. Additionally, Mercury direct can bring opportunities for new internet relationships or love affairs based on communication and mutual interests to move forward.
He’s in need of your advice, and so don’t hold back if you have some encouraging ideas or ways to help him focus on new business ventures, because he’s a little unsure, but when you throw your penny’s worth in, he’s reassured.
Week Four – Deep Diving
During this week, he may be more willing to take risks and make bold financial moves as he seeks to build greater security and stability in your lives. Additionally, the Sun Square Saturn transit can bring about a sense of emotional transformation as he explores deeper feelings and emotions within himself and in your relationship.
Fortunately, he may be more willing to confront his fears and insecurities, which can lead to greater growth and personal development, ultimately meaning more satisfying intimacy.
May can be a powerful and transformative month astrologically, and it can bring about a greater sense of intimacy and depth in your relationship, as well as a focus on shared goals, teamwork and financial restructuring.
By being open to exploring your deeper emotions and using humor, positivity and common sense, you can navigate this month with grace and come out stronger on the other side.
Wishing you love and luck with your Scorpio Man,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,