Would you know the signs a Scorpio man is playing you? Men born under this sign are secretive and mysterious. How do you know if a Scorpio man secretly likes you and is playing hard to get?
If these questions keep you up at night, you’re not alone. Women just like you struggle to unravel the deep desires of their Scorpio men. But I can help you recognize his secret attraction signs.
My name is Anna Kovach and I am a relationship astrologer with over twenty years of experience helping women worldwide. I’ve studied Scorpio men and understand the hidden cues they hope you’ll never learn…
1. He becomes possessive
When a Scorpio man likes you as more than a friend, you’ll see him show toxic traits when other guys are around. If you talk favorably about your male friends, watch for his jealous reaction. Just don’t push him too far, provoking his jealousy is never wise.
A Scorpio man with a crush on you becomes possessive and wants all your attention to himself. He doesn’t want to risk you finding someone else attractive and can become dominating when he likes you.
2. He uses sarcasm to deflect his feelings
Scorpios are known for their wit and clever nature. They have an edgy side, but you may not realize when a Scorpio man has crossed the line to sarcasm as a way to hide his attraction to you. Pay attention when a Scorpio man suddenly acts snarky.
A Scorpio man shows you he cares about you by covering his feelings with sarcasm and taking an edgy approach. He can seem cranky, but this is often a sign he has a secret crush on you, so don’t dismiss his attitude as a bad sign.
3. He stares at you intensely
What’s behind a Scorpio man’s stare? Though it can be unsettling, when a Scorpio man stares at you it’s a sign of interest. He is attracted to you and may not even realize he’s getting lost in your eyes. His unrelenting gaze can make you feel exposed, but he is reading your expression.
A Scorpio man studies you and takes in your reactions. He’s observant and recognizes cues and signals you don’t even know you are sending, this can be intimidating but a Scorpio man can’t take his eyes off you when he likes you.
One of the body language signs a Scorpio man likes you is when he can’t break eye contact easily. If he focuses on you, he is deeply attracted and wants to be with you.
4. He turns on the charm and flirts with you
Scorpio men are romantic, but they act seductive and charming when they like you. He may flirt so heavily you assume he is a player. But if he goes out of his way to charm you, your Scorpio love interest is showing you he cares.
A hidden attraction sign is when he makes flirty jokes and innuendoes. Don’t assume he’s like this with everyone. A Scorpio man needs a captive audience and knows how to flirt and keep you focused on him.
5. He conveys power
Scorpio men want to be seen as authorities. When a guy born under this sign likes you he conveys power and shows confidence. He may talk about his money and accomplishments to impress you, projecting status through how he speaks, and how he dresses.
A Scorpio man with a hidden crush strives to communicate how influential he is. He carries power and authority when he likes you. You might feel a magnetic attraction to him because he intentionally conveys his sensual power, making himself irresistible.
Do Scorpios play mind games? Men born under this sign are masterful influencers… and manipulators. If a Scorpio man wants you to see how powerful and incontrol he is, chances are he likes you.
6. He spends money on you
You can tell when a Scorpio man likes you as more than a friend because he spends money on you. When he surprises you with jewelry, pricey tokens of his affection, and other thoughtful presents, it is a sign he is attracted to you.
Scorpio men are materialistic. They view money as a form of power and use their resources, money, and connections to treat you to luxury gifts and experiences when they like you. If your Scorpio runs up a tab on expensive drinks or showers you with high ticket gifts, it’s a good sign of his romantic interest.
7. He asks probing questions
Scorpio men are natural detectives. If a Scorpio guy asks you deep and probing questions, he’s serious about you. Men born under this sign want to get to know you on a deep level when they care. They might ask revealing questions like an investigative journalist when they are trying to get to know you.
This catches women off guard. You might find it off-putting when a Scorpio asks about your personal life. But if you understand his psyche, you’ll realize this is a beneficial sign of a Scorpio man’s interest.
8. He becomes seductive but doesn’t seek instant gratification
If your Scorpio man is eager to get into bed with you, he may not be romantically interested. Women often get confused when Scorpio becomes seductive. A sensual Scorpio who savors the courtship and doesn’t rush to sleep with you is showing you he cares.
But if sex seems to be a priority, beware. Your Scorpio love interest might be more interested in a one night stand than a real relationship. Look for signs a Scorpio man is sexually attracted to you but doesn’t just focus on sex.
If he’s seductive but slows down when things heat up, he’s not giving you mixed signals. He’s showing you he cares.
Your Scorpio man studies you to learn your subtle cues. Are you watching him as closely? If you do, you’ll see the signs he’s romantically interested in you. And if you’re still unsure, drop me a line. I can’t wait to hear from you.
If you want to keep a Scorpio man hooked—mentally, emotionally, and physically—you need to speak his language.
That’s exactly what I help you do in my guide, Magic Phrases.
It’s full of playful, irresistible things to say that spark his curiosity and make him crave more of you.
If you’re ready to move from casual interest to real connection, this is your secret weapon.
With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
