What does a Scorpio man want sexually? Is he sexually attracted, or just being flirty?
If questions like this run through your mind, you’re not alone. Scorpio men radiate sex appeal, yet they are the embodiment of mystery. Their enigmatic nature makes them challenging to understand.
Have we met? I’m Anna Kovach, a relationship astrologer with an international client base. For the past twenty years, I’ve helped women just like you understand their Scorpio men.
Scorpios are secretive, but I’ve learned to decode the physical signals a man born under this deep and erotic sign conveys when he’s serious abotu a woman. I can help you unravel the mysteries of your Scorpio man, starting by understanding his love signals.
1. A Scorpio man likes innocence
One of the biggest Scorpio man turn ons is a woman with an innocent demeanor. He is obsessed with a woman who has a ‘girl next door’ image.
Although Scorpios are known for being lusty and intense, they are attracted to gentle and passive women.
If you are too sexually forward, you might turn him off. Scorpio men fantasize about being more knowledgeable and experienced than their partners. Let him believe he’s the first to introduce you to a world of pleasure.
2. He stares intensely
When a Scorpio man likes you as more than a friend, he can’t take his eyes off you. His intense stare can be intimidating. He may not realize that this sign of sexual interest seems intrusive at first.
But when a Scorpio man is obsessed with you, he looks deep into your eyes.
He may become uncharacteristically quiet, but his eyes give his feelings away. He won’t be able to stop watching your every move.
3. Watch out for signs of jealousy
How do Scorpio men act when they like you? One of the signs a Scorpio man is physically attracted to you is when he becomes jealous easily. If you talk about your other guy friends and he becomes visibly unhappy, his possessive side is showing.
This is a red flag for most guys but a Scorpio man shows jealousy when he’s serious about you. He can’t stop thinking about you and fears someone else will be more appealing to you.
When he shows you he is jealous, a Scorpio man gives himself away. He wants to be the only man you admire and becomes sensitive to rejection or competition. He might question who you’re talking to or how you know a guy who smiles at you. But this is one of the ways he shows he cares.
4. He talks in riddles
A Scorpio man who wants you sexually leaves a complicated set of clues in his path. He might drop hints, but he becomes unusually cryptic. A Scorpio man can be articulate and expressive until it comes to something- or someone- he’s passionate about.
When he’s serious about you, he wants to keep his sensitive feelings concealed. He may talk in riddles and leave confusing hints among the mixed signals he shows. When he can’t answer a simple question in a straightforward way, his elusiveness is a sign he’s interested in you.
If you ask about his interests and he gives you vague, nonanswers, he’s trying to lead you down a rabbit hole.
He’s making you work for his attention and testing you to see how you will respond. He wants to know if you are willing to work for his attention.
5. He plays hard to get
What do Scorpio men desire sexually? This sign more than any other craves the chase. They enjoy the thrill of pursuit and if you are too eager, they lose interest. That’s why a Scorpio man who is really into you plays hard to get.
If your Scorpio man overtly flirts with you but then backs away when you show interest, don’t give up hope. This is a common behavior Scorpio men display when they are truly obsessed. The cat and mouse game keeps their interest and protects their vulnerable side- both essential to a sensitive Scorpio man.
But what if a Scorpio man is distant because he’s not attracted to you? How can you tell the difference? If a Scorpio man is trying to let you down gently, he will cut off communication altogether. He doesn’t want to give you false hope. But if he continually seeks your attention, then runs hot and cold, he’s attracted to you.
6. He flaunts his power
Scorpio is ruled by Mars and Pluto, two planets associated with power and authority. It’s no wonder men born under this sign find power so seductive. When a Scorpio wants to impress you, he will flaunt his authority.
He entices you by showing his power and acting calm and in control at all times. He may dress to convey power, and loves wearing suits, uniforms, and outfits that make him seem edgy. He may show off his status and use money to impress you.
A Scorpio man shows he is obsessed with you when he carefully cultivates an image of status and control. He is trying to seduce you when he shows off his achievements.
7. He acts overprotective
Some of the things a Scorpio man does when he likes you can be enticing. But other behaviors can be frustrating, especially if you don’t understand his reasoning. When a Scorpio man is sexually obsessed, he becomes overprotective.
He may act paternal and check in on you. His behavior can border on controlling which is a lot for an independent woman to deal with. But being concerned with your health, safety, and wellbeing make a Scorpio man feel secure. He uses overprotective tendencies to show you he cares.
If you can take his overbearing personality in stride, you can coax a Scorpio man to become more affectionate, emotionally expressive, and demonstrative without being insecure and smothering.
…And, in case you’re still not seeing these signs of your Scorpio man being sexually attracted to you, i suggest you get your self a copy of my 27 Dirty Phrases That Turn Scorpio Man On here.
So, is your Scorpio man showing signs he’s sexually obsessed with you? I want to hear from you.
Sending You Love,
Your Sister And Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
