Are you and a Scorpio having a casual flirtationship this summer? Are you interested in progressing this casual relationship into something more serious? How can you do that and what is the Scorpio looking for in a serious relationship?

The Scorpio man has one mode in committed relationships, and that is obsessed. You have his unwavering attention if he is your partner and it can verge on being overwhelming! This is a far cry from how it feels to have a fling with a Scorpio man, which can feel like having a fling with anyone else. 

You have to show him that you’re worth putting his all into before he will open up enough to become totally serious. He needs to be able to see why he would put all of his dedication and energy into you before he does so. Because once he falls, he’s all yours! 

As a Relationship Astrologer, I have seen what it takes to make a Scorpio man totally obsessed with you even if the two of you began as something casual. I’m glad you’re here, because I think I can give you the advice you truly needed to hear to escalate and improve your relationship with the Scorpio man! 

Show Him You’re No Dummy

Scorpios may not be known for their intelligence like the Gemini, Virgo, or Sagittarius, but this is because the Scorpio has a very different type of intelligence. They just seem to know things intuitively. They understand who a person truly is before they even spend a lot of time with them. Being a water sign, Scorpio’s sense things on a level that many of us just can’t put a finger on.

If you show that you also understand hidden truths that others have difficulty seeing, like knowing that someone is bad news way before everyone else, then the Scorpio is going to notice (they notice everything). 

Do you consider yourself to have impeccable judgement? Do you just have feelings about people that end up being right? If you do, then go ahead and show this part of you to him! Don’t stay silent about these feelings as you might with others. The Scorpio will understand just what you mean and may even begin to realize that there is more to you than meets the eye.

Stay True To You

As I mentioned, a Scorpio can sense a person’s true nature. This means that if you are putting on a display in order to seduce him, he is going to know more quickly than any other sign and he won’t be impressed by this lack of authenticity. 

If you react exactly the way that you actually feel and refuse to put on an act, then you’ll have the Scorpio guy thinking that he wants to be with you for way longer than this summer! This is a trait that is so hard to find, and the Scorpio is going to adore the fact that you feel you can be real with them. 

If you feel the need to hide who you really are in front of others then cut that out around the Scorpio. Show him your insecurities, be confident about what you’re good at, and express your real emotions as intensely as you want. This is going to make the Scorpio wonder where you’ve been all his life!

Tell Him Your Secrets… But Not All Of Them

Scorpio is associated with Pluto, which rules taboo. This means that Scorpios often embrace all of the things that society deems as too scandalous to see the light of day. This just adds to the sexy Scorpio aura. He shows just enough to entice but not enough to disgust, and that’s the Scorpio talent. 

He is just the type of guy who likes to keep things to himself. Don’t mistake this for being inauthentic, take this as someone who very much values his privacy! However, this doesn’t mean that the Scorpio doesn’t want to know others’ secrets… In fact, he loves nothing more than being the only one another trusts with their classified information! 

So, it does help a Scorpio to feel close to you if they know some of your secrets… but not too many! This is because the Scorpio will not rest until he knows all of your secrets. He will be itching to get to the point where you’re comfortable expressing your hidden factoids… and this will endear him to you well past the end of summer if you play your cards right!

Read next: 5 Signs That A Scorpio Man Wants To Commit To You

Show Him That He Can Trust You

The Scorpio is a secretive creature, this is for sure. But he also knows that a relationship with someone involves honesty. So, it can be challenging for him to find someone that he trusts enough to be completely open and honest with. If you can be that person then you are already at a huge advantage. 

You would be well advised to go ahead and lock your mouth and throw away the key after the Scorpio tells you something deeply personal. If the Scorpio realizes that you never shared what it was that took so much for them to say then you are well on your way to securing something more long term with him!

My other piece of advice to further convince to him that you’re a great secret keeper is to keep your lips sealed, even with him, when the secrets of other come up. This will demonstrate to him directly that you are great secret-keeper and totally trustworthy. You’ll be well on the way from hanging out on an island in the sun to snuggling under the mistletoe!

Are you in a relationship with a Scorpio that started as a summer fling? What did you do to secure your spot in his heart for the long term? You know I’ve got to know! Tell me all about it in the comments.

Are you unsure if you’re really meant to be with a Scorpio for the long term? Are you with a Scorpio man and need a sign that it’s time to end things? Take my quiz here to find out if he’s genuinely the sign that you’re meant to keep around forever! 

And if you are willing to dive deeper than anyone else in order to understand, attract, keep, and grow a relationship with a Scorpio man then you’ve got to check out my book, Scorpio Man Secrets, where you’ll find everything that you need to know about the Scorpio man! Check it out right here.

Wishing you all the luck in the Universe, 

Anna Kovach