How do Scorpios react to no contact? Should I wait for a Scorpio man to contact me?
Men born under this sign are charming, seductive, and also confusing. If you lose sleep wondering how to keep him obsessed with you, you’re not alone.
If we haven’t met, I’m Anna Kovach. As a relationship astrologer with decades of experience helping women worldwide strengthen their connection with their Scorpio men. I’ve relied on the wisdom of the cosmos to help women just like you transform their relationships with Scorpio men.
When it comes to a No Contact Rule with a Scorpio guy, there are some critical things to keep in mind. You can undermine your relationship and do irreversible damage if you use this tactic too frequently.
1. He’ll assume the worst
Leaving a Scorpio man alone can have unintended consequences. When you ignore a Scorpio man, he doesn’t become more motivated to chase you. Instead, he assumes the worst. He may jump to the conclusion that you are cheating or that you’ve lost interest in him. This can lead him into a downward spiral.
One of the worst things you can do in a relationship with a Scorpio man is to trigger his suspicious nature. If you go No Contact with a Scorpio, you run the risk of turning him off and making him question your motives, which can have devastating consequences for your relationship.
2. He occasionally needs downtime- at his own pace
A Scorpio man can become so intense that he overwhelms himself in relationships. He does need space occasionally, but he needs to be the one to decide when. Put another way, a Scoprio man feels justified when he practices a No Contact Rule with a woman he loves, but if she tries this on him, it’s a whole different story. He will be deeply offended if you pull away before he does.
Yet, if he has already become distant, practicing a No Contact Rule with a Scorpio man briefly can excite his passion. He may come around and chase you again as long as you let him set the pace and be the one to initiate downtime.
If a Scorpio man starts to shut down, don’t panic. Avoid chasing him, and let him guide how much you contact him. But if everything is going well, don’t use a No Contact Rule to test his loyalty, any tests of faith or commitment will backfire as soon as he realizes you’re trying to steer him.
3. He might become vengeful
Scorpio men have a dark side. If you shut down on a Scorpio man, his petty side emerges. A Scorpio guy can become downright vengeful if he feels hurt and being ignored is typically a guaranteed way to hurt his feelings.
When you follow a No Contact Rule with a Scorpio, he may think you are challenging him to a battle of wills. And no matter how determined you are, he will outlast you. A Scorpio man will push you away out of spite if he thinks you are shutting down because you lost interest.
He may become jealous or assume you are not interested anymore which will trip up his insecure and sensitive side.
4. He doesn’t easily forgive
Some men can be flexible and quick to forgive and forget, but not a Scorpio man. If you are frivolous when following a No Contact Rule with a Scorpio man, no amount of explaining will make up for his hurt feelings. He may not forgive you for toying with his mind if that is what he thinks you are doing.
One of the most enduring consequences of following a No Contact Rule with a Scorpio guy is that he may not give you a second chance. He might shut down and disappear if you go silent on him. What happens when you stop chasing a Scorpio man is that he becomes more interested in you.
But if you ignore his messages, he will take it personally. This can be deemed unforgivable by a sensitive Scorpio man.
5. He will take ghosting personally
If you’re wondering how to turn the tables on a Scorpio man, you may be plotting a no-win strategy. He is more likely to feel insulted and take ghosting personally than he is to chase you. You must be subtle if you want to play mind games with a Scorpio man. Instead of a full No Contact Rule, slow down and wait for him to initiate contact more often than you.
If you pull away and ignore him, even briefly, this could backfire. You might risk losing him when you were only trying to get him to take you seriously. Avoiding contact is not the same as not chasing, and while pursuing him can be overwhelming, it’s never a good idea to outright ghost a Scorpio man unless you want to end things with him.
6. He will sabotage to prove a point
If you want to know how to make a Scorpio man miss you like crazy, slow down and be strategic. Fill your calendar with various interesting and exciting events. Respond to him, but avoid being too available. If you drop all contact, he will become vindictive.
Scorpio men are known to sabotage relationships just to prove that they are in control. If you give him an excuse to go on the defensive, it will be nearly impossible to get him to refocus. Don’t underestimate how willful and stubborn a Scorpio guy can be. He may love you, but if he is put on the defensive, all bets might be off.
He’ll go to great lengths to prove his strength and protect himself, even if it requires sabotaging the bond with a woman he loves.
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With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach.
